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Old 01-22-2009, 07:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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i find it hard to overcome jealousy, i know its a really bad thing but i find myself getting jealous of guys who can get so many girls, rich kids and pretty people. I have tried hard using the LOA to stop me feeling these negative feelings but when i get jealous it only makes me depressed after it, coz i haven't even one of them things. Any tips to stop me being the green eyed monster?
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Old 01-23-2009, 11:36 AM   #2 (permalink)
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i find it hard to overcome jealousy, i know its a really bad thing but i find myself getting jealous of guys who can get so many girls, rich kids and pretty people. I have tried hard using the LOA to stop me feeling these negative feelings but when i get jealous it only makes me depressed after it, coz i haven't even one of them things. Any tips to stop me being the green eyed monster?
I'm not sure that "LOA" is the way to get rid of negative feelings.

The way to stop being jealous is to stop doing it. Don't worry about things over which you have no control. You have X amount of energy. You are running down your battery, wasting juice on being jealous when you could be using it to get what you want.

Figure out what you want, get as good a picture of it as you can in your head, then relax and know you'll get it. You get to say what you want, but you don't get to say when or how. Let "the system" take care of that for you. The happier you are, the happier you'll get. It's like a saying from a very old American TV show: "Pins and needles, needles and pins; a happy man is a man who grins."

(And a generous slice of raisin pie to anyone who can tell me where that phrase comes from without Googling it. )
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When I feel jealous over something that someone else has I first must acknowledge that jealousy to myself (harder than it sounds) and then I "switch" my feelings, i.e. I actually "choose" to feel glad for that person and then think to myself I want that too and must manifest it.

This thought process actually helps me switch from the negative, binding jealousy to an open feeling of gratitude that what I want is on its way for me.

The relief is immediate. I suspect the manifestation is not far behind.
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thanx u guys, made me feel much better
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