Intention/Manifestation..On the Fly...

[Kishka]

For those who regularly use IM, do you practice I/M on the fly? Meaning if you're in a situation that is getting out of hand...for instance, a friend who talks too much, would you use I/M to get them to shut up for a second, cause you want to get a word in edgewise? lolol..

[danas]

Originally Posted by Kishka

For those who regularly use IM, do you practice I/M on the fly? Meaning if you're in a situation that is getting out of hand...for instance, a friend who talks too much, would you use I/M to get them to shut up for a second, cause you want to get a word in edgewise? lolol..

I do it with the train when Im in a rush, or even if Im in a lecture. But Ive never used it while in a conversation with someone. Because Im usually too busy talking or listening.
If something/someone is really annoying its harder because you really need to let go and be in a peaceful place for LOA to work from my experience.
BTW- I love your new avatar that's a cool dress!

[Kishka]

Thanks danas!

I actually did use some 'on the fly' I/M during a conversation with a 'chatty' friend of mine today. She's a bit stressed about a guy, and needs to vent, I get it.

But after hearing the story over and over again, I imagined her pausing and saying 'well, anyway...' and she did exactly that about 15 seconds later. I needed to get off the phone! :P

[marinik]

Originally Posted by Kishka

Thanks danas!

I actually did use some 'on the fly' I/M during a conversation with a 'chatty' friend of mine today. She's a bit stressed about a guy, and needs to vent, I get it.

But after hearing the story over and over again, I imagined her pausing and saying 'well, anyway...' and she did exactly that about 15 seconds later. I needed to get off the phone! :P

I do this all the time. I had an appointment yesterday at 2 p.m. but at 12:30 p.m. I thought it would be good if I could move it forward. I got a SMS 10 seconds later asking me if I could come 1 hour earlier!!!!
Or if I am in a tough negotiation I would set an intention for it to end in a positive way for all concerned and it almost always does.
The same with boring conversations.... setting and intention to be on time when I am running late, I would arrive to my destination 15 min. late just find out they are 20 min. behind schedule.... rock star parking is also my specialty. I always find parking in front of the door of the venue I am going to.... the list goes on and on...

[Silenced140]

It's worked for me.

When i want someone to shut up or just quit doing something, i focus on that in my mind.

Some idiot talking about weird crap is making me look bad.. I just visualize for a few seconds and within 15-20 seconds they leave.



I'm next to some attractive girls, but im having a shy day, so i do the same mental technique again which may involve visualization or affirmation... and then something happens where we are bumped into eachother or a friend introduces us and then the whole conversation starts effortlessly.

[geniegal]

It's bonkers isn't it. I do it with my toddler - we approach nursery and I make him not cry with my mind. Started this aweek ago after a years screaming when i left him....day 1 a bit of a grumble but no crying then by the end of the week just a big smile

wow!

[Kishka]

Originally Posted by Silenced140

It's worked for me.

When i want someone to shut up or just quit doing something, i focus on that in my mind.

Some idiot talking about weird crap is making me look bad.. I just visualize for a few seconds and within 15-20 seconds they leave.



I'm next to some attractive girls, but im having a shy day, so i do the same mental technique again which may involve visualization or affirmation... and then something happens where we are bumped into eachother or a friend introduces us and then the whole conversation starts effortlessly.

...ooh, okay I think I have my game plan when it comes to guys. Lately they are approaching with friendly, interesting conversation, because I set the intention that I am welcoming and encouraging, but no dates yet. Hmm, so I need to take the intention further.