|02-10-2009, 10:52 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: East Stroudsburg, PA
Steve/Erin, I need your help.
Long time reader of your blogs, books, and wisdom.
I first learned about the Law of Attraction from you guys and although I have a pretty good understanding of it, I need more of your guidance.
Sorry if this post is long. I know you guys lead busy lives. But here goes. . .
First off, I would like to say that I am a very charismatic guy, especially when it comes to women. I have been infatuated before but I have had a fairly large amount of success with women at my age (Iím 22). Now with that said, hereís my problem.
There has been this girl who has liked me for months. Iíve been oblivious to it and her friends told me about it around 2 weeks ago. So then figured okay, Iíll go holler at her since this one was in the bag (she is absolutely gorgeous btw but I have never shyed away from any woman).
I talked to her, got her number, and even hung out with her the Friday before the super bowl. We even kissed. We had a really good connection and I found out that she is a lot like me (ambitious, outgoing, attractive, likes singing, and sports).
Now after that night I moved to the other end of the spectrum that I never really ventured to much before. I was hooked. I remember last week Sunday staring at the super bowl with my friends but thinking about her the entire time. With a friendís encouragement, I told her how I felt (I may have come on strong) and I might have scared her off. She is the type that plays hard to get anyway so I may be thinking to hard into it. Now she seems a tad distant and I really think I messed up.
Guys, I have it bad. I swear that every other thought is about her. I KNOW for a fact that I manifested her into my like because she was EXACTLY what I would visualize when intending. Iíve been intending that she like me to the same degree that she did before but I feel as if the strong emotions of infatuation are resisting her because I keep thinking worst case scenario. I donít want to wait these emotions out because she is a hot tamale and with Valentineís day coming up, some other guy could snatch her up.
I want her so bad but Iím afraid going any harder will push her away. So here I stay stagnant. I manifested her so I want to have what I had back. She is ALL I think about.
Based off of what you guys can tell from this post, what am I doing wrong that I feel this way? I feel so much pain inside at the though of messing this up. What would you guys intend or change in my position? What actions would you turn to? Iíve never been in this position before so I am completely lost. Iíve lost all my swagger and poise and I donít know what to do. I donít know where else to turn.
I thought I would be okay with attempting to manifest her back but I canít rid myself of these strong emotions which continue to arise when I feel like Iím making progress. I know I still have a lot to learn about the female courting process but I donít want this to be one of those failures I can learn from. I want her. Period.
Thanks you guys in advance. I appreciate any help you can give. You guys are like the power couple of the decade (next to Will and Jada Smith, Jay-Z and Beyonce, and Brad and Angelina).
P.S. I think the fact that I recently converted to veganism (thanks again to the help of you guys) really is adding to the emotional infatuation. Itís like the emotional floodgates have opened.
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