Could You help me ?

[Eoz]

Hi all

This is my first post here, so I have to introduce myself and say hi (that one's already done).
I need You to help me manifesting some money/help finding out what am I doing wrong.

I'm 22 yrs old, and I'm jobless. Since I remember I wanted to work alone, for my own. That's the main reason I didn't get job yet (except 3 month of work as a graphic designer).

I have a lot of dreams, but I couldn't make them true yet. Since I read about LOA about 8-9 months ago, my life started to turn upside down. That seemed to be hope and answer for my questions. But...

I'm not fully satisfied with it. I mean I know there are a lot of thing that manifested in my life (and continues to manifest), but when it comes to make some money, it seems to be a problem.
I live with parents yet, I think I own all their beliefs and habits about money. We've always been one step behind all, sometimes there was almost nothing to eat. But that's not the point of my post

I need a money, just to buy some clothes, rollerskates, some other things, move out to my own apartament.


Some ago I made a "wonder map" (I don't know what it "real" name is ), there's a plenty of things that are manifested. I was listening to mp3 with affirmations, sometimes during whole night, while I was sleeping. Nothing happened.


Is there any way to help me ?

[cheropride]

1st Question.
Do you hope these things will happen?
Do you know these things will happen?
Or do you doubt these things will happen?

2nd Question.
What steps (actions) have been taking to make these things happen?

Scenario...
Several months ago, my son's school annouced that they will be closing and that this is the last year. Now at 1st was very concerned, but even before they made the annoucement I was very concerned about how we were going to pay for tuition next year... see the connection... So then my thoughts shifted to what about next year, ohhh how I wish they would turn my son's school into a Charter School... Well, was annouced at the end of March they would... AWESOME.. Well at the same time I really began to dislike the school I was working in, and was thinking about making a change myself for the upcoming school year... Some doubt entered my mind due to economy, but the more I thought about it the more I want changed...

Just so happen that I do a search for the school that would be opening at my son's school. And OMG, they are having a job fair. I saw that on the same day of the job fair, in other words had I not listen to my self and did that search that day, I would missed out! I had the interview in March, thought it went really well. And although I heard nothing back, and even my husband became doubtful, I told him I know that they are going to offer me the job.

Well this is now the end of May, and as of Friday afternoon nothing... Still just know that phone will ring... Something told me to check my messages on Friday evening, but I didn't, on Saturday I did. There is a message from the new school Principle she wants to meet w/me on Tuesday to discuss a position available at my son's school. Now you better believe I will do everything possible to be at that interview, at any time she says...

And you know what, they will offer me that job!!!

The point of the story is this... Stay focused, act on your impulses, don't dismiss them, and continue to say to yourself I will have ( ) you fill in the blank...

Last point is I am now listening to a CD series by Joe Vitale, and though I am not thru w/it yet, he does make some interesting points. Mainly, your conscious mind may be saying one thing, like I will have that apartment, but your unconscious mind is saying no you don't deserve it. And that we must constantly work thru our belief system about our selves and this world we live in...

Best of luck to you.. I am sure you will get some great advise here, just realign your thinking perhaps, and know as you know the sky is blue that you will have and you do deserve those things you so desire...

[seirwyn]

I find that I manifest things when I set the intent with a positive frame of mind and then forget about it. Was it this way with the other things you manifested? Do you think a lot about not having any money?
I took about 6 weeks to manifest some money but I did this by not worrying about it.

[SimonaRich]

Yes, you should identify exact limited beliefs you have about money and consciously change them to positive affirmations about money. It seems that money is a sensitive topic for you so you are still disallowing it to flow freely into your experience. The sooner you get rid of negative beliefs, the quicker you will manifest money.

[Fairytale]

I agree with everything that has been said and want to add some practical tips:

It would be a good idea for you to first get a regular job, just try to find something that is in the area you want to work in later (when you will be self-employed). In this way you will be able to:
- gain a lot of first-hand experience in the area you are interested in (you will need to make less of your own mistakes when you start your business )
- you will make acquaintances with people who have already achieved something and will be able to give you some good advice
- and, probably, the most important thing - you will relax a little about your money issues. You will become independent and won't have to ask your parents for money.

After you gain some experience and become independent from your parents you can start working on your business part-time.

I know that you probably want everything now, but trust me it won't take you a lot of time, the changes will go smoothly and you will gain a lot of benefits in the process.

[cheropride]

Originally Posted by Fairytale

I agree with everything that has been said and want to add some practical tips:

It would be a good idea for you to first get a regular job, just try to find something that is in the area you want to work in later (when you will be self-employed). In this way you will be able to:
- gain a lot of first-hand experience in the area you are interested in (you will need to make less of your own mistakes when you start your business )
- you will make acquaintances with people who have already achieved something and will be able to give you some good advice
- and, probably, the most important thing - you will relax a little about your money issues. You will become independent and won't have to ask your parents for money.

After you gain some experience and become independent from your parents you can start working on your business part-time.

I know that you probably want everything now, but trust me it won't take you a lot of time, the changes will go smoothly and you will gain a lot of benefits in the process.

Exactly!!! Well said...

Just one more food for thought so to speak...

Enjoy the moment you are in now, appreciate for what it is. If you don't learn to do that now, you will always be searching for tomorrow. Each day has it's gifts to unfold to ya...

[MagicalRealist]

Originally Posted by Eoz

I'm 22 yrs old, and I'm jobless. Since I remember I wanted to work alone, for my own. That's the main reason I didn't get job yet (except 3 month of work as a graphic designer).

So am I right in guessing that you could get a job, but you've chosen not to because you'd rather be self-employed?

Exactly what kind of work do you intend to do on your own? What actions are you taking right now to make that happen?

Since I read about LOA about 8-9 months ago, my life started to turn upside down. That seemed to be hope and answer for my questions. But...

But...the LoA is not the instant magical solution that will wipe away all of your problems, and give you everything you ever wanted without your having to do anything for it. Sure, you will manifest some small things easily, but to get the big things requires work and attention on your part.

Most people have too many mental blocks--both conscious and subconscious--so they get in their own way. Learning to work with the LoA means changing your patterns of thinking, and of relating to the world. Without making those inner-world changes, it will be virtually impossible to make major changes in your outer world.

I live with parents yet, I think I own all their beliefs and habits about money. We've always been one step behind all, sometimes there was almost nothing to eat. But that's not the point of my post

It might not be the point of your post, but it's a very important point.

If you are trying to work with the LoA, while at the same time continuing to hold your parents' ideas about money (there isn't enough, we always end up short, it's hard to come by), you are defeating yourself. Exposing those ideas to the light and replacing them with positive ones--replacing thoughts of scarcity with ones of abundance--is crucial.

I need a money, just to buy some clothes, rollerskates, some other things, move out to my own apartament.

First, what value are you offering for these things? What energy are you putting out into the world, in exchange for the energy embodied in the money, the clothes, the roller skates, the apartment? If you want a lot of good to flow to you, you need to let good flow from you.

And this doesn't mean you have to work hard for any of it; it just means that you have to be prepared to take inspired action to get what you want.

The same goes for a life in which you are self-employed. If you want to have a successful business of your own, you have to put energy into it. You have to know exactly what you want, and what you will offer the world, before the how of getting it into motion is revealed.

Second, as long as you come from a perspective of needing money, you will always need it. If you are constantly wondering why it hasn't shown up yet, it'll never show up. As long as you are focused on the lack of something in your life--love, money, work, happiness, purpose--you will continue to experience a lack of that. And when it comes to starting your own business, you have to work from the conviction that you will get your desired result--because saying, "I want to own my own business, but it's just not working out" will just get you more not-working-out.

It sounds crazy, but the real secret behind "the Secret" is that you can get anything you want--as long as you don't need it. But I won't lie; getting past need is a difficult process for a lot of people.

[viking4525]

Originally Posted by MagicalRealist

So am I right in guessing that you could get a job, but you've chosen not to because you'd rather be self-employed?

Exactly what kind of work do you intend to do on your own? What actions are you taking right now to make that happen?

But...the LoA is not the instant magical solution that will wipe away all of your problems, and give you everything you ever wanted without your having to do anything for it. Sure, you will manifest some small things easily, but to get the big things requires work and attention on your part.

Most people have too many mental blocks--both conscious and subconscious--so they get in their own way. Learning to work with the LoA means changing your patterns of thinking, and of relating to the world. Without making those inner-world changes, it will be virtually impossible to make major changes in your outer world.

It might not be the point of your post, but it's a very important point.

If you are trying to work with the LoA, while at the same time continuing to hold your parents' ideas about money (there isn't enough, we always end up short, it's hard to come by), you are defeating yourself. Exposing those ideas to the light and replacing them with positive ones--replacing thoughts of scarcity with ones of abundance--is crucial.

First, what value are you offering for these things? What energy are you putting out into the world, in exchange for the energy embodied in the money, the clothes, the roller skates, the apartment? If you want a lot of good to flow to you, you need to let good flow from you.

And this doesn't mean you have to work hard for any of it; it just means that you have to be prepared to take inspired action to get what you want.

The same goes for a life in which you are self-employed. If you want to have a successful business of your own, you have to put energy into it. You have to know exactly what you want, and what you will offer the world, before the how of getting it into motion is revealed.

Second, as long as you come from a perspective of needing money, you will always need it. If you are constantly wondering why it hasn't shown up yet, it'll never show up. As long as you are focused on the lack of something in your life--love, money, work, happiness, purpose--you will continue to experience a lack of that. And when it comes to starting your own business, you have to work from the conviction that you will get your desired result--because saying, "I want to own my own business, but it's just not working out" will just get you more not-working-out.

It sounds crazy, but the real secret behind "the Secret" is that you can get anything you want--as long as you don't need it. But I won't lie; getting past need is a difficult process for a lot of people.

I have to whole heartedly agree ... I would also add something else.

When you say/write/visualise (etc etc) you have to MEAN it, as well as NOT NEEDING it. As magicrealist said you should NOT say/write etc etc "I want to own my own business, but it's just not working out", you should say/write AND MEAN FROM THE DEPTH OF YOUR SOUL "something" along the lines of .... "I want to own my own business, and I KNOW it will exceed my wildest dreams for the greater good of all".

The Secret/The Process is FAR BEYOND just LoA ... there is much more, but all of it comes down to one thing, the "journey" inside of yourself. The journey is getting you to that point that you MEAN what you feel. The Secret will give you 100% of what you ask 100% of the time, so just because you say/write/visualise etc an intention UNLESS you also MEAN it from the WHOLE of your INSIDE, you will receive what your INSIDE is asking for.

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by Eoz

Hi all

This is my first post here, so I have to introduce myself and say hi (that one's already done).
I need You to help me manifesting some money/help finding out what am I doing wrong.

I'm 22 yrs old, and I'm jobless. Since I remember I wanted to work alone, for my own. That's the main reason I didn't get job yet (except 3 month of work as a graphic designer).

I have a lot of dreams, but I couldn't make them true yet. Since I read about LOA about 8-9 months ago, my life started to turn upside down. That seemed to be hope and answer for my questions. But...

I'm not fully satisfied with it. I mean I know there are a lot of thing that manifested in my life (and continues to manifest), but when it comes to make some money, it seems to be a problem.
I live with parents yet, I think I own all their beliefs and habits about money. We've always been one step behind all, sometimes there was almost nothing to eat. But that's not the point of my post

I need a money, just to buy some clothes, rollerskates, some other things, move out to my own apartament.


Some ago I made a "wonder map" (I don't know what it "real" name is ), there's a plenty of things that are manifested. I was listening to mp3 with affirmations, sometimes during whole night, while I was sleeping. Nothing happened.


Is there any way to help me ?

I would say first, what is your definite purpose in life? What do you want to do with your life? You lack of money seems to stem from not having the first question answered. If you have that answered, you would be working towards it which would most likely net you an income.

From Deepak Chopra's book "The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success"
“Sit down and make a list of the answers to these two questions: Ask yourself, if money was no concern and you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do? If you would still do what you are currently do, then you are in dharma (living according to your higher purpose), because you have a passion for what you do – you are expressing your unique talents. Then ask yourself: How am I best suited to serve humanity? Answer that question, and put it into practice. “

I hope that helps!

[Will Edwards]

Getting clear in your mind about what you want - important as the exercise is - is only half of the matter. The other half concerns taking steps toward your goal. If you do the first without the second, you will simply be a dreamer, but if you consistently take steps toward your goal, you will ultimately reach it; provided you do not allow obstacles to discourage you.

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