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Old 12-07-2006, 02:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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A collegue gave me the dvd last week-end. A lot of what was said, I had already used in my life. However, after visualizing it, I have been struggling with my thoughts. I am trying not to generate "bad" (negative thoughts)thoughts. It's been very challenging.

My question is: How can I get rid of these thoughts to make my "visualizations" happen?

Also, my husband is improving his thoughts too but, sometimes, he will make some negative statements that will have an impact on our lives (e.g we are getting a new car but because he stresses a bit about it, I feel like he is blocking the whole process) How can he or (I) improve to make things happen in our lives?

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I'll give you my 2 cents for what its worth. I don't think the goal is for me to get rid of the negative thoughts, but rather use them to guide me to thoughts that are more in line with what I want. Negative thoughts, IMO, are useful tools and much needed to keep the focus on what it is I desire. If I am feeling negative or having negative thoughts about something, it is a clue or signal to myself to turn my attention toward what I'm wanting... that I've been giving too much attention to something that doesn't please me. Over a period of time, if consistently practiced, those thoughts you consider negative will occur less and less. And I should also say, its been my experience that if the negative thoughts are not charged with much emotion, they don't tend to affect my life in any substantial way.
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Old 12-07-2006, 07:12 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Thank you so much for your advice! When I think about this, it does make a lot of sense!

e.g: I was paying my bills...was a little upset (or moody) to see it all go away! I am still working for money not the other way around ( I am changing this situation soon by the way!). But, I used your advice and started to feel happy again! I thought about the house I want to get, the businesses that I want to have! Made me feel much better! I will pass this advice to my husband as well!!!

Wow! Thank you again!
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I'll give you my 2 cents for what its worth. I don't think the goal is for me to get rid of the negative thoughts, but rather use them to guide me to thoughts that are more in line with what I want. Negative thoughts, IMO, are useful tools and much needed to keep the focus on what it is I desire. If I am feeling negative or having negative thoughts about something, it is a clue or signal to myself to turn my attention toward what I'm wanting... that I've been giving too much attention to something that doesn't please me. Over a period of time, if consistently practiced, those thoughts you consider negative will occur less and less. And I should also say, its been my experience that if the negative thoughts are not charged with much emotion, they don't tend to affect my life in any substantial way.
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My question is: How can I get rid of these thoughts to make my "visualizations" happen?
I'll share another neat trick with you. Use this positive affirmation a couple of times a day:

"It's easy to choose my thoughts."

It really works, you know.
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A collegue gave me the dvd last week-end. A lot of what was said, I had already used in my life. However, after visualizing it, I have been struggling with my thoughts. I am trying not to generate "bad" (negative thoughts)thoughts. It's been very challenging.

My question is: How can I get rid of these thoughts to make my "visualizations" happen?

Also, my husband is improving his thoughts too but, sometimes, he will make some negative statements that will have an impact on our lives (e.g we are getting a new car but because he stresses a bit about it, I feel like he is blocking the whole process) How can he or (I) improve to make things happen in our lives?

Thank you.

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Hi there happiness -I think that a lot of people feel as you do or similar.

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Thank you! It seems really helpful. I will keep you posted!


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Thank you Viola. I appreciate your comment.

Have a positive day!

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