Want a girlfriend or boyfriend? Try this.

[TonyToneTone]

Grab a pen and paper and write out "My Perfect Girlfriend" or "My Perfect Boyfriend" for the girls. Write out ALL of your perfect mates qualities; hair, eye color, how they behave with you, EVERYTHING. I mean REALLY go crazy with it. After you finish that, put up a picture of someone that looks fairly close to what your ideal person would look like. I then want you to write one powerful affirmation that you will say to yourself to get you in the right feeling to attract this person.

I use to use; "I am excitedly walking down the street holding hands with my gorgeous curly blond haired girlfriend". For my picture I put up a picture of Shakira. A few days later I was walking down the street holding hands with a gorgeous curly blond haired woman. In fact I met two more women after that one who both had blond curly hair and I had a great time with all 3.

So try it! REALLY put some feeling behind it. See yourself with your ideal person and then say your affirmation to yourself. After saying it, visualize again your ideal situation.

For your affirmation it has to have a descriptive word and a verb, " I am excitedly walking..." "I am passionately kissing" "I am playfully squeezing" etc....

So try it! and let me know how it goes.

PS - Make sure to hold the image for at least 1-2 minutes. It's been said that it takes at least 33 seconds for a concept to be implanted into your subconscious. I ask for a minute or two just to make sure it really gets in there.

[JMononoetoe]

Thank you very much I'll try this.


.... Wait... Do I look desperate now?

[forynav]

I'm on this!

[MancsAdonis]

great post! this is exactly what i was looking for. i do have a question though...you can apply this to anything cant you? money, health etc...

[Wax Frog]

"...my perfect girlfriend, by some wonderful happenstance, reads this board regularly, and has become utterly captivated by my wit and charm..."

[torilink]

Originally Posted by Wax Frog

"...my perfect girlfriend, by some wonderful happenstance, reads this board regularly, and has become utterly captivated by my wit and charm..."

you best narrow that down a bit waxy - that intention leaves way too many of us gals for you to sort through!

[Wax Frog]

Originally Posted by torilink

you best narrow that down a bit waxy - that intention leaves way too many of us gals for you to sort through!

You think a recruitment drive is a bad idea?

[WordKeeper]

Lol!

[Trezker]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

I use to use; "I am excitedly walking down the street holding hands with my gorgeous curly blond haired girlfriend". For my picture I put up a picture of Shakira. A few days later I was walking down the street holding hands with a gorgeous curly blond haired woman. In fact I met two more women after that one who both had blond curly hair and I had a great time with all 3.

I want a Shakira too please.

[btwendel]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

I use to use; "I am excitedly walking down the street holding hands with my gorgeous curly blond haired girlfriend".

That sounds like a shallow wish, more like looking for a trophy girlfriend.

What about her mind and soul?

[Paul C]

Originally Posted by btwendel

That sounds like a shallow wish, more like looking for a trophy girlfriend.

What about her mind and soul?

Perhaps it's just assume that the girl has a equally attractive mind and soul?

At least that's what came to mind for me- she has to be attractive in more ways than just physical to have a meaningful relationship with. And I no doubt think there are many others on this board who would agree.

Although, the original idea itself is a good way to go about defining the qualities that you find desirable within a women, in which to attract into your life. And It goes without saying that actively seeking her out would help things along, as well as intending her into your sight.

And as TonyToneTone has already made clear, it's important to intend her in present tense, not a point within the future.

[YoungBuck]

Originally Posted by btwendel

That sounds like a shallow wish, more like looking for a trophy girlfriend.

What about her mind and soul?

Well, some people value looks over personality. It's just up to them what they want from their partners. People learn after a while that personality is alot more important than looks, especially for LTRs.

[forynav]

Gahhh... I have had enough of that mind and soul thingy. I fell in love with her personality and she shut me down.

It sucks absolutely to be rejected by a girl who is not even that hot.

So, ya I'll take a HOT bimbo for now.

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by Paul C

Perhaps it's just assume that the girl has a equally attractive mind and soul?

At least that's what came to mind for me- she has to be attractive in more ways than just physical to have a meaningful relationship with. And I no doubt think there are many others on this board who would agree.

Although, the original idea itself is a good way to go about defining the qualities that you find desirable within a women, in which to attract into your life. And It goes without saying that actively seeking her out would help things along, as well as intending her into your sight.

And as TonyToneTone has already made clear, it's important to intend her in present tense, not a point within the future.

Paul C you got it correct! I wasn't just intending someone physically beautiful, I also found someone with a heart , mind, and soul to match. And that's exactly what I got. The woman I went out with was one of the most beautiful people I have ever met (inside and out) and changed/improved my life for the better.

And btwendel, the purpose of my affirmation was to put me into the same state/feeling I would have if I had my ideal woman now. It ended up working perfectly. Also, there is nothing wrong with a trophy girlfriend. Everyone wants a mate they feel proud of. Just as I strive for excellence and enjoy it when women show me off.

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by JMononoetoe

Thank you very much I'll try this.


.... Wait... Do I look desperate now?

Not all at all. More like someone who knows what they want.

great post! this is exactly what i was looking for. i do have a question though...you can apply this to anything cant you? money, health etc...

Thank you! And yes, you can apply this to anything so have fun with it.

"...my perfect girlfriend, by some wonderful happenstance, reads this board regularly, and has become utterly captivated by my wit and charm..."

Maybe torilink is your perfect girlfriend???

I want a Shakira too please.

Intend and manifest her! I did, you can too!!!

Gahhh... I have had enough of that mind and soul thingy. I fell in love with her personality and she shut me down.

It sucks absolutely to be rejected by a girl who is not even that hot.

So, ya I'll take a HOT bimbo for now.

I'll take a hot bimbo anytime Seriously though, you can have both looks and personality in a woman.

[MancsAdonis]

tony thanx for replying man, sorry for asking so many questions but how many times a day do you visualize? or is it constant i.e whenever and wherever?

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by MancsAdonis

tony thanx for replying man, sorry for asking so many questions but how many times a day do you visualize? or is it constant i.e whenever and wherever?

Hey MancsAdonis, feel free to ask as many questions as you like. It is what I am here for.

Every morning I have specific visualizations that I do and then after that I just go about my day. It really depends up to the person. Some do morning and night, others just do it in the morning. Some people prefer to think about it all the time. I've found (and Napoleon Hill talks about this too) when there is something you really want, you don't have to force yourself into visualizing it constantly as you already think about it enough.

Also, something I would like to add. When you go about your day, go about it in with a positive attitude so that the vibrations you are giving off would be similar to what you would be giving off if your ideal life were happening right now. If you're in the same vibration, you have to attract it to you.

Last thing, when you visualize, make sure to do it for at least a minute or two. It takes on average 33 seconds for a concept to get impregnated into your subconscious. As over 90% of what you do is subconscious, you want your sub going to work on the positive images you give it.

[esoterika]

Is this like a love magic spell or something? Sounds like things we did in the girls bathroom while giggling and gushing over whos cute and whos not. But hey, I'll give it a shot. But keep in mind theres only enough Shakiras to go around. Heck, I may want one myself.

[Rockchick26]

I tried this for 2 years and it backfired on me horribly. I was told it was VERY bad to think about the person all day long,or even for hours. Then you are reinforcing that you do not have them,and your plan will backfire like mine did. I had a picture of what i wanted my guy to look like and i kept it in a "wish box" for almost a year. Pft! The only person i met who looked like this guy was a GIRL who looked like him.

Good luck everyone,though! I just learned its better to not obsess over wanting someone and just forget about it,at least then you wont be focusing on what you are lacking.

[freddy]

OK still waiting, getting out an around town. My question is when will this dream girl be coming to jump me. I did the exercize and nothing happening. Also, In my case every night just before I fall asleep I visualize and act out, like she there. Waiting ,Waiting,Waiting.

[aabbcc]

I've done this a couple of times over the years and nothing ever happened. But if someone can get it to work, more power to you.

[btwendel]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

Paul C you got it correct! I wasn't just intending someone physically beautiful, I also found someone with a heart , mind, and soul to match. And that's exactly what I got. The woman I went out with was one of the most beautiful people I have ever met (inside and out) and changed/improved my life for the better.

And btwendel, the purpose of my affirmation was to put me into the same state/feeling I would have if I had my ideal woman now. It ended up working perfectly.

You met the perfect woman, your ideal woman - how long did it last?

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by esoterika

Is this like a love magic spell or something? Sounds like things we did in the girls bathroom while giggling and gushing over whos cute and whos not. But hey, I'll give it a shot. But keep in mind theres only enough Shakiras to go around. Heck, I may want one myself.

No, it's based on the Law of Attraction and is much more then just thinking about who's hot.

There are PLENTY of Shakira's to go around. If you want one, do the exercise as well.

OK still waiting, getting out an around town. My question is when will this dream girl be coming to jump me. I did the exercize and nothing happening. Also, In my case every night just before I fall asleep I visualize and act out, like she there. Waiting ,Waiting,Waiting.

When do you want her to come to you? Focus on that as well. Really see her with you now. Also, it might take some time. Just like a flower takes time to bloom, it might take time for this woman to reach you. Don't conflict positive processes you have set in motion.

I tried this for 2 years and it backfired on me horribly. I was told it was VERY bad to think about the person all day long,or even for hours. Then you are reinforcing that you do not have them,and your plan will backfire like mine did. I had a picture of what i wanted my guy to look like and i kept it in a "wish box" for almost a year. Pft! The only person i met who looked like this guy was a GIRL who looked like him.

Good luck everyone,though! I just learned its better to not obsess over wanting someone and just forget about it,at least then you wont be focusing on what you are lacking.

I am not asking you to sit there and daydream or to spend hours on end doing this. 1-2 minutes a day of concentrated effort. Also, after you do this, remember to go about your day as if this person is coming to you. If you sit there and focus on them but then two hours later are telling one of your friends how crappy your love life is, and how hard it is to meet a good man, it's going to be hard to be in the same frequency to attract them. I should have included that in my original writing.

You met the perfect woman, your ideal woman - how long did it last?

Very short but beautiful time.

[btwendel]

I asked: You met the perfect woman, your ideal woman - how long did it last?

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

Very short but beautiful time.

To each their own but to me that is not a success story.

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by btwendel

I asked: You met the perfect woman, your ideal woman - how long did it last?



To each their own but to me that is not a success story.

That's fine with me. It's my story.

For those who would like a more in-depth explanation go to the 1:11 mark on this Youtube video I made some time back:
YouTube - The Imaging Process - Create Your Perfect Life (Part 2)

[esoterika]

Reality = Negativity
Wishful thinking = Optimism

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by esoterika

Reality = Negativity
Wishful thinking = Optimism

I have to disagree. If you are thinking good thoughts, taking good actions, and attracting positive events into your life, you will have a positive reality.

BTW, I like your name.

[forynav]

Hey Tony, clear this up for me.

So, I took ur advice and have written out the characteristics of the kind of girl and relationship I want. I do the affirmations before sleep and sometime during the day.

Well, for my "model", I have an actress in mind. So, whenever I visualize, I see her and myself in different scenarios. I'm very emotionally connected and it feels fantastic.

Now, since morning today, I have seen this actress on two billboards (which I took as a synchronicity because there are lots of actresses and she needn't be the one on two of them) and now she is on the radio! What would this mean? Whatever it means, I'm terribly excited and glowing

cheers!

[brandongilbert]

i have done this exercise and i must say that it certainly works.

just be aware to be as specific as possible and realize that your desires will always change.

[forynav]

In my excitement, I forgot to ask my question

How does the Universe distinguish between me trying to manifest a girl that looks like this actress or the actress herself?

Dankje!