Can attract a specific person to me?

[Akashic_Librarian]

I like this girl, and she is amazing. I really like her. Does anyone know if you can attract a specific person to you, maybe get them to ask you out or something?

[Isis Kali]

Yeah, you can...but you really have to emphasize that she come to you of her own free will! The possible karmic bounceback won't be pretty if you don't. It might be more useful to say, "I intend that my message/signals/intentions please SexyDiva (), and that they bring happiness for everyone involved." Does that sound good?

[Dani]

An important part of LOA, which isn't mentioned often is the action you need to take to put yourself in harmony with your goal.

You better be able to attract a specific person, or my quest (below) is for naught! Keeping them is a different story, but you can certainly get a meeting with them.

There is a good process you can go through to put yourself into a much better position to attract someone into your life.

In very simple terms.

Try to work out what sort of person they would date.
Compare that person honestly with yourself
Then set to work changing the things that don't line up

e.g. if you are chasing a very athletic girl, she is more likely to be interested in an equally athletic guy, rather than a coach potato - Time to join the track team.

If you are interested in a well read, intelligent girl on the debating team, she is more likely to be interested in a guy with similar tastes than a heavy metal punk band member.

All of these things work to bring you into alignment with your intention. Just thinking about it won't do it by itself.

I fear being smited for self advertising, but check out my blog, I just posted a long post about this exact subject yesterday and my plans to make it work for me.

[Akashic_Librarian]

Dani. Thanks Man your blogs amazing. I am adding it to my RSS feed Dos it have RSS? Oh well...the point is thats jsut what I want to see. I love the LOA! Thanks.


Isis Kali. Thanks for the intention head start. I might alter it a little bit but its great. I never thought about it that way!

[Dani]

Thanks, I try my best to please.

If I can get the date, no one will EVER be able to say to me "That's impossible" again. Which is in fact part of the purpose of the blog, to show just how the impossible can be done.

The funny things is, as soon as I set the goal opportuniteis to get me closer to it started popping up. I found out tonight one of my online friends has a lot of Gravia model friends (thats the type of model Mami is).

Boom a step closer already!

Would never have known if I hadn't set the quest.

Just don't cross the line to stalker.

[Dolazy]

I don't know if you can attract a specific person. The Abraham teachings always stress to ask yourself what you want and why you want it so that the essence of your desire is emitted.

I think focusing on a specific person is against the flow of life. Persons are constantly entering your life experience and leaving it. There is a constant in/out stream of people. The Law of Attraction makes that the people who enter your life experience match your vibration.

So the best thing you can do is make a list of traits that you like about this particular person and why you like them. Then the Law of Attraction will bring more people into your live who match this desired profile.

[C33]

I think it is possible to attract a specific person.

The thing is, some people are just not meant to be in your life, so you might attract them temporarily, but if they are not suited to be with you in the long run.It will manifest quickly and you will have attracted someone that is not for you and has wasted your precious time , time that you spent on LOA to attract her/him while you could have attracted someone or something more beneficial.
I think you can magnetize people to you, but as Dani said, you have to make yourself palatable to your particular target, plus, IMHO, you should have good intention towards them. Sometimes people are shy and they stay away for you for the wrong reasons, some other time, it is a blessing that these people are not attracted to you.

[wolfgang]

I usually don't like linking to something else but I was just reading this material and it addresses the ideas of the thread.
The Law of Allowance in Relationships - The Universe of Power

Basically to attract a specific person you are asking to be able to control someone else. Do you really want to be doing that?

I also don't think it's a good idea to try to change yourself to "be a vibrational match" to a specific person because you may be changing yourself against your natural ways, or actually letting someone else control you in a way. I suppose it's OK as long as what you are changing about yourself you would choose anyway, regardless of trying to be with a certain person.

I'm slowly trying to find a way to apply LoA to help with my relationships at it seems to come donw to defining what it is I'd want to be experiencing in a relationship - not too much about exactly who or what the other person is or isn't. That's to say I can only create out of my own energy and feelings. So I'm thinking I need to figure out how I want to feel, and focus on that. And I think what will happen is that relationships will be more enjoyable - that if I do this work of deciding what I want with integrity and deepness, then weather or not a certain person is a match for me will sort of work it self out naturally. Still, just the beginning for me but that's how I see this.

However, if you are falling for someone and you can spend lots of time with her and flirt and engage her and stuff, then it's underway. Interact with her and see if it's fun, etc...

[Isis Kali]

The name of the game is to be general, but not, you know? Just emphasize that you are very much open to this lady, and remember that you have to allow for Free Will!