Be careful what you wish for

[ciarac]

So,this isn't a sob story, I'm just sharing it with you all because I think it's interesting.

Today three of my recent intentions came to manifest. I live with my boyfriend and he had said recently that his mother wanted him to return to Italy for a short holiday. So, wanting some alone time, I intended him to go there for about a week.
I have been worried about paying my part of our rent for this month, which starts tomorrow (obviously). So I have been intending to NOT have to worry about the rent, for some reason.
Lastly, I am looking for a new apartment just for myself, and had been intending my boyfriend to be happy about it, instead of thinking that I was overspending on an apartment just for myself.

Well, he broke up with me today, and as a result of that, all of the above have come true. He will go to Italy for a while, while I stay in the apartment. He said that I didn't have to pay the rent (but that I could stay in the apartment as long as I liked). And he is no longer in a position to disapprove of my spending choices in regards to the apartment.

I am, of course, incredibly upset. But I don't think I manifested our breakup into existence, rather that this particular course was the easiest path for the three above intentions to manifest.

[StarieEyed]

I have recently been a victim of my own manifestations gone wrong. I intended to meet the man and get married after not dating for three years to focus on my daughter. Well I meet someone "feel" that he is the one I have been waiting for, we sleep together and I immiadiatly get pregnant It has all been going down hill from there, he is NOT the man I thought he was, I now know I was not specific enough and now I will be a single mother to two children. I just this month stopped wishing this pregnancy away and am now excited for my new addition and am beginning again to manifest today. I am a little scared as I'm sure you are. I hope someone can give us some direction and maybe tell me what I did wrong. then again, maybe its not wrong. Maybe you were not supposed to be with this man and I am supposed to have this second child for what ever reason, even though I am not married.

[seeker5]

Hmmm, maybe the breakup was going to happen anyway? Then when you set the intentions, the universe managed the breakup in such a way that it manifested your intentions? I dunno, I'm new at this, but I'm just asking if that's possible I know that with my last breakup, a number of my intentions started manifesting themselves, like my intentions to lose a lot of weight effortlessly, etc. But I know my intentions didn't create the breakup.

[ciarac]

No, I don't think at all that I manifested the breakup because it certainly wasn't something I wanted. It's definitely not a by-product of my intentions either. I think it was just the simplest route for those specific manifestations to take. I guess it wasn't meant to be, and that was a fact that was already in existence, the only thing that remained was the breakup and so the manifestations 'hopped on board' that, which turned out to be the easiest route. Sigh...

[roero]

I stated my intention to "be loved and appreciated"
Immediately my long term 6 year relationship blew up and he left - I was inconsolable but found out he had been cheating all along. THEN man of my dreams walked into my life 6 weeks later

I know you are hurting but stay tuned for further developments
keep on your intentions

[mercuryrising]

This morning I came home from work and discovered that my girlfriend was looking at an on-line dating site. I was not happy and she became quite upset at the thought of losing me, saying she had made a stupid mistake. She wrote me an email and said she thought it might have been a form of self-sabotage because we've been doing real good.

I considered my own intentions about our relationship and, perhaps, I was doing the same. Our relationship is pretty solid--translate long-term. There's a fear in that and a feeling of lack of freedom.

Must be something in the water...