Hate, Envy and LOA

[Precious]

In the last few weeks I've read and watched some materials about LOA, and I've started to become more conscious about my thoughts. I've noticed that there is a lot of hate and envy in my thoughts, and this is not good for me, because the LOA says, you attract what you focus on. Now let me explain how and where I've noticed this hate and envy.

When I see someone with a cool cars my "inside voice" tells me : "F**k that bastard."

This is just an example of what's happening in my mind, and there is a lot of criticizing. That voice inside my head always tells me : "He/ She is that ..."

Now I would like to solve this problem, because I'm pretty sure that all these thoughts work against me, but how should I think when I see someone in a cool car for example ...to attract more good things in my life ?

[themaster]

Stop judging.. reach for neutral/positive thoughts.. learn your own power, that you lack of nothing.. mainly that means experiment with LOA, grow your power with LOA..

[jeff3]

Originally Posted by themaster

Stop judging.. reach for neutral/positive thoughts.. learn your own power, that you lack of nothing.. mainly that means experiment with LOA, grow your power with LOA..

Judgment is easier to suspend than reverse so I would focus on just seeing everything as an observer, just watch what occurs in your life passively for a while. This may take some practice, especially if you have the inclination to make negative judgments. Just so you don't feel alone I will tell you that even after 10 years of studying and practicing IM I still go through periods of negative internal dialog. It usually takes me a few days to get back to practicing the concepts I've learned.

One thing that I have discovered is that my feelings of envy or 'envy disguised as contempt' for some persons success fade away when I realize it grows out of a sense of competition which in turn comes from a belief that there is not enough to go around. If you can internalize the belief that "there is plenty for everyone" and drop the ego's need to compete the bitter feelings have no basis for existing.

[Dreamline]

I would add that one of the lessons you eventually learn with LOA (and the other 12-20 universal laws LOA is related to) is that you have to begin to view the world as one. I know it sounds cliche but it's a real aspect of LOA that is critical for success. That we are all of the same source and therefore connected as if they are you, in essense. So your contempt for them is really contempt for yourself, which makes no sense.

If you ignore this tenet, you are really basically dismissing the very machinery that makes LOA work in the first place. So it would be like asking for a snow cone at the fair on a steaming hot day but walking away before it was ready.


Jennifer

[cylon]

Originally Posted by Precious

Now I would like to solve this problem, because I'm pretty sure that all these thoughts work against me, but how should I think when I see someone in a cool car for example ...to attract more good things in my life ?

When you see the cool car, imagine if it was you driving it, that you were listening to your favorite music on the nice car stereo, that you were enjoying the interior of the car and appreciating the craftsmanship, imagine yourself driving to your favorite places, either in the city or out in nature... imagine yourself enjoying the car for all its worth. Also see how you would behave in this car, notice how you are just as respectful to other people on the road as you were before, how you are a courteous and respectful driver.

Next time you see someone in that car, wonder to yourself if they are like you would be if you had that car. Since you don't know them, there's a good chance you would guess correctly. For the sake of the exercise, assume that the person behind that wheel is a person just like you, generous, respectful, and who appreciates all the great things that they have in life, including the car. Feel happy for that person that they can enjoy their transportation in such a comfortable, enjoyable way, assume they feel just as grateful and appreciative to have it as you would.

That's how I would go about this. As long as you feel a disconnect between yourself and abundance, you my end up projecting your discomfort about abundance on other people. You may assume incorrectly that the "rich person" doesn't deserve the nice things they have, and has no right to enjoy it, while you have less. That can lead to self-righteousness, and "hating" rich people.

No way you're going to get what you want out of life if the very things you want, cause you pain.

[Dreamline]

Another thing is that by dismissing them with contempt, you are also rejecting anything you could learn from them. They obviously are doing something "right" by your definition of right. They are what you wish to become, so if you were them, would you feel the same way about the contempt? What can they teach you about getting to where they are?

Jealousy has many disguises but it really needs to be dealt with because it's definitely not on the list of emotions that are conducive to positive manifesting.

Jennifer

[jeff3]

Originally Posted by Precious

Now I would like to solve this problem, because I'm pretty sure that all these thoughts work against me, but how should I think when I see someone in a cool car for example ...to attract more good things in my life ?

You could just do a little Jedi mind trick on yourself and tell yourself that the things you see in others lives are just proof of the abundance in the universe that is waiting on you to align yourself with. Just say a little thank you and try to imagine how they think and believe to have such things in their life.

You'll learn as you go, if you stick with this, that re-framing your perception of events to fit into what you are trying to accomplish will speed up the process of manifestation.

[cylon]

Originally Posted by Dreamline

Another thing is that by dismissing them with contempt, you are also rejecting anything you could learn from them. They obviously are doing something "right" by your definition of right. They are what you wish to become, so if you were them, would you feel the same way about the contempt? What can they teach you about getting to where they are?

Jealousy has many disguises but it really needs to be dealt with because it's definitely not on the list of emotions that are conducive to positive manifesting.

Jennifer

Absolutely. I think people assume they are going to just manifest an "object" like a car or home, without realizing those objects are just symbols of how people feel about themselves.

If you dislike wealthy people and think they are cheaters, unworthy, don't deserve happiness, be sure you will never be in their shoes, or if you were, be sure you'd have lots of self-hatred since you would now be one of those cheater jerk rich people who doesn't deserve their abundance.

[MacFly]

Originally Posted by Precious

In the last few weeks I've read and watched some materials about LOA, and I've started to become more conscious about my thoughts. I've noticed that there is a lot of hate and envy in my thoughts, and this is not good for me, because the LOA says, you attract what you focus on. Now let me explain how and where I've noticed this hate and envy.

When I see someone with a cool cars my "inside voice" tells me : "F**k that bastard."

This is just an example of what's happening in my mind, and there is a lot of criticizing. That voice inside my head always tells me : "He/ She is that ..."

Now I would like to solve this problem, because I'm pretty sure that all these thoughts work against me, but how should I think when I see someone in a cool car for example ...to attract more good things in my life ?

you are identified with your mind.
your mind hates the present
it wants to be in the future
the present is "alone", you are not there
the present becomes filled with uncontrolled, illogical and negative thoughts
wisdom can't flow into your present moment (in which you take actions), so you create/attract bad or mixed things
you suffer

it is a beautiful proccess, but still, you suffer.

be in the present moment, with your fullest attention

how? be aware!

when you have a critical thought, notice it!
when you haven't noticed it and became angry, notice it!
notice everything that happens in you

[Stevie B]

Originally Posted by Precious

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When I see someone with a cool cars my "inside voice" tells me : "F**k that bastard."

This is just an example of what's happening in my mind, and there is a lot of criticizing. That voice inside my head always tells me : "He/ She is that ..."

Now I would like to solve this problem, because I'm pretty sure that all these thoughts work against me, but how should I think when I see someone in a cool car for example ...to attract more good things in my life ?

When you think of the person, consciously say the sentece that focuses on your want and not the judgment. If you think the negative thought, just say 'No' or 'Stop' and think of the positive thing.

So someone who drives down with a nice car, you should instead say "Ya. That's my car. I want one of those."

Stevie B

[TonyToneTone]

Replace your negative thought with its opposite.

"Good for them they got that nice car/raise/spouse/house/etc.."

Just practice doing this until it becomes natural.

[Precious]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

Replace your negative thought with its opposite.

"Good for them they got that nice car/raise/spouse/house/etc.."

Just practice doing this until it becomes natural.

And what does this sentence to my subconscious ? I want to understand what is happening.

[MacFly]

Originally Posted by Precious

And what does this sentence to my subconscious ? I want to understand what is happening.

From my experience, affirmations alone don't really change your subconscious, but it's the feeling. If you consciously translate those affirmations into feelings, and if you're able to maintain that state for long enough, you can change your whole life.

It sounds good, and it is good, but maintaining a good frequency even for a few hours can be very difficult, especially if you have a strong ego (like 90% of people). The ego is a very clever stuff, and it can hide itself very good. You don't even notice it and you're right back in your negative thought pattern.

And I think this is the key for LoA and IM too. Everybody can generate the feelings, but very few people can do it long enough to manifest more than little syncs and alpha-reflections.

[Precious]

Originally Posted by MacFly

From my experience, affirmations alone don't really change your subconscious, but it's the feeling. If you consciously translate those affirmations into feelings, and if you're able to maintain that state for long enough, you can change your whole life.

It sounds good, and it is good, but maintaining a good frequency even for a few hours can be very difficult, especially if you have a strong ego (like 90% of people). The ego is a very clever stuff, and it can hide itself very good. You don't even notice it and you're right back in your negative thought pattern.

And I think this is the key for LoA and IM too. Everybody can generate the feelings, but very few people can do it long enough to manifest more than little syncs and alpha-reflections.

A quick question for you and the other people who read this thread.

How do you generate feelings, and how do you make them stronger ?

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by Precious

And what does this sentence to my subconscious ? I want to understand what is happening.

Instead of putting out a negative vibe and attracting to yourself the opposite of what you want, it will put or keep you in a positive vibe to be in tune with it.

As for your sub, it should begin retraining how you see other people's success. Instead of getting upset about it, you'll congratulate it. If you're congratulating other people's successes, you'll be translating these feelings and thoughts to your subconscious which will have a more positive expectation about them being possible for you.

Lastly, if you're right now saying something negative about someone with a cool car like you said before "F**k that bastard.", how you will feel when it comes time for you to buy a cool car? Your subconcious wouldn't want you to be a bastard so it will keep you from that car you want until you change that way of thinking.

A quick question for you and the other people who read this thread.

How do you generate feelings, and how do you make them stronger ?

Focus on what you want. The more you focus on it, the stronger your feelings will get.

[MacFly]

Originally Posted by Precious

A quick question for you and the other people who read this thread.

How do you generate feelings, and how do you make them stronger ?

Generating a good feeling is nothing but a choice.

You sit here, and choose to feel rich. Relax your mind, and imagine how it'd feel like to have 1 million dollars.Imagine that you already have it. Think about how did you earn it, what you've bought, imagine you bought a house, what furnitures you bought, how you placed them, what else you've bought. Imagine how you feel with that money on your bank account. Imagine that calm feeling. You have a lot of money, you don't have to worry about your bills, you can buy any food you want, you can eat at the most expensive restaurants without worrying about money. Imagine how it'd feel like to think about your past when you'd been poor, and how your life became a lot better since you'd became rich.

[wachusettgirl]

I would also add to try to find and express gratitude. For example, when you see someone with a totally cool car, admire that car, but also say thanks for the car (or whatever method of transport) that you now have. It may seem difficult at first, but with a concious effort you can always find something about your current situation to be thankful for (wow, the car that I have is really, fuel-efficient, or wow, taking the bus saves me so much in insurance...).
Having genuine gratitude puts you into a higher vibration immediately, thereby allowing you to attract what you really want.

[ProbableReality]

Hello Precious,

Perhaps the best thing you can do is to tell a new story about yourself right now.

Like this:

In the last few weeks I've read and watched some materials about LOA, and I've started to become more conscious about my thoughts. I've noticed that there is a lot of love and appreciation in my thoughts, and this is good for me, because the LOA says, you attract what you focus on. Now let me explain how and where I've noticed this love and appreciation.

When I see someone with a cool cars my "inside voice" tells me : "There is someone who deserves something nice."

This is just an example of what's happening in my mind, and there is a lot of positive expectation for my future. I control the voice in my head, because I can amend any thought I don't like.

Now I would like to expand my joy, because I'm sure that all these thoughts work on my behalf. I'm ready to attract more good things in my life.


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This is a continuous process. The only thing you need to discipline yourself to to is to FEEL GOOD!

Do this every moment you remember, and your new platform for growth will invite more cool things for you.

[Dreamline]

Originally Posted by MacFly

From my experience, affirmations alone don't really change your subconscious, but it's the feeling. If you consciously translate those affirmations into feelings, and if you're able to maintain that state for long enough, you can change your whole life.

It sounds good, and it is good, but maintaining a good frequency even for a few hours can be very difficult, especially if you have a strong ego (like 90% of people). The ego is a very clever stuff, and it can hide itself very good. You don't even notice it and you're right back in your negative thought pattern.

And I think this is the key for LoA and IM too. Everybody can generate the feelings, but very few people can do it long enough to manifest more than little syncs and alpha-reflections.

I agree. Our visualizing what we want and describing it is how WE understand manifesting. Our feelings are the language the source speaks. So just desiring, and asking helps US formulate and figure out our potential manifestations but without feelings attached, the universe does not 'hear' our desire.

Which is why I STRONGLY recommend the book Excuse Me: Your Life is Waiting! by Lynn Grabhorn. She was a quirky writer but her discourse on feelings in her book is why I believe I am a successful manifestor. It was the first book on LOA I ever read (before The Secret was even dreamt of) and therefore became the foundation for my further studies.


Jennifer