Manifesting romantic feelings in others

[cassiopeia]

This is in the same vein as the 'controlling others' thread, but with a specific twist to it. Basically I want to know if anybody has used IM to make someone feel desire for them. Basically, a love spell, but without any other tools than pure mind power.

I know that many people feel this is messing with free will, and to be honest I am not sure how I feel about it. But I do want to know if it's possible.

I definitely know that I have UN-created people's romantic feelings towards me. It starts off with me taking an interest in the person, but a detached sort of interest, like I really don't care what the outcome is. And then suddenly they show interest in me. Alas, I have self-esteem issues (which I am working on, slowly but successfully) which leads me to wanting the person desperately, as soon as they show any interest, putting them on a pedestal, while simultaneously telling myself that it will never happen and that I don't deserve it. As much as I am aware of these thoughts I find them so difficult to stop! And so even if the romance started out well, it quickly dies. I'm obviously great at manifesting, too bad I don't have the intention part sorted out!

So I know that it is easy to repel a specific person using LOA. So, my question: has anyone attracted a specific person using LOA?

[blossom]

No, but once I did a sort of a lust spell, and I really wanted to sleep with this guy I worked with...but it backfired terribly and I ended up so incredibly horny and he wouldn't do anything about it

[shasah]

Not yet. Still working on it.

[RagsToRiches]

Originally Posted by cassiopeia

I know that many people feel this is messing with free will, and to be honest I am not sure how I feel about it.

Forget all this nonsense - it's very possible. Just like everything else. It's not interfering with free will at all, because most likely it will involve changing yourself and your life more than anything else....

Get your intention well focused, get a vivid visualisation of what you want, and move towards it (in reality).

This may involve changing some of your habits around the person, learning how to be more attractive or seductive, or learning to be more courageous.

Whatever it will entail, your mind will take you there if you stay focused on the thing you want and you want it hard enough.

But maybe you will find as you develop that you no longer want what you thought you wanted but that your developments have given you a new insight on greater things...

... just speculatin' course...

[RagsToRiches]

Originally Posted by blossom

...and I ended up so incredibly horny...

Funny... cause I can imagine that working to exactly the effect you wanted...

[gigij]

Originally Posted by cassiopeia

So I know that it is easy to repel a specific person using LOA. So, my question: has anyone attracted a specific person using LOA?

Yeah - you can do it - I have. I even set a date and it squeezed in right under the wire. But make sure that you have all the specifics and your limiting beliefs sorted right out before you start. Any subconscious thoughts you might have like 'this won't last' or 'this person is too good for me' etc etc will throw a wrench in things.

[Cloverhart]

Yes I absoloutely believe this is possible but you have to be very careful. I think it can be harder to detach and allow when you're wrapped up in a specific person. I agree make sure you have any limiting beliefs out of the way and do as much research as you can before you start out.

Good luck!!

[rei]

Originally Posted by cassiopeia

So, my question: has anyone attracted a specific person using LOA?

not sure how to answer this. i worked with the LOA to attract my current relationship, but i didn't know who he was. so i didn't use it to attract [his name], i used it to attract an abundance of romantic opportunities, involving at least one where there is great compatibility at the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual levels. worked in about three days, but i had to listen and act on the syncs and intuitive messages. (and, for the record, i'm not sure anyone should have expectations related to timing. not saying others can't attract in such a short time period, but i don't think it would be helpful to expect it either.)

i tend to agree with the approach offered by RagstoRiches. instead of intending for this person to magically be attracted with no effort, set the intention (if it's someone you already know) and take action toward manifesting it by becoming more of your best self.

[Lovable]

I agree with everyone. I believe I manifested a specific relationship with a specific person. I don't believe I did it correctly though.

I found that whilst I managed to attract the particular person of my dreams, quite quickly and with ease (which came as a surprise) I also attracted plenty of drama.

The best way to describe it is that it felt.. strained. Not as though I actually 'controlled' a person to love me because the feelings were very real for the both of us and that was never in question, just the actual desire to act on it. There seemed to always be a 'convenient' issue surrounding us. I think in hindsight my fears brought about these situations and issues. I also think there was too much attachment to the outcome which often caused me to have a lot of negative thoughts and fears even once we got together.. and also the actual intention I put out there was not constructed in the best way, it was too 'simplistic' if that makes sense, I didn't really detail the relationship I desired with the person and as a result it felt like it didn't gel as it would have. I also thought too much about the 'Hows' of it all. So I really learnt a lot!

It really showed me you can absolutely get what you want, how powerful your thoughts are! And it also motivated me to really think about what I wanted before I set my intentions in the future, and do it carefully. And now I seem to manifest much more effectively!

[blossom]

Originally Posted by RagsToRiches

Funny... cause I can imagine that working to exactly the effect you wanted...

Yeah, except the person I had these lusty feelings towards wouldn't act on them with me...

[missbhaven]

I posted my techique a while ago.
I find it's harder for me to change someone, but attracting those new relationships are easier to manifest. It always takes about 3 - 4 months. Which I feel go by quicker because I know what I'm looking for, no pussyfooting around the I dunno's. Moving till it comes in my lap.

lovable- if you always have drama, if you do my version, just put "drama-free" on your list (but make sure you add "excitement", some people end up having conflicted relationships because they don't want a BORING one, and those poor fools always have something going on)

other post, same topic

[Silenced140]

Ive done is very successfully I must have a knack at this, because it worked for me easily. You can easily do it too.

First ill give you an inspirational example. There was this girl was on my track team last year that i really had a crush on because she was chill, laid back, easy going and really pretty. Not some gossipy, entitled spoiled little girl that others found attractive.

She was perfect. So i did mental influence, which is just basically like your visualizations but with sensations and dialog. Like kissing and hugging and saying "i love you soo much" a lot while you feel the warmth of their skin. Feeling the love inside of you during imagination is what you try for. It still works easily but the love and passion make it happen even faster and stronger.

I was still needing more practice, so within a day or 2 when we were around each other i would find her glancing at me. That made me try even harder and perfect my technique. A week later, we were in a class together and she sat close to me, i hate school so i had my head buried in my arms, when i looked up, she was doing the exact same thing. Like copying what i was doing. Ive read up on sex psychology a bit and mimicking your movements is apparently what people do when they are attracted to someone.

After doing this, it was clear she had somewhat of an interest in me. However ill tell you that we never got beyond talking a few times, because im to f**king shy to just walk up and start more conversations.


Sad part is that she graduated and im still in HS.

But anyways, thats my proof to you that mental influence does work. And you can easily bring romantic emotions in people. It all works on a subconscious level. I did it again with one girl this year but still i was too shy.

So taking direct action has to happen sometimes.

[Acting Like Godot]

See, everyone ....

Originally Posted by Silenced140

After doing this, it was clear she had somewhat of an interest in me. However ill tell you that we never got beyond talking a few times, because im to f**king shy to just walk up and start more conversations.

... Here is one example of a situation where it might have been better to work on your mind, than on someone else's.

[Panda Bear]

Originally Posted by Acting Like Godot

See, everyone ....



... Here is one example of a situation where it might have been better to work on your mind, than on someone else's.

Yep. If you aren't getting a date from someone, there's a reason why, and it's most likely in you. Change yourself, and that person might date you. Or maybe even someone better and more compatible will come along..

I think it's possible to "make" someone like you, and we all do it to some extent or another. I believe we are constantly influencing each other whether we like it or not. But to consciously go out of your way to force something that's not there, and directly impose your will on another human being - that sounds immoral to me. It's not something I'd want on my hands. Most likely, you won't succeed anyway.