Death - can we override it?

[ReneeDIY]

My dearest closest friend has cancer. He has been working with an energy healer and cured the cancer in one part of his body but now it has moved into his eye.

I believe we have the power to heal, but to what extent? Is there a limitation?

A real bummer is my friend was in a sweat lodge before he knew he had cancer. He will not disclose details but just eluded to the fact that he knew he was going to die young (at that time). I believe this could be part of any obstacles his intentions might be hung up on.

I understand that seeing in the future is only relevant during that time period and that all things change.

With all this in my mind, I also have heard that we pick our time of death before we are born. But we have also, free will during this life(to change courses).

So understanding there is a macrocosm and microcosm can my friend set his intentions and conquer this? Or is it just going to manifest itself over and over again until he dies?

Lately he is struggling to tell me what he is going through. He lives 1200 miles from me which makes me feel so helpless. My heart believes that he can beat this, but my logic tells me there are limits on death and how we can manipulate and change destiny. He has been an angel in my darkness and I am very close to him. Even with all the distance I can call him up and ask him if he's feeling this, this or that and when and it is the same for us.

In spite of this I have not felt led to give him Reiki for quite some time until just recently. He is eluding that the symptoms are getting worse and I just start bawling crying at random times knowing that I am feeling his emotions about this. It is really heart breaking.

Thanks,
Renee

[Anagogy]

All things are possible, but please understand that healing is like filling up a bucket of water. If that bucket has holes in it, the energy will simply drain out again. This metaphorical bucket is your friend's consciousness. The holes are negative beliefs and thoughts. The holes need to be plugged before the healing will "take".

Cancer never starts in the body. Disharmony spreads from within to without.

You cannot focus on a thing without gaining at least some amount of vibrational compatibility with it. This goes for sickness as well as vibrant health.

You can't keep beating the drum of where you are, and get to where you want to be. If you always focus on the problem, the solution will always be right outside your reach. Luckily, though, we have emotions, which give us direct feed back from our inner being, and tell us if the way we are focusing our thoughts is taking us toward or away from what we desire.

If your friend can make peace with where he is, those good feeling emotions will indicate that he is headed downstream towards the fruition of where he wants to be (wellness, in other words).

[themaster]

I will say what anagogy did in a different way

Death is a choice.. in fact all deaths are technically viewed as suicides..

Cancer does not randomly effect a person based on the rules of reality taught by said teachers.. it is something you allow or perhaps have a theme for when you come here..

So what do you have to do to over-ride cancer?? change a negative mindset into a positive one.. reshape and re-define everything you are.. a person that's so close or so into it.. is going to have a hard time.. but if you can convince him to

1. Take Responsibility for what he/she's creating
2. Create a "permission slip" for healing be it just the idea of healing.. or a crystal or a doctor or a new medical treatment or some yoga/meditation.. it doesn't matter the way only that you allow yourself to slip/move to health..

If you need some real world evidence about miraculous healings and people that have done it.. google it.. there are millions of cases.. but understand your friend's belief "I will die young" is going to be self fulfilled if they continue to believe that..

1 thing to note that no seems to mention is what my teacher says.. which is.. we have all died many times before.. and I'm not talking about past lives.. I'm talking about this life.. if you have near death experience where you said afterward "I could have died" likely you did.. you likely just came back.. I was noticing recently where I can't maybe think of but 1.. my uncle has definitely had 1 (thrown out of a moving/rolling van.. while intoxicated) what's the point?

There is no point.. I merely showing that some of us fail this game or shall we say go over the top.. and whoosh we back

[Acting Like Godot]

Originally Posted by ReneeDIY

In spite of this I have not felt led to give him Reiki for quite some time until just recently.

You have to give your reiki without attachment. If it works, it works and if it does not, it does not.

Sometimes what's more important than recovering from a very serious illness is to die with a sense of peace and serenity.

[ReneeDIY]

You all helped me. Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. I have never had anybody close to me go through something like this so its a learning experience for me.

I love thinking of this as a bucket and the negativity being the holes. That really gave me great imagery to work with.

Also, I liked the idea of him taking responsibility and the permission slip for healing. Its funny because I did have at least a couple times where I thought I should have died so now I am curious! LOL

In the Reiki class I took I was taught to give without attachment. We ask for help to set aside our pride and ego and that it work the for the greater good. That is why I said I haven't felt led to give it. If I do not feel led to give Reiki to someone that has previously given me permission, I won't because I don't know if there is something going on they need to work out without Reiki. That is the case with my friend but now I am feeling led more and more.

I like what you said about it sometimes being more important to die with a sense of peace and serenity. I hope that he either beats this or is able to make peace with it. Its all very confusing to me so I am also learning how to be there for someone going through something like this.

I appreciate your time everybody.
Sincerely, thank you.

Renee