how to maintain life balance

[Colin Pedicini]

Up until now I was a double major in math and history. I posted thoughts on that decision (leaning toward history major and a math minor) when I posted my spring 2007 schedule (my fourth semester).

As explained there I'm trying to get a life balance. I've noticed that the most common perception people have of me is that I'm too busy. I'll admit that's true. My main strength is loyalty--I'm known for answering email within 72 hours and 75-300 per month.

That said, when I say I'm looking for balance, I'm not looking at forcing any more friendships as I've got a large enough base to have more people come as time passes. I'm trying to advance some of the connections I already have. (Not in terms of romance--since I think that comes after you get to know someone a bit beyond a chance meeting).

When I try to establish these connections usually it's by going out to eat. Most of the time I get the response along the lines of "I'm too busy." That's understandable. The college culture here is very communter-oriented as it is not uncommon for folks to go home three to five times per semester excluding vacations.

That said, what are other good ideas? I understand that when I say I'll meet someone at 4, I'm there at 3:55 but most of the time they don't show up until 4:15 and I've learned to accept that. But I don't think it's reasonable to have to keep my schedule from 2-6 open for a 4:00 meeting. I care about my studies.