Seems my IM is working? Or is this synchronicity a lesson for me from the Universe?

[bluesummer]

Hello people,
My case is the following... (I am a female, btw)
Last year I was able to manifest my perfect partner through LOA (making a list and intending it, I achieved it in a week or so), and I had eventually confessed my feelings to him via SMS but he texted me ambiguously saying he wan't ready for a relationship as he was recovering from a previous relationship, and he started to avoid me and we drifted apart.
So eversince that happened, my personal Intention-Manifestation has been to rekindle the relationship of "best friends" we once had so easily.
But many times doubt set in, and I still haven't manifested it over the past year, but something really strange happened to me and I'm wondering if the Universe is finally making the desired "best-friends" relationship flow towards me...

Well, the thing is that a good friend I made online over the last three months (he was already a real-life acquaintance) has confessed my feelings to me recently; and it really, really, shook me. I didn't expect it at all, the last person on Earth I thought would tell me such a thing!

Here is where the coincidences kick in:
- He is practically best friends with the perfect partner I manifested.
- He sent me his confession by the same means (text msg) I used to send my OWN confession to the perfect partner I had managed to manifest.
- These two guys share the same class and career at university.
- They have a music band where they play together around town.
- Last year I had confessed to my desired partner days later of meeting both alone together for the first time. Guess what? My good friend confessed to me hours later I had met him alone for the first time. (that is, few days ago).
- I had confessed to my perfect partner after 3 months of friendship. My good friend confessed to me ALSO after 3 months of friendship.

So when I read his confession, I started to cry a lot, without explanation.
I was really upset, because I didn't want to break his heart while I rejected him... but suddenly then I realized that instead of crying over the pain I was going to cause him by rejecting him, I realized I was in fact crying over the pain I HAD FELT when I confessed to my perfect partner.

The strangest thing of all is that after I cried my year-long pain, I felt as if I had done the correct thing by crying.
I remember that last year when I got rejected, I was so upset over the fact that my perfect partner and I had fallen out, and I had promised to myself that if someday I had to go through this same situation (in the role of the "rejecter" instead of "rejectee") that I would not inflict that person the pain I had gone through last year... and never fall out.

And there you see, it has happened to me JUST when I finally let go completely of my intention of being friends with my perfect partner!! Just when I feel that I can live my life without being friends again with my perfect partner, and the very same eveving I received such a confession from his close friend!

I feel the strong intuition that the Universe is trying to "teach" me something,
or making things happen to make me realize something important about these two syncronicities... Like a poke telling me "PAY ATTENTION TO THIS AS IT IS CRUCIAL!! IT IS A SIGNAL OF YOUR YEAR-LONG INTENTION!"

I'm feeling quite puzzled too about this

Do you think my intention of "being best friends" with my perfect partner slowly manifesting? Or is it rather a lesson from the Universe for me??
Is it neither? Or perhaps both?

Any ideas, suggestions, comments about this?

Sorry for the long post!!
Thanks in advance for reading ~~
BS.

[supremum]

Well I don't think the universe actively "teaches" people anything. What is possible though, is that you have taught yourself something through the experience of introspection and manifestation. But otherwise it's definitely a manifestation.

Also, one-itis is a b*tch. I feel for you. Good story

[bluesummer]

Originally Posted by supremum

What is possible though, is that you have taught yourself something through the experience of introspection and manifestation. But otherwise it's definitely a manifestation.

Hm, supremum, your point of view is interesting, but what do you really mean by combining introspection and manifestation? Today I've been thinking about this all, and I must say that I think that this is a manifestation, though I don't really know why it really turned out this way. I mean, just a year ago I hoped that the "perfect partner" I had managed to manifest would confess his feelings to me eventually someday, but instead it has been his best friend in amazing similar circumstances, nearly exactly a year after.
I also forgot to mention that I found a paper upon which I wrote my desire of such a confession from my crush (which I believed I had lost!) the very same day his best friend confessed to me; and I remember I tucked it in my drawer thinking something along the lines of "the Universe will take care of this whenever it has to be taken care of". Has this really influenced on my resulting outcomes?

Does anybody else here have any ideas? Any futher insight would be greatly aprreciated.
BS~~

[ssandra]

Just a quick question.. why don´t you date guy nr.2 just to see if there is something that can grow into something more? Instead of just rejecting him?

[aabbcc]

I know this isn't very helpful, but I can't help thinking that if you never dated guy number 1, and he wasn't interested in a relationship, then how is he your perfect partner? To me, that's a pretty obvious sign that he isn't your perfect partner.

And I agree with ssandra ... why not give the other fellow a chance?

[bluesummer]

Because he's not the kind of person I'm looking for, he hasn't got some qualities I find personally vital in a relationship.
And personally I just don't like him, I don't feel any futher than friendship towards him. And I think it's wrong to date him if I know from the start I just don't feel attracted to him. I've been through this kind of situation before and I vowed myelf to never do so again, as it turned out to be a big mistake.
Respecting nº1, he was initially interested in a relationship, but he backed off at the last minute when I asked him out... anyway, thanks for posting back

[Said1]

I made a list twice and the same guy turned up. I didn't clue in and now he's gone.

[bluesummer]

Originally Posted by Said1

I made a list twice and the same guy turned up. I didn't clue in and now he's gone.

Really? I didn't know that a same guy could turn up more than one occasion, wow, that's weird! I didn't know those sort of things could happen... by recurring in its exact form over and over again.
What did you refer to exactly by "cluing in"??

[Said1]

Originally Posted by bluesummer

Really? I didn't know that a same guy could turn up more than one occasion, wow, that's weird! I didn't know those sort of things could happen... by recurring in its exact form over and over again.
What did you refer to exactly by "cluing in"??

I didn't know either. Actually, after some thought, it appears he was probably there all along. Not realizing who was around, both times is what I mean by not having a clue. Or, I should say until it was too late.

To make a very long story short, he did in fact turn up twice. I hadn't realized he was around the first time until more recently. Even though I was definitely drawn to him, I believed that the circumstances in my life prevented me from giving him much of a chance. The poor guy tried very hard over the last few months to meet me, but I didn't give him more than a 'hello' or 'nice day'. In fact, I found it very hard to believe that he wasn't giving up, despite my "ICe Queen" attitude towards him. Anyway, the truth is that the thought of having to explain my employment/living situation really bothered me and - if the situation was reversed, I would probably run the other way, FAST - so I preferred to stay away from him. Now, although not ideal, things have calmed down and changed a lot and he's gone. She who hesitates

I should also mention that I didn't think anyone would turn up at all, let alone so fast! Be careful, make sure you're ready.

[Betrade]

Originally Posted by bluesummer

Really? I didn't know that a same guy could turn up more than one occasion, wow, that's weird! I didn't know those sort of things could happen... by recurring in its exact form over and over again.
What did you refer to exactly by "cluing in"??

ANYTHING can happen at any time.

[jellyfishgiang]

Not related to the topic, but I would love to write something

I have been intending to do well on this October 10th SATI test and have high score. Well, last Saturday was the Mid-Autumn festival in my country, and my Mom got free Moon cakes as presents for this occasion. What's worth noting here is that the delicious Moon cakes are produced by Fortuna Hotel, where I am going to take the SAT . I had Moon cakes from 3 different producers but I only enjoyed the ones from Fortuna Hotel. Hella. I do consider this as a syn; the universe has received and is responding to my intentions

Now I am mentally prepared to have great performance and excellent score xD.

[Zas]

Sounds good, jellyfishgiang, best of luck! (or should I say something like "best of focus?" .)

[jellyfishgiang]

Originally Posted by Zas

Sounds good, jellyfishgiang, best of luck! (or should I say something like "best of focus?" .)

Thank you Zas :x