Bad vibes from a particular person...

[Nicketas]

In regards to the law of attraction,

I get bad vibes from one of my managers at work. He's not my only manager, and he's only in charge of the schedules. We don't hate each other or anything, there's just this weird "resistance" if you will to get to know each other or socialize at all.

He's not a bad guy either, just stoic. And it's not normal for me to be anti-social with any one particular person, i'm usually pretty friendly with just about anyone unless they give me an explicit reason not to be.

But with this particular manager, it's just this really weird neutral ground that I can't seem to break, or determine if I should even bother. I just get a weird feeling whenever I'm around him or on the rare occasions he calls me with a scheduling question.

It's not just me either, my brother came in with me to work one day and as we were walking out he told me (without me mentioning anything prior) "That guy was... weird, I don't know, something about him."

My intuition is pretty much never wrong in regards to the law of attraction, I just have a hard time deciphering what it's trying to tell me sometimes.

What do you guys think it means? Have you run into similar situations?

If you need more specific information in order to give an appropriate read, feel free to ask.

[impaul99]

Oh yeah, I've had many similar occurances. In fact, I would say that in about 5 or 6 such instances in the last 3 years alone my intuition about people like this has been 100% correct. They have turned out to be con-artists, thieves, etc. although there was no indication of that at the time of my intuitive feeling. I only told a few people "There's something 'off' with this guy." and within a few months found out that there WAS something wrong.

I would definitely recommend trusting your gut on this, although I am unsure what it means in your case.

[dECLAN]

I have been grappling with this kind of thing too.

In subjective reality there is really nothing out there but what our minds have created.

This leads to the question:

Am I manifesting this person manifesting bad vibes?

[Alvin]

This is weird. I'm getting the same strange vibes from some people at my new work place.

At this point I'm still giving them the benefit of the doubt, and still make the effort to make the first caring moves, because they look ok on the surface, but I'm keeping my vibes atuned still.

[duncan36]

Oh you meet all kinds of people out there with nasty souls. Pedophiles, rapists, occultists, wife beaters. It sounds like you're a sensitive person and are repulsed by this guy and if he is one of the above thats totally natural.
The solution when dealing with someone like that is not to question what you feel and to express whats inside as positively as possible. What a lot of people do is think 'is it me' or start to fear the person and let them make their life a misery.

[marinik]

See this thread: Attracting better relationships with co-workers in IM Forum

I tried it this week and it works. Maybe it will help you to get it (the wierd feeling) out of your way.

[wachusettgirl]

Originally Posted by dECLAN

Am I manifesting this person manifesting bad vibes?

I don't know if you are specifically manifesting bad vibes, but you are definately manifesting this person into your life. Try to take responsibility and figure out why, rather than blaming other sources. Most likely there is something about yourself that you see in this person (that you don't like), or else there is a lesson for you to learn...

[ellie]

Hmm yeah I've had that energy happen to me too with a work colleague. It ended with her confronting me, although I honestly don't believe what she claimed. She was just a dick, with control issues. The one thing I regret is not giving her a "what for", rather than me apologising for something that I know I didn't do. Especially, as day in and day out she would be quite rude to me and not include me in things, when I explained that to her, she didn't care and there was no apology from her, which shows a lot.

Still gets to me, but I've got to the point where I have let it go and learnt from the experience. It's actually made me a lot wiser to be honest and now I know to always go with my gut instinct.