Parental Negative Intention became Manifest

[WordKeeper]

I just had an incredible insight - light bulb moment.

I was reading about someone's Manifesting and suddenly I SAW how my parents negative intentions about me became manifest. Suddently the power of intention and manifest in a negative sense became clear. Immediately I also saw how the whole thing swept me up into a powerful negative energy system.

I've been resisting this all my life and that resistance simply fed it. That is an amazing insight.

The scariest part is that I also understand that the only way out is to accept. That seems crazy to me but then what I have been trying for years and years has not worked at all but has actually led to matters being worse. Time for another approach. It is scary but I'm willing.

[beeonne]

WOW WordKeeper.
Good for you!

I so know how you feel. Actually my latest insight was about my parents and their thoughts about me.

[WordKeeper]

Thanks beeonne. I'll take that as encouragement and all encouragement is welcomed.

I tend to believe that negative parental thoughts are generational, passed on and on unless something interrupts and intervenes. That's my job now.

[SarahLuvzYu]

Your parents don't intend anything. Only you do.

Since ya know, you are the only conscious being here

[Andy4]

Hi WordKeeper,

Hope you are well,last time I replied to you I forgot to comment on the fact that you were brave enough to say no,I think it was to your father.I think being able to say no is very important.

It's quite obvious that you have problems with your parents but I dont know enough about it to coment properly.

My problems with my parents are a lot less stressfull but my dad does my head 'in he gave next to nothing to my wedding and then invited about twenty of his cronies which I had to pay for.That's just par for the course for him.

I'm quite a powerful man but so is he and he pinned me up against a wall when I was 16,when I stepped in on an argument between him and my mum.
Then to top it off he didnt speak to me for over a month because I'd dared to question him.This may sound weird but I do love him ,he had a difficult childhood and I had a good one,loads of friends and a good family.

Liked what Beeone said but I've said it b4 on this forum talk is cheep,ignore the tssers and kissasses,they do my head 'in.creep,creep creep.How high should I jump etc.They are pityful but everyone is entitled to their oppinion I suppose but come on everone should keep their pride and self respect.I must stress I am not referring to the vulnerable,decent people but the creeps.
I have genuine confidence,so their petty snipes just make me smile.

You are brave and I like you and a lot of people on this forum.Most of us try to help each other,that's how it should be.

Hope you get all this sorted.

regards,Andy.

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[WordKeeper]

Thank you Andy4. I love the support. We as humans all need support. I have some support in my 3D life and I am building on it. But I also thrive on the support I get from cyber friends.

Your father's behavior at your wedding is doubly twisted. World-wide a wedding is a time of celebration and send off. Across cultures, fathers participating in providing the wedding celebration.

It is such a break with the norm and a wounding, offense to you that he did not step up to the plate. But then to bring his buddies to celebrate as though it was his party - is adding insult to injury.

Not everyone had oafish parents who were more concerned with themselves than the children they brought into the world. No parent is perfect but some are miles closer than others. When parents don't even pretend to put their children first it can take some work for the offspring to get on track.

I'm headed there. Still have a way to go but getting closer each and every week. The good news for me re: my first post in this thread is that I see how important and powerful intentions are. I know they can work in the positive, they surely worked well in the negative for a long time with me. Very excited about turning this ship around.

[m18pak]

I've been resisting this all my life and that resistance simply fed it. That is an amazing insight.

The scariest part is that I also understand that the only way out is to accept. That seems crazy to me but then what I have been trying for years and years has not worked at all but has actually led to matters being worse. Time for another approach. It is scary but I'm willing.

I'm curious, what exactly do you mean when you say that "the only way out is to accept"?

I'm facing the exact same struggle in life as you. Can you please clarify for me exactly what this other approach you've found is?

[Diandra25]

ordkeeper

another synch here

i am very glad that you are heading in your "right" direction.

today morning i also let my feelings out with my parents - im finally managing not to keep all for myself.

i realised that now it doenst matter if they have diferent views and ideas of how things should be,my life,etc....i realised that in the past i only have seeked their acceptance,and not really looked into myself,searching the things it really made me happy.

i dont know your story,and you dont know mine,but althought always existed love and understanding,and we are a bonded family,my parents have retrograde thinking,normally they put a lot of importance on how society views us,our manners,our status...etc.

I just said that while they complain about how worse things get,they wil continue to see life going backwards,unless they see HOW MUCH grateful they have to be/feel of the wonderful sons and daughters they have ( i feel they dont see that).and only focus on what they expected from us,and dont see their own self-fulfilment through us-neither they should....

i finally today felt - what the hell - they said i need a psichologist cause i keep talking about LOA and how they could turn life better

but im much more stonger and self confident of me now - dont EVER DOUBT of yOURSELF. DONT LET OTHERS MAKE THAT TO YOU EITHER.

You always KNOW BETTER what YOU ARE and what YOU FEEL.

nice...i am just listening to josh groban - "dont give up" - everyone needs to be heard.... you are Loved....

[WordKeeper]

Lovely Diandre. You go girl. You know what you deserve. Go get it - because it belongs to you.

I have been tapping (EFT) on a prayer attributed to Nelson Mandela and these three lines seem appropo here:

Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.

("Other people" includes parents - well meaning or not.)