Creating abundance?????

[freddy]

In working with the Abundance mind set Steve Blogger about. When the fear and doubt comes in from a situation that you wanted to attract. (Let say buying a classic car). But the car that is coming to you as an opportunity, is not exactly what you wanted, (say the car is more money or not as good as condition) And so your offer less than what is the asking price for the car. The owner resists that offer. So you come up in price and offer the best deal you feel good about. The owner still is not willing to sell at that price. So you have fear and doubt about losing (the car). Do you get another chance at the same opportunity? (if the car is still available.) Do you raise your price to buy the car, even if it’s really stretching beyond your means financially? Or hold strong to your price. (Like will the guy come around and offer it to you latter at your offer price if you keep a positive vibe and feeling up?) Or is the opportunity just gone? Will there be a better priced car come around that would be closer to your price range to satisfy the feeling you have? Or will it be a totally different situation, so you may doubt all over the next time too. Is this to teach you just have to learn to jump at anything close to what looks like what you have been trying to attract into your life, without regard to the price, or loose out. This situation could come up with any thing job offers, dating people, moving. I ask on Steve’s blog about it but Steve never clarified this question for me. So any body care to respond to this would be helpful. Please answer fast before the opportunity gets away.

[escapeplan]

As I understand the LOA:

If the car wasn't perfect in the first place, your vibration was wrong but the LOA gave you what you resonated with. LOA has worked.

If you raise your price and get the car, the LOA has worked.

If you lose the car and no other opportunities come along, it is your vibration at fault. The LOA has worked.

If a better car comes along, the LOA has worked.

What could possibly need clarifying?

[freddy]

Well let me try and explain a different way. In Steve’s blog about manifesting abundance. He talks about how new opportunities will come your way. He said at first you would be frightened and kind of freaked out about them. So my question would be. If an opportunity came up like I mentioned in my first post about the car. And you resisted concerning price as again outlined in the post. Would the opportunity just vanish or come back around if you held a good feeling vibe about the car within this price range you felt good about paying?

[bananya]

I understand exactly what you mean - have been there just couple months ago.
I really wanted to go wo work abroad for some time and I was desperately wishing for it, but there were no good options. Then all of a sudden I got one job offer, it wasn't exactly what I wanted (the time period was shorter than I wanted and the job itself seemed to be boring) but I almost accepted it JUST BECAUSE I WAS AFRAID THERE MIGHT NOT BE ANOTHER BETTER OPPORTUNITY. But then somehow this opportunity faded away, but the funny part is that now there are 3-4 other opportunities which are MUCH CLOSER TO WHAT I WANTED, in fact almost perfect, but I'm faced with another trouble now - I'm scared to make this decision, to make this move... I even started to doubt if I really want it. It's like getting all the way to the top to go bungee jumping and getting stuck there being afraid to jump. but that's a different story and my problem I have to find a way to deal with.

What I wanted to say is that getting this opportunity with a car that doesn't match your price expectations might be a sign that "your ideal car" with best price is on it's way so keep being positive and I'm sure this car is definately not the last one for you )))

[freddy]

[QUOTE=bananya;460008]

I'm scared to make this decision, to make this move... I even started to doubt if I really want it. It's like getting all the way to the top to go bungee jumping and getting stuck there being afraid to jump. but that's a different story and my problem I have to find a way to deal with.

Well its like steve said in his blog about making the decision. It almost alway works out.

Thanks for the response,

[bananya]

[QUOTE=freddy;460014]

Originally Posted by bananya

Well its like steve said in his blog about making the decision. It almost alway works out.

Thanks for the response,

almost always works out what exactly? that we get scared? yeah, I wonder if there are people who get through it easily and how they do it...

you are welcome
did you come up with your decision?

[moonrambler]

Originally Posted by escapeplan

As I understand the LOA:

If the car wasn't perfect in the first place, your vibration was wrong but the LOA gave you what you resonated with. LOA has worked.

If you raise your price and get the car, the LOA has worked.

If you lose the car and no other opportunities come along, it is your vibration at fault. The LOA has worked.

If a better car comes along, the LOA has worked.

What could possibly need clarifying?

The LoA has worked, but in some cases IM has not worked. There's a difference.

[freddy]

[QUOTE=bananya;460104]

Originally Posted by freddy

almost always works out what exactly? that we get scared? yeah, I wonder if there are people who get through it easily and how they do it...

you are welcome
did you come up with your decision?

Well I think Steve is saying the out come is always a positive outcome. It's about overcoming the fear that keeps us stuck in that loop.

As far as my decision about the car. I'm keeping a good vibe that this may still be a good thing for me. I'm just waiting on the guy to meet my price or counter my last offer.

The guy just called me back and counter offered with just a bit of a twist to the deal. I think this will be the time to step out in faith
Fear and doubt, get behind thee.

[bananya]

WOW!!

I guess that's a good thing!! please keep us posted, I'm curious with the outcome now

[Karanime]

Okay, that's pretty cool that he gave you another offer... LoA in action!

But yeah, I think the deal is that if you see an opportunity that's a little off and not completely perfect, then your intention was a little off. From there, I guess it's just a decision of whether to deal with it and take what you have now, or scrap it and start over.

I just wanted to say that. :P

/<3

[freddy]

Well I went with the deal of a little more money. And of coarse good old MR. DOUBT and FEAR followed close behind me yelling in my ear every 5 minutes.
I know in time the fear will fade away. I have notice other opportunity open up for me lately. Met a cute girl, got her number and she interested in me.: Have a vacant property, and someone wants to lease option it from me.

So I would recommend to anyone to push into the fear zone. It's not fun but the payoff seems great.