how to stay focused?

[bananya]

I usually have this problem. say I want something and I know why I want it and it feels right to me, so I ask for it. and then while I wait for the seed to "grow" I get attacked by doubts all the time. maybe it's my Libra sign trying to weigh all pros and cons.. but it makes me frustrated to doubt all the time - what if when I get it it won't be that good, what if that and what if this.. blah blah blah.. and that's my main problem, I can't stay focused as I'm always doubting..and i know that this way I'm holding my wish back and make it hard to manifest...

[Aleksander Krstic]

Perhaps you should try meditatation, or any focus-improving exercise.

[themaster]

I use a lot of abraham's ideas seems to have stopped my ego from even going there

- Take the least resistant thought
- Reach for the best feeling thought

I would suggest learning segment intending.. if you can adopt that idea

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by bananya

I usually have this problem. say I want something and I know why I want it and it feels right to me, so I ask for it. and then while I wait for the seed to "grow" I get attacked by doubts all the time. maybe it's my Libra sign trying to weigh all pros and cons.. but it makes me frustrated to doubt all the time - what if when I get it it won't be that good, what if that and what if this.. blah blah blah.. and that's my main problem, I can't stay focused as I'm always doubting..and i know that this way I'm holding my wish back and make it hard to manifest...

Spend some time each day focusing on what you want. As Abraham says, go into your workshop (i.e. a place where you spend time focusing on what you want) each day for 15 minutes at a time. This will make your wanting and attraction stronger as well as helping you get clearer about what you want. Make sure to put yourself in a good vibe before beginning this exercise.

Themaster reminded me of something, you can also reach for a better feeling thought. When you catch yourself doubting or feeling negative, think of something that makes you feel better.