Am I manifesting the relationship when I fall in love?

[Ralph]

I noticed that I think a lot about the girl I'm in love with. She doesn't even know I exist (yet) but hey - if I think so much about sharing my life with her etc. there must be SO powerful LOA in work

She really "takes over" a lot of my thinking processes. So far I considered it counterproductive - what's the point of thinking about her when she's not around and I can't get in touch with her. But now I'm wondering - maybe those thoughts do have a purpose and it would be unnecessary to stop them?



What do you think? I'd rather have the relationship than be a bit more productive. Yet, are those thoughts really helping? Shall I take a logical approach and increase my productiveness by not thinking about that girl I love?
Or shall I think about her knowing that LOA is in work right at this moment even though no real action seems to be taking place just yet?

[Parthon]

I don't think you are "in love". I think you are infatuated with someone you've met.

The question is, what are you creating with your thoughts? What's the underlying driving emotion behind them. Are you dreaming of living a life together, or are you longing for it. Are you happy because you can see yourself with her, or do you really wish and want to be together, like a heart stricken desire.

It's great to love someone, and care for them and cherish them greatly. But I don't think that's what you are doing. This "love" for her is clouding your judgement right now, and you have to get back in touch with your true self to see where to go next. You can create a future wit your thoughts, if you can create one full of happiness, and then take inspired action apon it. Just wanting for a bright and happy future isn't good, it's wishful thinking. It will just create a sense of longing inside you.

The challenge, is to take your wishfulness, and create something real out of it. Take a dream and make it real. Intend something, then manifest it.

[Arboretor]

Is there a way for you to take action? If there is, then do it.

[Ralph]

I do take action, and was quite successful today by the way


What bugs me though is whether I can (in any way) call my thoughts about being with the other person productive. I often imagine myself talking to her as if it was already real. It's not really longing because I feel excitement and have fun doing that.
Yet I'm not sure if I should stop and focus on reality, or are those thoughts manifesting the reality I want so they're productive on some level.

[Arboretor]

I don't see anything wrong with that, as long as you do it with a feeling of trust and conviction.