the essence of being specific or "wow, it really works"

[bananya]

I'm speechless because it really works, I mean I knew that, but sometimes you get so desperate when you want something and it's not coming, but then only when you switch your thinking it starts working!!! I'm amazed...
I made an exel document that I called "my weekly intentions" and I put there things I'm gonna do this week and things I want the Universe to do for me.. - 85% are happening the way I asked or better.. It's really a lot about your concious, you can even call it "programming".. whatever, but it defenately is worth being used!

Now, my problem (next level up) is having courage to accept it when it comes.

And sometimes we want something JUST because we don't have it.. like me - I've been desperate for months about meeting a guy to date.. (just because I was tired of being single and worried for staying single forever, etc.), and now when I switched my thinking and really started to have it "within" me and being positive - here we come - there is a nice guy asking me out, but... just beacuse I was working on another intention at the same time - getting a job abroad and moving to a different place (really wanted this for quite some time) I'm now confused.
If I want to move, I don't want to start any relationship (coz I don't just "date" - if I'm in a relationship - it's serious for me) and do I really want to move, or I wanted it because I was bored and single here..? and the opportunity to go abroad for several months also appeared after months of craving it and I again hesitated to take it then because it wasn't like PERFECT offer, but it was good anyways.. now it might be gone forever or I might have another chance (will find out in few weeks)...

Now the question: what do I REALLY want? I want both - a relationship and moving... so I keep rushing in between these 2 desires all the time wishing for them to be in one.. ohhh I really have to decide what I want, but it's so hard..

I know I'm the only one to answer this, but maybe someone had similar struggles and can share?

p.s. this LoA thing does freaking work!!!! this is inspiring at least! just make sure you know WHAT you want!

[themaster]

Originally Posted by bananya

Now the question: what do I REALLY want? I want both - a relationship and moving... so I keep rushing in between these 2 desires all the time wishing for them to be in one.. ohhh I really have to decide what I want, but it's so hard..

You can have both.. the only limitations you see are the ones you create

[bananya]

Themaster,

hehe yeah I don't have to go far to realize I send mixing messages all the time as I don't have a "detailed plan", just some vague images of what I want in my life, so when an opportunity shows up I'm afraid to let it slip (it's this type of thinking - "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"...you know, if-I-miss-this-now-I-might-never-get-it-or-anything-better type of mentality

how do I get rid of this limiting belief?..

[vartann]

Originally Posted by bananya

so I keep rushing in between these 2 desires all the time wishing for them to be in one.. ohhh I really have to decide what I want, but it's so hard..

I know I'm the only one to answer this, but maybe someone had similar struggles and can share?

p.s. this LoA thing does freaking work!!!! this is inspiring at least! just make sure you know WHAT you want!

choose either one - doesn't matter
if u choose the guy, then next month you ll choose to manifest the job abroad
if u choose the job abroad, then next month you can manifest for the guy

... or choose BOTH job abroad/ a guy who ll follow you there

[Brown Eyed Mystic]

Originally Posted by vartann

... or choose BOTH job abroad/ a guy who ll follow you there

Yeah I was just about to say this one. I would have gone for it, no doubt!

[vartann]

Originally Posted by Brown Eyed Mystic

Yeah I was just about to say this one. I would have gone for it, no doubt!

cheers Mate

[bananya]

Originally Posted by Brown Eyed Mystic

Yeah I was just about to say this one. I would have gone for it, no doubt!

That's my "ideal" plan, but I keep rushing between "going=risking" and "staying=safety" and therefore I get really big synchronicities, but separate... either guy here or a job.. (but of course I can't see from here if there is a guy there) )) damn, risking is temptatig and more exciting def )

[themaster]

Originally Posted by bananya

damn, risking is temptatig and more exciting def )

The more excitement will outline the better choice.. But if either has the same amount.. either choice is fine

I want to talk a minute since I posted about the idea of not actualizing on your dreams.. I will give you a example since I have one in my reality..

My sister Tina (yep, I gave you her name) tells me she wants to do 2 things.. sail on the ocean on her own sailboat and 2. write books..

Now rather than actualize on any of this path in the last few years she has
- Tried to build a house with my mom which didn't work out cause there was a lot of negative energy and instead ended up owning a different house..
- Says she will still build the house after she probably spends years raising cash for it.. and paying back just about everybody (if this plan were to be done.. it would take 4-10 years based on a real world reality scenario )

The truth is she has placed this dream in pipeland and not actualized much on it.. (not that I'm trying to judge.. trying to relate this as neutral/observation )

I say to her.. move your ass to the coast.. and if your there for 1 or 2 years.. 10 to 1 you will have a boat in that amount of time.. (for she lives in Denver.. nearest ocean is 1500 miles or so )

Now when I look at it from her perspective I do see her truth or FEAR is what it is..

I'm going to quit my job in this bad economy and get a new one?? write a book I haven't even tried to write in a new city with no family/friends?

But what exactly installs all these doubts and fears yes?

The doubts and fears come from a thing we can call "the analyzer" or the "ego".. it looks out in the world and says.. if I go there where will money come from" "where will the boat come from" I don't have very good love of myself.. where is the love going to come from etc.

That's all it ever does think.. the spiritual message or the underlying message of truth about our reality and LOA is.. were supported where ever we go!

But the reason no one chooses to "GO" is cause they listen to their fear, to their analyzer to their ego.. it is not incorrect to listen sometimes it's wise to listen.. but if you believe in your heart 100% that you make this new bold, daring move that you will be supported!! you will be!!

So look for the beliefs in yourself and if they are not limiting.. make the next jump!

Now just to explain something.. in the last month or two I have started to make rapid progress in myself and my goal.. and as such I am starting to notice that reflected in my reality.. my mom one of the most limited people I know, has given up the dark side.. and gotten married and seems generally happy for it.. and I hear my sister has finally wrote 1 chapter of her book (though that's hearsay )

[bananya]

Originally Posted by themaster

The more excitement will outline the better choice.. But if either has the same amount.. either choice is fine

I want to talk a minute since I posted about the idea of not actualizing on your dreams.. I will give you a example since I have one in my reality..

My sister Tina (yep, I gave you her name) tells me she wants to do 2 things.. sail on the ocean on her own sailboat and 2. write books..

Now rather than actualize on any of this path in the last few years she has
- Tried to build a house with my mom which didn't work out cause there was a lot of negative energy and instead ended up owning a different house..
- Says she will still build the house after she probably spends years raising cash for it.. and paying back just about everybody (if this plan were to be done.. it would take 4-10 years based on a real world reality scenario )

The truth is she has placed this dream in pipeland and not actualized much on it.. (not that I'm trying to judge.. trying to relate this as neutral/observation )

I say to her.. move your ass to the coast.. and if your there for 1 or 2 years.. 10 to 1 you will have a boat in that amount of time.. (for she lives in Denver.. nearest ocean is 1500 miles or so )

Now when I look at it from her perspective I do see her truth or FEAR is what it is..

I'm going to quit my job in this bad economy and get a new one?? write a book I haven't even tried to write in a new city with no family/friends?

But what exactly installs all these doubts and fears yes?

The doubts and fears come from a thing we can call "the analyzer" or the "ego".. it looks out in the world and says.. if I go there where will money come from" "where will the boat come from" I don't have very good love of myself.. where is the love going to come from etc.

That's all it ever does think.. the spiritual message or the underlying message of truth about our reality and LOA is.. were supported where ever we go!

But the reason no one chooses to "GO" is cause they listen to their fear, to their analyzer to their ego.. it is not incorrect to listen sometimes it's wise to listen.. but if you believe in your heart 100% that you make this new bold, daring move that you will be supported!! you will be!!

So look for the beliefs in yourself and if they are not limiting.. make the next jump!

Now just to explain something.. in the last month or two I have started to make rapid progress in myself and my goal.. and as such I am starting to notice that reflected in my reality.. my mom one of the most limited people I know, has given up the dark side.. and gotten married and seems generally happy for it.. and I hear my sister has finally wrote 1 chapter of her book (though that's hearsay )

Thanks, Themaster!

yep, you are right - it's all about fear and that's what I want to get rid off..I believe that courage attracts some great opportunities.
I tend to overanalyze always and fear that if "go" and it wouldn't be the way I thought it would, there will not be a way out, but there always is.. (Steve's article "Regretting tomorrow" was really cool about this)..

Well, now I have to wait... and I confessed to myself if that job opportunity abroad does come back to me (because it can for sure) I WILL GO!! (now just want it to come back)

Thanks again and glad there are positive changes going on around you