Busting Loose from the LOVE game...

[Kishka]

So, just like the Money game, there is obviously a LOVE game set up with rules and regulations, but keep us in lack. Similarly, that frustration of 'lack', leads us to want more, to 'bust loose' from society's (our) rules to find the infinite love we should all be experiencing...

I want to explore what those rules and regulations are which lead many of us to feel love frustration...I'll go first. The first regulation is monogamy!

Who's next?

[ButterflyWoman]

Gender.

Love who you love, and don't worry so much about the plumbing.

[Kishka]

Originally Posted by CaterpillarWoman

Gender.

Love who you love, and don't worry so much about the plumbing.

So true CW!

[Gaia333]

I'm bumping up this thread because its a matter I am still chewing on. Other than doing the Process, having an analytical conversation on SR really supports me.

I'm so delighted that each day I grow more and more certain that I am infinitely wealthy. That's huge for me. Ive not bought a million dollar apartment yet, but I am certain, thanks to my BL work, that that moment is right around the corner.

But - can others please contribute more thoughts on Busting Loose in regards to relationships? What are other rules we believe to be true but are actually limitations? How have others come to terms with people are not real (nor are we) etc. A popular thread on every IM forum is "can I bring back an ex". I have no interest in that, but according to BL, you could, right?

How I once saw/believed in lack of money, I am not working on lack of a romantic relationship. I appreciate everyone's thoughts.

[Wax Frog]

In case you missed it - Busting Loose From The Relationships Game

[Gaia333]

I saw that that book existed but for the life of me, I couldn't pop any of it into my hologram. I've never actually seen the book or read any excerpts. But thanks...I'll peruse the link again.

[Cochonette]

Originally Posted by Kishka

So, just like the Money game, there is obviously a LOVE game set up with rules and regulations, but keep us in lack. Similarly, that frustration of 'lack', leads us to want more, to 'bust loose' from society's (our) rules to find the infinite love we should all be experiencing...

I want to explore what those rules and regulations are which lead many of us to feel love frustration...I'll go first. The first regulation is monogamy!

Who's next?

Well, for me... I shunned the love game for a while. I couldn't seem to find this type of relationship, nor was I certain that it was for me. And I've been told that back in the day I came across as... uninterested in a relationship. Heh. Now I've opened myself up, and um... I'm not sure it's made much difference!

Not sure what "infinite love" is. To me, love is what makes life worth living. Not just of the sexual nature.

But... I think it's best if I not really think about finding anyone because it still seems that I was not cut out for falling in love with many people. I can ask people out if I want, but don't think about it much except the actions I need to take. Don't dwell on it.