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sarahsarahsarah11 · 01-12-2007, 04:09 AM

what do I do if i need to tell someone something but I'm scared to tell them because of the possible MAJOR negative reaction and rammifications? How should I phrase my I-M intention? Any ideas?

infinitethoughts · 01-12-2007, 05:22 PM

Tell them and if they can't handle it, oh well.

Thats my advice....but I am a little rough around the edges.

But, actually if you adopt that attitude frictions will occur, but maybe its for the best?
Can't be nice all the time.

Michelle · 01-12-2007, 05:26 PM

What do you mean by "major"? Violent?

Abundance · 01-12-2007, 10:50 PM

Perhaps you could try wording your intention along similar lines to this -

_ hears/understands & accepts my words/ thoughts/decision in a calm & peaceful manner.

Sharyn

Eli · 01-14-2007, 08:18 PM

I can't say without knowing just what it is that you have a need to say. Then I can attempt to give my opinion.........Peace.......Eli.........

01-12-2007, 04:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
sarahsarahsarah11 Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 37	any advice what do I do if i need to tell someone something but I'm scared to tell them because of the possible MAJOR negative reaction and rammifications? How should I phrase my I-M intention? Any ideas?

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Eli Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 51	need to know what I can't say without knowing just what it is that you have a need to say. Then I can attempt to give my opinion.........Peace.......Eli.........

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01-12-2007, 05:22 PM	#2 (permalink)
infinitethoughts Family Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,156	Tell them and if they can't handle it, oh well. Thats my advice....but I am a little rough around the edges. But, actually if you adopt that attitude frictions will occur, but maybe its for the best? Can't be nice all the time.

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Michelle Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Hawaii Posts: 1,285	What do you mean by "major"? Violent?

01-12-2007, 10:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
Abundance Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 28	Perhaps you could try wording your intention along similar lines to this - _ hears/understands & accepts my words/ thoughts/decision in a calm & peaceful manner. Sharyn

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