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The Protagonist · 01-31-2007, 04:22 AM

Human beings are social creatures and I am no exception. I just recently broke off being with my group of friends. They weren't bad kids, we're just completely different people, and I get bored easily - I need mental stimulation (they were a tag repetitive with their habits, if you know what I mean). So now I have a problem, how do I manifest new friends who are what I would like. I'm not looking for people like me (dunno if I would want to meet another me), rather good people - the interesting, engaging, has a fashion sense type.

I should clarify that I would like to find people to be close with. Kind of like having a crew, right now I 'know' everyone in my school - has acquaintances, friends who I have had the occasional lunch with. I don't know anyone who I could call up at midnight, and drive to NYC for a decent slice of pizza. That is what I really want.

So umm, what do I say? How should I word this?

Any advice is truly appreciated..

Isis Kali · 01-31-2007, 09:14 AM

Are you doing the million-dollar IM project? Use that, but substitute "new, inspirational friends" for "$1M". That's what I did, and it worked.

danas · 01-31-2007, 03:14 PM

I remember a while ago I had only male friends (Im a female),
I even remember sitting with 10 male friends on my birthday in a bar, and and only one girlfriend came...pretty embarrasing

So then I decided, hey! I should have a real girlfriend like I did when I was in school. And now, 1.5 years later, I have about 4 girlfriends, whom I can call in the middle of the night, and can really trust.
most the male freinds dissapeared (one special one is enough for me now).

What Im saying is that now that you decided that is what you want, I asure you it will happen fast.

01-31-2007, 04:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
The Protagonist Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Westchester Posts: 84	I want friends Human beings are social creatures and I am no exception. I just recently broke off being with my group of friends. They weren't bad kids, we're just completely different people, and I get bored easily - I need mental stimulation (they were a tag repetitive with their habits, if you know what I mean). So now I have a problem, how do I manifest new friends who are what I would like. I'm not looking for people like me (dunno if I would want to meet another me), rather good people - the interesting, engaging, has a fashion sense type. I should clarify that I would like to find people to be close with. Kind of like having a crew, right now I 'know' everyone in my school - has acquaintances, friends who I have had the occasional lunch with. I don't know anyone who I could call up at midnight, and drive to NYC for a decent slice of pizza. That is what I really want. So umm, what do I say? How should I word this? Any advice is truly appreciated..

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01-31-2007, 09:14 AM	#2 (permalink)
Isis Kali Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 212	Are you doing the million-dollar IM project? Use that, but substitute "new, inspirational friends" for "$1M". That's what I did, and it worked.

01-31-2007, 03:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
danas Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: New York, NY Posts: 1,676	I remember a while ago I had only male friends (Im a female), I even remember sitting with 10 male friends on my birthday in a bar, and and only one girlfriend came...pretty embarrasing So then I decided, hey! I should have a real girlfriend like I did when I was in school. And now, 1.5 years later, I have about 4 girlfriends, whom I can call in the middle of the night, and can really trust. most the male freinds dissapeared (one special one is enough for me now). What Im saying is that now that you decided that is what you want, I asure you it will happen fast.

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