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Most people who are curious about the LOA are curious about it from a highly practical perspective. They wonder whether it can help them lose weight; earn more money; find a better job; improve their relationships; play better tennis, and so on. In summary, they wonder whether the LOA can help them solve their problems, achieve their goals and generally create a more satisfying, fulfilling or pleasing life for themselves. Based on my personal experience, I know that the LOA can. It is an immensely powerful tool, for all those purposes. That is why I encourage people to give it a try. If you are like most other people and your LOA perspective is highly practical, then it will not be very important for you to know how exactly the LOA operates. What will be important to you is establishing whether it does work, and if so, how you can use it to consistently achieve your desired outcomes. By analogy, I do not really know how a car works. I am neither an engineer nor a mechanic. Neither do I really know how a computer works. I am not an IT professional. What is more important to me is that I do know how to drive a car so that I can get from Point A to Point B; and I do know how to use a computer such that I can create, store and print my documents. Similarly, the LOA may work by "natural" means. Or it may work by "supernatural" means. Perhaps sometimes it works by natural means, and sometimes it works by supernatural means, and sometimes a combination of both. It also depends on what is meant by "natural" or by "supernatural", because, depending on what is meant, I might be equally happy to say,"The LOA works in a 100% natural way" or "The LOA works in a 100% supernatural way." Whatever. The point is - it works. (Or if you have not yet come to know that it works, well, that is the point which you are seeking to test). ------------------ Now, in my opinion, the direct effect of LOA on reality goes beyond its effect on your own actions, speech, emotions, mental abilities and physical body. I further believe that you only disadvantage yourself, if you believe that the effect of LOA on reality is strictly confined to those sorts of things. Nevertheless this disadvantage is not necessarily severe. This is simply because even if you believe that the LOA can directly improve only your immediate self, that is already a very great thing. And that's because the potential applications are already quite numerous. A few hundred examples are listed here <---- you probably won't finish exploring even half of these, in this lifetime. Happy thinking! Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 10-19-2008 at 01:44 AM. |
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Hi ALG. I assume that post was addressing me. I respect your right to your opinion. I'm presenting a different one. You end with "Happy thinking!", after a link to examples of applications of the loa. I have not followed the link. I understand that believing in the loa will be likely to give some positive results. I have read many examples you've sent me to read about before of the type. If you want me to say "You're right, ALG, LoA definitely works!" I'm fine by that, as long as it's understood that a) I don't believe in 'supernatural' explanations for those effects, b) I consider it very important that people understand as much as they can about how those effects do happen, because not understanding that could potentially lead to some ill effects, and, c) it is good generally for us to think, learn and investigate life and find real reasons and real philosophies, rather than just say "if it works, that's fine by me". Also, I have to say that often 'it' doesn't work at all. Many of the links you've sent me to look at before have loads of natural explanations, and many can be pure chance, interpreted after the event as having been caused by loa. I'm sure, also that you're right when you say that a lot of people who use the loa use it in a practical way and aren't bothered to understand the physical reality and biology and psychology behind it. That is also their (and your) right. I am urging people not to do that, but hoping they will think and learn. You see, one of the OP's points was whether loa is a religion or not, or how it compared. Now, I could say with as much confidence as I have about loa that praying to Jesus will also cause some positive results, or that believing you are Jesus might, or that praying to the Aliens on another planet, who are much wiser and grander than us lowly creatures down here, also might cause some positive changes in a person's life, but - and this is the crucial part - I still care about whether people are getting clearer in their understanding, more enlightened, or fooled by whatever successes they may have into believing the causal relationship preached to them (or offered to them as encouragement to 'try it and see', by the likes of your good self). Often the person trying such a philosophy does so because they feel stuck or are not as efficient or successful as they'd like to be, or anywhere from a mild form of that to complete inability to get anything done, and whatever technique they try gives them confidence, it breaks through the viscious cycle of worry and self-doubt and allows them to feel like they're a winner long enough to try doing something practical in the world. Hence, they get somewhere they didn't before. This may be just one important way that such philsophies (possibly quite untrue but practically useful) get taken on. Now, do you want people to stay stuck with that superstitious worldview just because it got them out of a rut? There is virtually no difference between the LoA and other forms of woo, once you DO understand the psychology behind such effects. That psychology is, in my view, the correct explanation for the 'power' of prayer, meditation, loa self-talk, and a whole host of other bits of woo. Yes, we can argue for hands-on use of these techniques without bothering with why they sometimes work, but that's accepting ignorance and laziness (and, one could argue, a shallow greed, if all a person is interested in is results they want, and to hell with understanding the world!). Besides, ignorant false views of the world don't always work out well, precisely because the person depending on them is following flawed logic, and there are quite a lot of examples of woo beliefs causing harm. People believe that if they just pray harder, the lump will go away. Later, they're rushed into hospital and the doctor says it's too late to operate. If they'd come sooner, the cancer could have been removed and the person could have enjoyed a long life. People believe that if they just create the right frame of mind and gamble again, this time the universe will reward them with a big jackpot. People believe endless things that rationality and science not only demonstrate are superstitions, but ALSO explain (and DEMONSTRATE EXPERIMENTALLY!) the psychological reasons why those superstitions become trusted. So, advise people to try the LoA if you like. Just, please, don't argue that the philosophical or physical reality of how it works doesn't matter to people as long as it works, and at the same time wish me 'happy thinking'. The first position is an argument to stay dumb and have faith. In that sense, loa is no different from other religions that ask similar things. In the middle of this discussion you posted a link to a sloppy experiment on out of body experiences. Can you explain why?
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The problem with hypnosis (or LoA self-hypnosis) is that it's quite possible that it just works in the same way placebo does - if you believe it, then it might have a chance of working for you on some issues. Suggestion. That is what I think. There are generally two schools of thought about hypnosis, one saying that this is how it works, simple suggestion, others saying that a special psychological state allows access to unusual mental powers of self-healing, etc. There's an interesting article about it here the quackometer: Look Into My Lies, Not Around My Lies The same idea arises that one can just shrug and say it probably works if I believe it, and I'll believe it as much as I can so it works. I guess our response will depend on how much we value understanding what's really going on.
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A man is ill, verifiably ill. Doctor gives a sugar pill and says it will definitely cure him. Man takes the pill and feels much better. Physiological signs are observable - blood pressure goes down; swelling disappears etc. The man believed, and therefore was healed. Do we know how that really happened? Do we know what caused it? Sure - the man's belief. Is this natural? Supernatural? Who cares. The point is, the man is cured. Quote:
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I was just discussing hypnosis on another Internet forum. This article was mentioned. Not quite relevant, but I thought I'd just share. BBC NEWS | England | Sussex | Pain-free alternative to anaesthetics? Quite an interesting story - the hope is that it will lead to more funding for proper research into this possible application of hypnosis: Quote:
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Oh, whatever. While I am at it, might as share a few more. I like this one, it talks about a study at Harvard Medical School on how hypnosis helps broken bones and surgical wounds heal faster: Harvard Gazette: Hypnosis helps healing Quote:
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Dang ...... I read this article before, but I can't find my copy now. It comes from Nature, arguably the world's best known scientific journal. Anyway it had a really good article on hypnosis, however, if you want it now, you'll have to pay for the article. I can only provide the link and abstract. Access : The power of suggestion lingers : Nature News The power of suggestion lingers Brain scans show hypnosis helps to focus the mind. Quote:
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As mentioned, I am quite biased. On the topic of hypnosis, I only refer to proper studies done by proper researchers, at proper universities. Here's one from Stanford: Quote:
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I can speak only from my own persoanl experience and hypnosis and the power of suggestion are incredible powerful. I learnt NLP and hypnosis specifically to help me understand howI can train my own mind and create more effectively, I also use it to help others create change but if you bring an understanding of the mind body connection, the law of attraction and hypnosis together you have the tools to create health in all areas, create the experiences you want and create the ability to consciously choose what you focus on. For me these work excpetionaly well in every area of my life. cheers dave |
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I think that to use affirmations, you have to have some faith. Because otherwise it will seem silly and your ego will reject them. But affirmations are just a way to bring your focus to what you want in life, and your focus determines what will manifest in your life through LoA. I have been using Negative affirmations to sidestep my ego with good results. I think of LoA as more of a strategy. If you want to reach certain goals in life, what is the best way to structure your thinking so as to have the best chance of achieving them? I believe that focusing on your desired outcomes makes much more sense than the alternative. I don't Believe in the mystical side of LoA, but I'm not ruling it out either.
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--- On a side note, I'd like to request that we stay off the topic of hypnosis. It certainly has merit, but I don't feel it's really helping the understanding of LoA progress. | ||
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To me, the Law of Attraction has very little to do with getting stuff or achieving goals or making things happen. It's all about using deliberate thought and feeling good on purpose. The stuff and goals and things are just little fun signposts. So from my point of view, there's no need to bother about believing in it, or figuring out how it works, or convincing anyone (even yourself). You just do it, or you don't -- like having great sex or eating a wonderful meal. |
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Let me explain. Hypnosis is the Law of Attraction. As a matter of fact, all forms of thinking are the Law of Attraction. However, some forms of thinking are much more powerful than others, for the purposes of conscious creation. Essentially if you want to use the LOA well, some of the important things are that you have to relax deeply; be very clear in your mind; remove limiting beliefs and doubts and distractions; visualise and think positively about the desired outcome. And what happens in hypnosis? Basically you have to relax deeply; be very clear in your mind; remove limiting beliefs and doubts and distractions; visualise and think positively about the desired outcome. Hypnosis is the Law of Attraction (Or one of its forms). NLP, as mentioned by Dave, is another form. Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 10-21-2008 at 02:18 AM. | |
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However, the stuff and goals and things are very important for the beginners, precisely because they still have doubts about the LOA. Therefore they need tangible results (the signposts) to reassure themselves that something is indeed happening - that their thoughts are truly affecting reality. Example - the beginner could manifest himself to do a great job at work. And if he manifested well, this WOULD lead him to do a great job at work. However, because he still has doubts about the LOA, he would then wonder whether he is now REALLY doing a great job at work, or whether he is just deluding himself. Therefore he needs the concrete signposts to reassure himself. Concrete signposts such as a job promotion, a huge pay raise etc. Here is a case study: myself. So you see, Angela, I'm just an amateur compared to you. I still need the signposts. Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 10-21-2008 at 02:03 AM. | |
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Note however that not all your thoughts are actions. The point which you will have to investigate for yourself is whether those thoughts of yours which do not express themselves in the form of your actions, express themselves in any other way. | |
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| You haven't seen me in the morning. ALG, you went to some lengths to provide evidence that hypnosis is effective in certain areas of human biology. I don't dispute that it can reduce pain, and perhaps even increase healing rates, but none of those things relate to another proposition, that our thoughts alter objective reality in ways not mediated by the laws of physics and ordinary psychological effects. I haven't seen anyone disputing that if you feel confident in acheiving some goal or other, you're more likely to acheive it, nor even that this positive attitude can become a beneficial habit. My interest is to understand what is happening, and my concern is that a lot of people misunderstand it, buying into various versions of the mystical view that our thoughts emanate into the world, literally changing it by some psychic power. Clearly, if hypnosis and/or other states of mind affect the physical body, then that is one limited kind of exception, where thought is in some sense translated directly into physical effect in matter. There is, as you have noted, some good evidence for such things. My concern is that so many people hearing about LoA seem to extend this idea to a range of mystical or psychic abilities, for which I don't think there is any good evidence. This extension of 'positive thinking' and 'hypnotic suggestion' and even 'hypnotic psychosomatics' seems to take many forms. There is often a general feeling that the Universe is somehow watching the individual mind, and providing what the individual wants or thinks about, which also dovetails with belief in God (hence, one of the relationships between LoA and religion). The watching for 'signs' is that kind of superstition, as is the interpreting of possibly quite meaningless events as significant 'messages from the Universe'. Some get to the point of believing that whatever they manage to convince themselves of is the only reality there is: this seems particularly dangerous, since someone taken by this worldview might very easily decide to put their lives on the line to prove it to themselves, and disprove it disastrously. I conjecture that many people have died or caused themselves serious injury through such beliefs. If someone is 'playing' with the LoA and is persuaded that they must not doubt that reality will change according to their wishes, that is equivalent to them reducing their critical faculty and clear observation (of contrary truths). In the light of all the evidence that we are very good at fooling ourselves and generally have very biased comprehension of reality already, seeing mostly what we want to see, this deliberate exaccerbation of what is already a natural failing of the human percption obviously must raise concerns, though, as is predictable, you apparently don't accept this. Thinking that there might be some danger in not doubing your worldview is itself doubting it. Isn't that deliberately closing one's mind? Isn't refusing to doubt the same as deliberate credulity, deliberate brain-washing? Doesn't doubt play an important role in learning? How did we develop our scientific and technological knowledge without overturning things we once thought were true? Should we have kept our balsa-and-feathers flapping attempts at flying? Maybe noticing that they collapsed and we never took off was the problem. A classic example is that someone begins to think they might be 'psychic'. From a rational, sceptical point of view, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wondering this and trying to find out - otherwise we would have closed minds. However, often when people try this, their natural human capacities for bias begin to reinforce the idea, when all the evidence of science is that no-one is or ever has been psychic. They notice the positive results and ignore the negative (like someone phoning just when they think about them). We all do this all the time. The power of this self-delusive effect is very well documented. If we do not discover or attribute any limit to the power of our thoughts to affect reality, then all such abilities are easy to take into our worldview, without thinking critically or learning the facts. The teaching itself says you shouldn't think critically - there's no difference between that and doubting. The novice is told to stop thinking anything that might get in the way of the effect. We therefore turn what is a failure of critical thinking and clear observation - e.g., the 'file drawer effect' (just noticing the hits and ignoring the misses) - into our main technique of personal development. I am in favour of developing as clear a view as possible, not deliberately distorting it to preclude everything that might be a disappointment or threat. It may be useful sometimes to practice positive thinking to develop confidence, etc., but not at the expense of clear observation. Furthermore, clarity of observation can be a much more powerful personal development technique. Often, the benefits of positive thinking is that it happens to overturn negative self-definitions, but a person replaces an unreal, negative self-belief with an equally unreal positive one. They go from being a waste of space to superhuman. It may 'work' in a crude sense, but at the cost of the opportunity of gaining more enlightened ways of seeing themselves, accurately assessing their strengths and weaknesses and transcending negative self-talk, assessing their opportunities without basing their life on positive self-talk and ignoring the threats. It's why businesses do SWOT analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats), not just SO analysis. This is why I see the LoA as a false philosophy. It is a very seductive form of mysticism, in some versions, and is rife with misinformation about the nature of the world and humanity. You have to allow doubts into your mind, however, to recognise it.
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I've admittedly been on-and-off with practicing LoA, but I feel like whenever I think or read about it, my intuition nags at me. Lately following my intuition has given me greater results than LoA, so I can't dismiss it any more. In order to successfully use the Law of Attraction, you must first believe that it will work. This is an impasse if you're a skeptic, because skeptics want to try it to believe it. This is what the physical world teaches us - that if I see it then I'll believe it, rather than if I believe it then I'll see it (I understand that some of you will want to say, "no! that's just what you've been taught to think", but bear with me...). Quote:
I hope this didn't seem like an attack of any sort, but I can't rid this uneasiness and I'd like to understand why. I feel like in the end it might come down to, "We never guaranteed it's the best belief, it just worked for us", but I'm looking for more insight if it's available | |
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In fact John's philosophy is fatally flawed. He permits himself a high degree of intellectual dishonesty, because he sees himself as performing a noble role in saving people from themselves. I have exposed his intellectual dishonesty before and I could easily do so again. But why bother? The last time, as I recall, he tried to suggest that meditation makes people go insane and claimed that this was the view of British psychiatrists or something like that. Hahahaaaa! (John, you do make me happy. Thanks for the laughs). Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 10-25-2008 at 01:58 AM. |
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| If your 'most valid indicator of sound philosophy' is 'feeling good' then opiates or other drugs would be valid ways of proceeding towards greater knowledge, wouldn't they? An alcoholic, beginning to feel a little low, would be well advised to grab a bottle and drink deep of the fountain of wisdom.
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I'm not really sure why anyone to whom you were addressing your character assassination of me should give a damn what you think, however, since what you think is arbitrary, its only intention being to try to bring reality into agreement with it.
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I don't believe alcoholics reach the "fountain of wisdom" when they drink; I think it's more like numbness, a form of relief from feeling bad. When I talk about feeling good, I'm wouldn't include numbness or mere relief from feeling bad. | |
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