Can you use the LoA to get rid of emotions such as jealousy?

[JKrump]

any ideas on this?

[Joely]

I've seen you post on another forum about jealousy and envy. Is there some specific issue you're having with it at the moment? If we know a bit more about what you're jealous of, why you're experiencing this, we might be able to help better.

[Acting Like Godot]

If you understand what LOA is really all about, you probably wouldn't be a jealous person.

Jealousy tends to arise from the feeling that someone has deprived you of something that ought to be yours, or has something which you desire.

But whether you have that thing really just depends on yourself and your own thoughts. Therefore there is no need for jealousy.

[JKrump]

sounds like I'm being a pest. I do apologize. I just have jealousy issues, but you answers are logical and make sense.

[Cael]

When you are going through jealousy, you are negatively creating. Hence you feel bad. The bad feelings associated with jealousy is a clear indication that you are thinking and creating the wrong things, things that you do not want in your life. And if you continue to think about it, it will come... For that LoA will always work.

So yes, through LoA, think of all the happy moments together. Stop thinking about anything that would make you jealous. Thinking of happy moments will only bring more happy moments through LoA.

[Jennihul]

You can use LOA for anything. EFT too.

But jealousy or any destructive emotional habit isn't hard to cure. Just knowing jealousy is bad and wrong is a huge step.

When I was a jealous person, I felt completely justified and didn't change until I finally learned that it was a bad thing.

So you are already ten steps ahead of the game.

Jennifer

[Acting Like Godot]

Jealousy arises from a scarcity mindset. Which isn't good for successful LOA application. An abundance mindset is good for successful LOA application.

For example, you may feel jealous of X. Perhaps he is your sibling, and you feel that your parents love him more than you. Or perhaps he is your colleague, and he received that promotion which you wanted.

Either way, this shows a scarcity mindset. For example, that there isn't enough parental love to go around. Or that the amount of career success possible is limited, and X has just deprived you of some of it.

But the universe is vast. Its power is huge. You can be, do or have get anything you want, IF you hold the appropriate thoughts.

Try it, Jkrump ......

[robc]

Originally Posted by Jennihul

You can use LOA for anything. EFT too.

But jealousy or any destructive emotional habit isn't hard to cure. Just knowing jealousy is bad and wrong is a huge step.

When I was a jealous person, I felt completely justified and didn't change until I finally learned that it was a bad thing.

So you are already ten steps ahead of the game.

Jennifer

Sorry for the dumb question, what is EFT and what can it do?

[MrLawofAttraction]

Your right those feelings do come from a scarcity mentality . But what you can do is just decide to let it go. If those feelings arent in alignment with what you want to be experiencing then you do have the power to release them and concentrate on things that you would prefer to have in your life, like creating more love and having better relationships. There are several ways to do this and each requires that you become the observer. You first must realize that your thoughts feelings and emotions arent you. That is not your Identity and allow your self to watch your own thoughts .Allow them to be with out judgement or being attached to them , they are not you they are just thoughts and you dont have to react to them unless you want to. With practice you begin to see the underlying programing behind your thoughts , where they come from in your family , social conditioning and experiences. Your reality model. This is the basis for the budist religion. EFT is an effective way to release emotions also and comes from a perspective of self love and observation combined with tapping on energy points like accupressure. The best technique I found is the sedona method as taught by hale dwoskin which I used to help release alot of pent up emotions I was carrying with me as post tramatic stress disorder from being a military veteran. Again self observation and then a mental exercise in which you allow your self to feel the emotion and kind of get on both sides of it , as you let it go. All are very positive and empowering ways, you should check them out and use the one that works the best for you.

[Mark Nikonia]

Just to add to Michael's post (great info btw!) I think the act of surrender can help overcome jelousy also.

If you go into the emotion so much that you live every feeling you possibly can around it, you're much more likely to snap out of the jelous mindset quicker.

To answer the original question though, I don't think you can "use" the LOA to get rid of jelousy. You can do certain processes to get yourself out of a jelous mindset, but I can't think of any way that you'll be able to "attract" your way out of the jelous mindset. The vibrations you're offering just aren't at a level that can attract anything positive.

Just my 2 cents.
Mark