create your own reality

[icutoffheads]

You create your own reality or you don't. That's your choice to. You can experience whatever you want. That's the beauty of life, and how existence truly loves you, by allowing you to do whatever you want. To believe and experience whatever you want. So if you want to believe that all LoAers are crazy and nobody creates their own reality, you can and will experience that. If you want to believe you create your own reality, you can and will experience that (it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

That's why the IMers with doubt create the experience of it maybe working, but not really working and so it sustains the experience of their state of being, which is wanting to experience creating their own reality, but being doubtful and afraid to let go of old beliefs at the same time.

Which is the only reason why I say, if you have doubt in your reality PAY ATTENTION TO IT. Because it's like a road flare screaming "SEE?! I EXIST! AND I EXIST BECAUSE YOU CREATED ME! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT YOURSELF! BE HONEST! SEE?! ME (doubt in your reality) AND YOU INSIDE ARE THE SAME THING!" Perfect time to wake yourself up and at the same a perfect opportunity to ACCEPT more of yourself and GAIN more of yourself and TRULY LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

and again, don't listen to me. listen to yourself. this is about you and only you can tell you who and what you truly are. only you can allow certain things to work for you. only you create your reality, why not create your own process that works for you, your own way of viewing this all, a way you feel comfortable and happy about, your own way of experiencing life based on what will work for you, what will make you feel the way you want to.

[Maguru]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

You create your own reality or you don't.

I think this could read 'either you are aware of creating your own reality or you're not'.

That's your choice to. You can experience whatever you want. That's the beauty of life, and how existence truly loves you, by allowing you to do whatever you want. To believe and experience whatever you want. So if you want to believe that all LoAers are crazy and nobody creates their own reality, you can and will experience that. If you want to believe you create your own reality, you can and will experience that (it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

That's why the IMers with doubt create the experience of it maybe working, but not really working and so it sustains the experience of their state of being, which is wanting to experience creating their own reality, but being doubtful and afraid to let go of old beliefs at the same time.

Which is the only reason why I say, if you have doubt in your reality PAY ATTENTION TO IT. Because it's like a road flare screaming "SEE?! I EXIST! AND I EXIST BECAUSE YOU CREATED ME! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT YOURSELF! BE HONEST! SEE?! ME (doubt in your reality) AND YOU INSIDE ARE THE SAME THING!" Perfect time to wake yourself up and at the same a perfect opportunity to ACCEPT more of yourself and GAIN more of yourself and TRULY LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

and again, don't listen to me. listen to yourself. this is about you and only you can tell you who and what you truly are. only you can allow certain things to work for you. only you create your reality, why not create your own process that works for you, your own way of viewing this all, a way you feel comfortable and happy about, your own way of experiencing life based on what will work for you, what will make you feel the way you want to.

Don't you think that whatever power is creating from within us, it is creating all the time?

[icutoffheads]

Yes I agree with you it definitely creates all the time. Aware would be a better word. I was trying to get at the point that if you believe you don't create your own reality you are creating a reality to reflect that, so aware would be a much better word.

[ellie]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

I can only speak from personal experience. I would look within, figure out why I keep choosing to experience that, see why I keep choosing that state of being to experience, whether it be a belief I have about myself or the world, the way I perceive myself or the world, an old memory, or just fear. Understand myself and why I choose to experience that.

I'd realize that that's not how it has to be at all. I'd then figure out exactly how I want the situation to be and work out for me, and choose that instead.

That's all the whole process is.

It's choosing what you want to experience. Bottom line. You choose your state of being then you experience it. You may have beliefs, or perceptions or whatever telling you "no that's too far" or "you can't do this" or "you have to be sad all the time" or whatever. But the truth is you can choose whatever state of being you want, and experience it, all of the "no you can't"'s are just walls you put up for one reason or another, whether it be social conditioning, past experience, or fear or whatever. It's not true you can experience whatever you want. Whatever state of being you want. Bottom line. Even one free of those fears and doubts, by just choosing it. Life can be as easy or as hard as you want it to be.

You don't have to live life like that, at all. Why do you keep telling yourself that you do?

FEAR
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Thanks Icutoffmyhands I guess I must be thinking like this unsubconsciously. I now have to master to get what I want without it

[icutoffheads]

find what works for you. maybe you need to just slooooowwww down a little, make "time" itself less stressful for you. you experience it as fast or slow as you want.

[Maguru]

Originally Posted by ellie

Thanks Icutoffmyhands I guess I must be thinking like this unsubconsciously. I now have to master to get what I want without it

Hey Ellie, he cuts off heads not hands.

[ellie]

Originally Posted by Maguru

Hey Ellie, he cuts off heads not hands.

Ha ha! heads, hands the same thing

[MacFly]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

You create your own reality or you don't. That's your choice to. You can experience whatever you want. That's the beauty of life, and how existence truly loves you, by allowing you to do whatever you want. To believe and experience whatever you want. So if you want to believe that all LoAers are crazy and nobody creates their own reality, you can and will experience that. If you want to believe you create your own reality, you can and will experience that (it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

That's why the IMers with doubt create the experience of it maybe working, but not really working and so it sustains the experience of their state of being, which is wanting to experience creating their own reality, but being doubtful and afraid to let go of old beliefs at the same time.

Which is the only reason why I say, if you have doubt in your reality PAY ATTENTION TO IT. Because it's like a road flare screaming "SEE?! I EXIST! AND I EXIST BECAUSE YOU CREATED ME! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT YOURSELF! BE HONEST! SEE?! ME (doubt in your reality) AND YOU INSIDE ARE THE SAME THING!" Perfect time to wake yourself up and at the same a perfect opportunity to ACCEPT more of yourself and GAIN more of yourself and TRULY LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

and again, don't listen to me. listen to yourself. this is about you and only you can tell you who and what you truly are. only you can allow certain things to work for you. only you create your reality, why not create your own process that works for you, your own way of viewing this all, a way you feel comfortable and happy about, your own way of experiencing life based on what will work for you, what will make you feel the way you want to.

amazing

thank you once again

[Ingenius]

Well, I have bookmarked this thread, even when I am afraid that this guy will cut off my hands (yeah, I did it on purpose, it was a funny confusion No offense meant.)

When I read your posts, something within me resonates with all you say. Then I try to apprehend it mentally and questions arise. However, I'm reluctant to start questioning, I feel that if I do ask questions, I'm settling down the doubt by doing it, creating barriers already. And above all, as you say, answers (even in a non-mental form) are already within me. Answers ARE me... if that makes any sense.

So, no questions about the "how" or "when" will be asked.

Thank you so much, man, I will keep up at looking within me.

Daniel.

[Karanime]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

It never goes faster than you allow it to. It will never be too much for you to handle. It is you.

Forever.

/<3

[Karanime]

Originally Posted by Ingenius

Well, I have bookmarked this thread, even when I am afraid that this guy will cut off my hands (yeah, I did it on purpose, it was a funny confusion No offense meant.)

When I read your posts, something within me resonates with all you say. Then I try to apprehend it mentally and questions arise. However, I'm reluctant to start questioning, I feel that if I do ask questions, I'm settling down the doubt by doing it, creating barriers already. And above all, as you say, answers (even in a non-mental form) are already within me. Answers ARE me... if that makes any sense.

So, no questions about the "how" or "when" will be asked.

Thank you so much, man, I will keep up at looking within me.

Daniel.

Eh. Ask the questions.

Just don't look for the answers outside of yourself. There aren't any.

/<3

[Brown Eyed Mystic]

Originally Posted by Cloverhart

ghandi...love it!!

It's 'Gandhi'
And, love it too.

[OlderWiser]

Originally Posted by Ingenius

Then I try to apprehend it mentally and questions arise. However, I'm reluctant to start questioning, I feel that if I do ask questions, I'm settling down the doubt by doing it, creating barriers already.

Nah. Questions arise. Ask them if you want to. Eventually, though, you really do get to a point where you stop asking, not out of fear or concern, but because you know that neither the questions nor the answers actually mean anything.

Wow. How guru-sounding. Sorry about that. It's just that I came to a point where I realised: I don't have questions. It was a very shocking thing for me, because historically I've been an overthinker in every way, including constant questions. I'm still kind of awed by the realisation that I don't really need to ask questions (though I do still ask them, because I can if I want ), and I like to pass it on.

Anyway, questions arise. Ask them if you want to ask them.

[RagsToRiches]

....

Inspiration is a great state, but does not necessarily last forever.

I believe in intention manifestation.

But I also belive in being realistic in moments of inspiration. It's easy to believe you've found all the answers one minute, and then come crashing down the next.

Much better to sail inspiration, but not ride it like a rocket, and just think "Yeah this is great, let's see what happens next."

[billionairekid]

Originally Posted by EireChick

Agree as well! I know that last month something just clicked for me in terms of progression --

sidebar: does anyone else experience that? That progression comes in waves, not little ripples? No progression for a little while, then something clicks and you move forward a LOT? Just curious --

I have experienced this over and over during the past 3 years. I try and try and try some more to no avail and then one day, BAM! I'll make massive progress while doing something totally unrelated to the situation or challenge I was trying to figure out. I've actually noticed that I have a specific pattern of progress.

I'm interested in finding out more information about the 80/20 principle. It's something like 20% of your effort produces 80% of your results and vice versa.

As far as creating my own reality goes, I've been struggling for a while. I jump back and forth between wanting to experiment with IM using the law of attraction and other ideas and being so frustrated with IM that I put it off completely. I'm not beginning to see the causes of my frustration and how old beliefs colored my perception of IM.

I've once again come back to the idea that I am the creator of my reality but I have new vigor this time. I have a much deeper understanding of what that means and I'm working on shaping my existence. Although I still have some confusion. How do I get clear about what I want to create? For instance, I'd like to create an abundance of money in my life. I want to have the freedom to spend it however I want. Do I focus on attracting a specific amount or would a general stance of creating total abundance in my life be more beneficial?

[Ufaq]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

You create your own reality or you don't. That's your choice to. You can experience whatever you want. That's the beauty of life, and how existence truly loves you, by allowing you to do whatever you want. To believe and experience whatever you want. So if you want to believe that all LoAers are crazy and nobody creates their own reality, you can and will experience that. If you want to believe you create your own reality, you can and will experience that (it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

That's why the IMers with doubt create the experience of it maybe working, but not really working and so it sustains the experience of their state of being, which is wanting to experience creating their own reality, but being doubtful and afraid to let go of old beliefs at the same time.

Which is the only reason why I say, if you have doubt in your reality PAY ATTENTION TO IT. Because it's like a road flare screaming "SEE?! I EXIST! AND I EXIST BECAUSE YOU CREATED ME! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT YOURSELF! BE HONEST! SEE?! ME (doubt in your reality) AND YOU INSIDE ARE THE SAME THING!" Perfect time to wake yourself up and at the same a perfect opportunity to ACCEPT more of yourself and GAIN more of yourself and TRULY LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

and again, don't listen to me. listen to yourself. this is about you and only you can tell you who and what you truly are. only you can allow certain things to work for you. only you create your reality, why not create your own process that works for you, your own way of viewing this all, a way you feel comfortable and happy about, your own way of experiencing life based on what will work for you, what will make you feel the way you want to.

truly amazin and clearly what i want all people to understand ...
thanking you
Ufaq

[nicbrahms]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

You create your own reality or you don't. That's your choice to. You can experience whatever you want. That's the beauty of life, and how existence truly loves you, by allowing you to do whatever you want. To believe and experience whatever you want. So if you want to believe that all LoAers are crazy and nobody creates their own reality, you can and will experience that. If you want to believe you create your own reality, you can and will experience that (it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

That's why the IMers with doubt create the experience of it maybe working, but not really working and so it sustains the experience of their state of being, which is wanting to experience creating their own reality, but being doubtful and afraid to let go of old beliefs at the same time.

Which is the only reason why I say, if you have doubt in your reality PAY ATTENTION TO IT. Because it's like a road flare screaming "SEE?! I EXIST! AND I EXIST BECAUSE YOU CREATED ME! LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT YOURSELF! BE HONEST! SEE?! ME (doubt in your reality) AND YOU INSIDE ARE THE SAME THING!" Perfect time to wake yourself up and at the same a perfect opportunity to ACCEPT more of yourself and GAIN more of yourself and TRULY LEARN FROM EXPERIENCE.

and again, don't listen to me. listen to yourself. this is about you and only you can tell you who and what you truly are. only you can allow certain things to work for you. only you create your reality, why not create your own process that works for you, your own way of viewing this all, a way you feel comfortable and happy about, your own way of experiencing life based on what will work for you, what will make you feel the way you want to.

Not entirely correct, you create your own reality whether you choose to accept you do or don't. You can't choose to not create your reality, cause you are still creating it just not deliberately as many of us were not.

Sorry I thought it important to make this distinction, as you made it sound as though you can opt out of creating it.

[billionairekid]

Originally Posted by nicbrahms

Not entirely correct, you create your own reality whether you choose to accept you do or don't. You can't choose to not create your reality, cause you are still creating it just not deliberately as many of us were not.

Sorry I thought it important to make this distinction, as you made it sound as though you can opt out of creating it.

I think that you could choose to be a victim of circumstances. Of course, you're creating those circumstances but it's all on autopilot. Does autopilot count as being creative?

[nicbrahms]

Originally Posted by billionairekid

I think that you could choose to be a victim of circumstances. Of course, you're creating those circumstances but it's all on autopilot. Does autopilot count as being creative?

Yes, its all creating, whatever the circumstance.

[EireChick]

Originally Posted by billionairekid

I have experienced this over and over during the past 3 years. I try and try and try some more to no avail and then one day, BAM! I'll make massive progress while doing something totally unrelated to the situation or challenge I was trying to figure out. I've actually noticed that I have a specific pattern of progress.

I'm interested in finding out more information about the 80/20 principle. It's something like 20% of your effort produces 80% of your results and vice versa.

As far as creating my own reality goes, I've been struggling for a while. I jump back and forth between wanting to experiment with IM using the law of attraction and other ideas and being so frustrated with IM that I put it off completely. I'm not beginning to see the causes of my frustration and how old beliefs colored my perception of IM.

I've once again come back to the idea that I am the creator of my reality but I have new vigor this time. I have a much deeper understanding of what that means and I'm working on shaping my existence. Although I still have some confusion. How do I get clear about what I want to create? For instance, I'd like to create an abundance of money in my life. I want to have the freedom to spend it however I want. Do I focus on attracting a specific amount or would a general stance of creating total abundance in my life be more beneficial?

You and I are in the same boat. Well, I mean, we want the same thing. One of my main goals is financial freedom. I went back and forth between asking for specifics and general abundance, and I've finally decided general abundance is the way to go. I mean, sure, $5 million would be awesome, but what if the Universe thinks financial freedom for me is $20 million? I don't know... I just think I like the idea of leaving it up to the Universe.

However, I have asked for a specific house in a specific neighborhood, so that's sort of my specific manifestation, along with my general financial freedom/abundance request.

But please let me know if you come up with something! I'm all ears.

[icutoffheads]

Originally Posted by nicbrahms

Not entirely correct, you create your own reality whether you choose to accept you do or don't. You can't choose to not create your reality, cause you are still creating it just not deliberately as many of us were not.

Sorry I thought it important to make this distinction, as you made it sound as though you can opt out of creating it.

i completely agree with you. that's why i said:

(it's more of a being aware that you do, for the guy who believes this is crazy and wants to be a skeptic is creating that reality, which only continues to prove his own chosen state of being back to him and reinforce his ideas.)

that's what i meant, is that the person who believes he can't create his own reality is still create that reality of not being to create it, so his beliefs will just be reinforced in his creation, never knowing that he did infact create it all.

[billionairekid]

Originally Posted by EireChick

You and I are in the same boat. Well, I mean, we want the same thing. One of my main goals is financial freedom. I went back and forth between asking for specifics and general abundance, and I've finally decided general abundance is the way to go. I mean, sure, $5 million would be awesome, but what if the Universe thinks financial freedom for me is $20 million? I don't know... I just think I like the idea of leaving it up to the Universe.

However, I have asked for a specific house in a specific neighborhood, so that's sort of my specific manifestation, along with my general financial freedom/abundance request.

But please let me know if you come up with something! I'm all ears.

@icutoffheads - Could you offer any advice for this situation? Recently I read a couple of books that started to shift my perception of what I'm capable of. One of those books was called busting loose from the money game. I've started to accept that I am the creator of my reality and I've even seen specific instances of my creations at work. As I posted earlier, I’m confused as to how I specifically create my reality. I understand my beliefs and values have a lot to do with it. And I know how to shift those.

I don’t know how to begin manifesting situations and “things” that I want. For instance, I’d like to manifest going out on Valentine’s Day this year. I had a good date last year and I enjoy the opportunity to be romantic with a woman. I’d also like to manifest more money. I believe that in my true state, I am everything so I have everything I could ever need or want. And that includes wealth.

So how do I manifest my abundant wealth? I have a specific amount in mind but that is just for fun. I want to be able to have some extra spending money so that I can impulsively buy a few things (I like to impulsively shop. I never know what I’m going to get lol). Beyond that, I’d also like to manifest long term financial well being. I have an idea of how to do that but it’s based on old perceptions that I have to work hard to make money, ect.

My head is spinning quite a bit when it comes to actually manifesting creations. Can you help?

[Ingenius]

My questions would come along with billionairekid's. But I gotta be honest: I haven't tried to play with my own beliefs, my mind urges me to come here and read something or ask in the same vein billionairekid asked: "how do I do it?". It seems to me that this is just an avoiding technique, isn't it?

I just have to set up my own mental workshop and try to pay attention to my own perception about reality, and play around with my beliefs. Icutoffheads pointed it out at the very beginning: perception is the biggie.

As for wealth and financial abundance, I also share billionairekid's mental model, my mind tells me that I have to get a job in order to make any money, or come up with a great idea BEFORE making money. I suspect that this is also an avoiding technique, so I've got to focus.

Difficult part is that making money and enjoying in the process has never happened to me before, so I have to come up with an process of imagining it in my head, which makes it hard to believe. However, I can see that I am creative, no doubt, because I consistently get a job with a very specific and somehow astonishing alike conditions (low salary, dead end kind of job...). All my jobs are quite the same job, even when I switch companies. Another trap that usually occurs to me is when I try to focus in a certain way and next day I change that approach for another.

I see this as my main block to contemplate anything else, maybe I should pay attention to this belief first and try to let it go.

Uhmmm... just some thoughts. I hope I kept some coherency.

Thank you all, people.

Daniel.

[Andrew Gubb]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

The world definitely needs another spiritual teacher/ comedian right now! And Bill Hicks was incredible, if you haven't heard of him before I highly recommend listening to or watching some of his other stuff. Half of his set was his philosophy on life and politics and spirituality and drugs and the other half was his crazy sense of humor. He went back and forth between absolutely loving the human race, to being frustrated with them and hating the ugliness he saw in them. Died from pancreatic cancer in 1994... I think 1994? Great guy, he definitely "got it". He said he was born with the deep open understanding of existence that he had. Very much interested in ufos, government conspiracies, psychedelic drugs, and spirituality. He was a very interesting man.

Yeah, I've been exploring him a bit more, he's really great. I think I'll get some of his stuff on DVD.

The interesting thing is that I think the day or so before that I was thinking I needed comedy to lighten up a bit and look who came along

Andrew

[cerulean]

Thank you for your passion and generosity in explaining what you've discovered! I really like the second visual, with the head. I tend to be very visual, and although I was following you (and agreeing), the visual really clicked for me. Now to finish reading this thread...

[hilar]

Originally Posted by icutoffheads

Let's do this.

nike-style: "Just do it". doing it right now. badass.