Manifesting Friends?

[Rocksta]

Have any of you had experience with manifesting relationships?

I have no problem with attracting certain material things, money to buy them, but I don't feel as comfortable with an idea of attracting friends, after all it's not really tangible.

I just woke up with a feeling of anxiety and it got to me that i have absolutely no satisfying acquaintances. My exams are over, holidays have started and I totally don't know how to spend time.

In LOA/New Thought books I read that if someone feels love to the world, he will never lack friends, but it's really not true in my case... i don't know how i ended up here.
for example, I am a positive person and I am surrounded only by people whose mindset, attitude is negative, pessimistic. I know no party-goers while I'd love to spend time in clubs, but I have no one to go there with
So I believe there is something with me that keeps attracting kind of boring personalities. Really, every new person I meet is less fun than the previous one, it can't be coincidence that I keep attracting those people.
Please, help me improve that part of my life.

If someone did manifest friends, what exactly did you do?

[spongesuesquareskirt]

I have kind of had the same problems. I'm also working on manifesting friends.

But I do feel like for a lot of my life, I did hold a belief that was something like "there is not enough love" or "i am not really loved" or something like that.

I think we just have to change our outlook. I mean, the way I see it, if there is a certian problem in my life, especially if it keeps repeating, then there has to be something in my consicous or unconscious mind that is creating and manifesting it.

I would say, just write out a good intention for manifesting positive people and friends and just keep saying it to yourself and reading it over and over and over. If you fill your conscious mind with those thoughts, then your subconscious will eventually pick it up and create a better reality for you.

I have had some luck with this. I have intended for negative people in my life to interact harmoniously and it has definitely gotten better. I have also had at least a couple positive people come into my life and want to hang out with me, and i had only been doing the intention for a week or two, and not that much.

I think if you really focus on it and do it a lot, it will work.
Hope this helps.

[spongesuesquareskirt]

The other thing is, after you start intending, it should kind of encourage you to take some positive action. this also helps.

Like maybe if you go out and try to meet people a little. If you do the intention, then you will be more likely to attract positive people and be more outgoing and become a positive cycle of intending, action, and manifestation, which will inspire you to act more and intend more and so on.

[Rocksta]

thanks
it was encouraging to find out you did manifest some positive personalities

[noella]

Just wanted to ask u rocksta.....did u have some luck on that???...I'm in the same situation.....i have successfully manifested a lot of things in life...in fact even my current relationship with my b.f....so there's proof enough to believe that we can attract the kind of relationships we want with LOA.......

So let me know.....if u succeeded....then i would also go ahead and give it a try...because its not working for me either

[TonyToneTone]

I would start first by changing your internal self-talk/beliefs about the situation. Grab a pen and paper and write out a story of how you would like your life to be: "I have amazing friends. I have so much fun spending time with them. They treat me so great and I am blessed to be around them." etc... Every day read this story to yourself and feel the feelings as if you have your new friends now. You can also visualize it as you read it.

I would also start being grateful for whatever relationships you have now. As you put forth gratitude, you can expect to receive more things to be grateful about.

I find with things like this that a small shift in consciousness can produce big results.

[yamayama]

This is my method. I find a quiet place where I won't be disturbed for a little bit.

First I get into a relaxed state by making my breathing deep and even. I close my eyes and bring love to me. I picture it like engery (its color is a brilliant white or a sunrise pink) and I have the feeling of love and happiness in my mind. I bring those feelings to me. I suck it in. I keep this up as long as I can. If my thoughts stray I choose what to give energy to. Some I let go and others I bring to me (suck in) along with the feeling of love. When I'm done I'm usually very relaxed. You'll just know when you're done. You don't have to meditate on this for hours. Just a couple of minutes.

I've done this at work and it works. People seek me out. Personality wise it draws everyone sort of randomly. It's up to you, I think, not to let other people's bad emotions and attitudes effect you. I hang out with everyone and usually my persistant peaceful good mood effects them and they're less pessimistic or whatever.

[True Believer]

At the beginning of the year one of my intentions was to manifest new friends, ones that were more like me and would accept me for who I was. The friends I had known for years had started to drift away and wanted different things.

Some of the things I did was: Create a vision board and put a picture of a group of friends on there and their personality types. Asked for more confidence that I could go out there and meet new people. Remained positive throughout so the chances of meeting negative people was less.

The main thing was putting myself out there, going to places where I knew there would be people I wanted to be friends with and then when the opportunity came to swap numbers/meet another time I always said yes.

In 9 months I have created a whole new group of friends who I love and respect and vice versa . So don't just ask for it - open up yourself to the opportunity and watch new friends flock to you!

Good luck xx

[FeelGood]

Originally Posted by Rocksta

Have any of you had experience with manifesting relationships?
I just woke up with a feeling of anxiety and it got to me that i have absolutely no satisfying acquaintances. My exams are over, holidays have started and I totally don't know how to spend time.

In LOA/New Thought books I read that if someone feels love to the world, he will never lack friends, but it's really not true in my case... i don't know how i ended up here.

So I believe there is something with me that keeps attracting kind of boring personalities. Really, every new person I meet is less fun than the previous one, it can't be coincidence that I keep attracting those people.

Notice what you're doing here - you're actually stating this:

"Really, every new person I meet is less fun than the previous one, it can't be coincidence that I keep attracting those people. "

What do you think that does to your universe? What you focus on expands. If you want more boring friends, keep thinking about it, and keep worrying.

The real key here isn't for you to try to get new friends. It is to grow within yourself - that quote is very much true. They're saying that when you truly have love in your heart for yourself, you will love all things, and everything you want and need will be drawn to you - including wonderful friends.

Anytime your life isn't the way you want it, it has nothing to do with anyone else - ever. Just you.