I know I attracted this..but how?

[JKrump]

Recently I made a date with a newly found friend who happens to be attractive and who happens to have a bf (which is cool). We've been talking for a while as very good buddies planning when we can hang out again. He told me that this week he had Spring Break so it'll be better and I didn't have to work today so I thought today was a good day to hang out.

Last night I texted him saying "what's up" Then I saw him online a couple of hours later and said "Hey, can you still hang out tomorrow?" he read my messege and didn't respond. Then this morning I saw him online again and said "Hey you there?" and he read it, again no repsonse. Now I feel like he totally flaked on me even though the plans weren't definite. I don't understand why he's ignoring me as before yesterday we were talking and often times he would initiate the conversation as I am in the other room playing my game (we always talk online btw). yes I admit that I like him; he liked me the same way too but there's nothing that can happen because he has a bf and I am totally cool with that, as i just want to be his friend.

This is sucks since he doesn't seem to be that type of person AT ALL.

Any ideas on "how" I have attracted this and why he's ignoring me?

[JKrump]

anyone?

[Vee]

I can't give you a definite answer as I am still trying to understand LOA.

Maybe there are subconscious beliefs causing this that you don't recognise because they are so deeply engrained.

I don't know your personal history, but from your thread it says you like this person but they have a partner.

Maybe subconsciously you want to go out with him and know you can't so you are sabotaging your relationship to protect your heart.

This is just a theory and may not be the case at all - but i think u need to explore your core beliefs to help you understand why this is happening x

[bf1983]

This might be a case for stepping in and doing something to take control of the situation rather than stress yourself too much about why it has happened.

Just tell the person how you feel and get it out into the open.

Attracted or not - you still need to get your emotions out there rather than bottle them up.

[JKrump]

but in what way did I sabotage it? Attraction aside, I mainly want to be friends.

[JKrump]

sweet. I contacted him just to see if everything was ok and to see what was going on and I apologized if I had made him feel uncomforatbel or anything. he responded saying that i was awesome and that i didn't do anything and that he wants to hang out soon. Thanks you guys for the help.

[Angela]

Love is so much fun, isn't it?

[JKrump]

it is, i should focus on attracting more of it.

[fascinoma]

Originally Posted by JKrump

sweet. I contacted him just to see if everything was ok and to see what was going on and I apologized if I had made him feel uncomforatbel or anything. he responded saying that i was awesome and that i didn't do anything and that he wants to hang out soon. Thanks you guys for the help.

Focus on attracting the right love relationship for you but don't picture a specific face to go along with it. Then just be "light" about it with each individual person you hang out with.