LoA and beauty?

[Angela]

Originally Posted by muah

PS. When women tell somebody what they like in man the 99% of the time they lie cus they don't know what they want. They can't feel their instincts in a logical level. It's not your fault girls, it's your nature.

Muah, c'mon... this statement certainly says that women are liars, and not only that, but it's also our nature to lack self-awareness. "not that there's anything wrong with that!"

You don't see how that comes across to women?

[muah]

Originally Posted by Angela

Muah, c'mon... this statement certainly says that women are liars, and not only that, but it's also our nature to lack self-awareness. "not that there's anything wrong with that!"

You don't see how that comes across to women?

Opps I forgot you can be hurt easily. It sound bad I know but I didn't mean it to be bad

All I wanted to tell is that you are not fully aware (on a concious level) what make you attracted to somebody and this is why say you "lies". You just say the first logical things you have in mind which usually is of less importance than the most important things which usually you can't logically know
Did you knew you're attracted to good body language? Do you know how complex is body language? It's almost impossible to perceive it at conscious level.

[Angela]

Originally Posted by muah

Opps I forgot you can be hurt easily.

Oh, Muah. I guess you just can't stop yourself.

[muah]

Originally Posted by Angela

Oh, Muah. I guess you just can't stop yourself.

Women are not that sensitive

PS. But they love to play games

[supertom]

I would love to manifest a better hair style right now im using my towel as a comb

[dancer]

Originally Posted by muah

Opps I forgot you can be hurt easily. It sound bad I know but I didn't mean it to be bad

All I wanted to tell is that you are not fully aware (on a concious level) what make you attracted to somebody and this is why say you "lies". You just say the first logical things you have in mind which usually is of less importance than the most important things which usually you can't logically know
Did you knew you're attracted to good body language? Do you know how complex is body language? It's almost impossible to perceive it at conscious level.

I know, being a woman and all, this is an unconscious question, but who are you arguing with?

When you first started this post, it was about using LOA to become better looking. Many told you attractiveness is not just about a pretty face, but we were so wrong. According to you, girls only like the exterior and good looking guys effortlessly have hot women throwing themselves at them. Now, you are telling us that we are not conscious to the more subtle details of what is attractive. I believe we see deeper than body language. Go figure that out.

Are you here to rattle our chains or are you seriously in pain? If you are in pain, take a good look at that pain because I seriously doubt it is really about us unconscious people not throwing ourselves at you?

Could it be so simple that you have learnt yourself some tricks that are not working for you? Might be an idea to intend for a new game plan. Or are you wearing aftershave that smells of desperation? Try wearing an aftershave that is less insulting to women and which does not make women angry with you.

In all my meaness, I am sincerely sorry that you do not feel attractive and hope that you can learn to accept yourself.

[Phoenixrising777]

I'm beginning to wonder if this whole thread is just to get a rise out of people. But...


I think all the answers that can be given have been. There is alot of pain and wisdom on these pages I have been blessed to read some of it. We've given our best answers.

..there is no need for any more of this...either he is ingrained in a faulty way of seeing women with a language barrier...or he's positioning himself to get the most emotional fullfillment through conflict. The answer in both cases IMHO is just to let it be.

Good luck Muah.

[Acting Like Godot]

Originally Posted by muah

Did you knew you're attracted to good body language? Do you know how complex is body language? It's almost impossible to perceive it at conscious level.

LOL, that sure took you a long time to figure out.

Do you know what influences your body language? Your thoughts, your emotions, your beliefs.

And if you think attractive and feel attractive, your body language will _______.

And if you think you're ugly and unattractive, and feel that you're ugly and unattractive, your body language will _________.

This time, Muah, you fill in your own blanks, ok?

[supertom]

Yeap just look david beckham and brad pitt's body language, attraction is mostly sub-conscious.

[muah]

You can say what you want about me, I don't care. If you don't like the thread you can just stop reading it. My question was about th Loa and the physical beauty, but mostly I get answers that beauty is not that important. Well I know how important is!!! So let me just ask it wright this time:

Can LOA change your physical body in the means of beauty (Grow hair, grow taller, change your face characteristics etc) and do you have any experience with it?

[supertom]

theres a book called "biology of belief" in that book it says your beliefs effect your physical body. so i would say yes it does. To answer your question YES.
are you going to be successful at it, well try it for your self ans tell us

[muah]

Originally Posted by supertom

theres a book called "biology of belief" in that book it says your beliefs effect your physical body. so i would say yes it does. To answer your question YES.
are you going to be successful at it, well try it for your self ans tell us

The funny thing is I found about this book a few days ago, but I couldn't find it so I watched the seminars of the writer (Bruce Lipton) who talk about the things in the book. His theories are great! He talk about how perception can change DNA, but he didn't say nothing about physical transformation. He said that beliefs can change the physical body as to improve health and those kind of things. I now believe in this theory which is great, it somehow made me a little more positive than I was before so thanks for sharing this.

[Cantando]

Originally Posted by muah

Can LOA change your physical body in the means of beauty (Grow hair, grow taller, change your face characteristics etc) and do you have any experience with it?

LoA, positive thinking and many other self-help systems may make you feel better about yourself, which then may affect your body to a limited extent, but I doubt if any of them can produce the effects you refer to.

I think it’s also somewhat misleading when people talk about slowing down the ageing process. All they really mean is bringing the body back to its original, biologically pre-programmed rate of ageing, after removing the various ingested, damaging pollutants (tobacco, alcohol, junk food, etc), which speed up the ageing process ... but I am open to persuasion!

[3500]

And suddenly it dawned upon me... I will write a book on how to achieve breast enlargement through the LoA, and another one on how to be slim like Barbie by using the LoA. I guess there's also a market for Using the LoA to effectively enlarge your penis!

Boy, will I be rich

[Vasilisa]

Originally Posted by 3500

And suddenly it dawned upon me... I will write a book on how to achieve breast enlargement through the LoA, and another one on how to be slim like Barbie by using the LoA. I guess there's also a market for Using the LoA to effectively enlarge your penis!

Boy, will I be rich

I don't know about penis but you definitely can slim down using LoA. I did - lost 12 pounds in a month.

[Rockchick26]

Originally Posted by muah

No. Usually if a friend ask you what kind of men do you like you'll tell him something like: kind, gentle, honest, who won't cheat on me, give me flowers. tell me he loves me and etc. All the other things are physical characteristics.

Do you know what AFC means? It something that most of the guys on the planet are! And the main characteristic of an AFC is "NICE".

"kind, gentle, honest, who won't cheat on me, give me flowers. tell me he loves me and etc" - almost every AFC have all of these, but if you don't know what AFC is I can tell you "Average Frustrated Chump", something like not-player.

OK i think i know what youre getting at here. You're saying that women SAY they want a nice guy but almost always pick a guy that most people view as a jerk? It is NOT because women want to be treated like crap. When we're dating a guy who we find out is a jerk,we think we can change him,and if we are successful,then he changed BECAUSE OF US. It's only human to think someone that loves you will change for you,but sadly that isnt so. So women stick with the jerk in hopes that someday he will "love her enough to change because of her". Also,most guys who are jerks are hot,and know they can get away with it because of that. Like a guy who cheats...in my opinion anyway,its probably because he is hot and CAN get any women he wants. A lesser attractive guy would probably not cheat because he grew up learning he had to be a good guy to get a woman,so he would be less likely to cheat (and less likely to have any other women after him,for the cheating to happen). So now whenever i hear a guy say 'nice guys always finish last',i sympathize with him because i've seen it. I have a male friend,actually,who is the nicest guy i've ever met,he always pays for dinner whenever he and a group of friends go out,he is there to help them move,drive them to the bar,he is just the nicest guy. But he is over 40 and still single because he is not attractive physically. He was after me for many years,but i cant bring myself to date someone who i'm not attracted to. So,hypothetically,if a hot guy wanted to date me (and unbeknownst to me,was a jerk),then yes,i would have subsequently chosen the jerk over the nice guy,completely because of his looks. I know guys hate girls like that,but i've also seen guys choose bitchy drama queen girls over nice girls because they are hotter,so,it goes both ways.

[muah]

I'm not sure why women love to change men at first place, but you do. Anyway. I've seen how girls change players into AFCs and do you know what they do next? They broke up with the guy. So biologically and subconsciously women prefer people who you cannot change and people who don't give a sht about you cuz those people have certain qualities. There's no simple logic about the relationship of man and women.

I think we clear things up, so let continue with the basic of the thread.

[Angela]

I don't think this thread is about the desire to look good. I think it's about a desire for CONTROL.

[muah]

Originally Posted by Angela

I don't think this thread is about the desire to look good. I think it's about a desire for CONTROL.

Or maybe I want to become better looking than you're model boyfriend and seduce you

[Angela]

Originally Posted by muah

Or maybe I want to become better looking than you're model boyfriend and seduce you

Nah, nobody looks better than Danger Man. You'd have to give me real estate and jewelry.

[Rockchick26]

Originally Posted by muah

I'm not sure why women love to change men at first place, but you do. Anyway. I've seen how girls change players into AFCs and do you know what they do next? They broke up with the guy. So biologically and subconsciously women prefer people who you cannot change and people who don't give a sht about you cuz those people have certain qualities. There's no simple logic about the relationship of man and women.

I think we clear things up, so let continue with the basic of the thread.

But you cant blame the women for changing a guy (after all,he had to have allowed her to) and then breaking up with him to find another guy to change...because she only does this to help herself feel special and important and loved. Obviously that isnt the right way to go about it,so the pattern must repeat itself,she keeps trying and it will never work because she isnt getting to the root of the problem,which is herself. So i guess you CAN blame her but she doesnt really know why she's doing it,and she's hurt deep down inside,so,thats why i dont blame people that act out these types of drama-ish situations because i just know that deep down they aren't happy with themselves. I dont blame anyone for how they treat people,all negative things (jealousy,anger,etc) are a result of fear,deep down. We're all human and unless we are perfectly healthy emotionally and mentally,we will display these same characteristics (to a different degree,of course)

[muah]

I totally agree with you.

[rake]

muah, which PUA gurus are you following? I happen to agree with you, good looking guys have it easier. You're asking if LOA can change your physical appearance, your bone structure, maybe skin, body type, the whole thing. Maybe it can. I'm not aware of anyone who has radically changed their physical appearance however. Or even a little bit. But it's true that attitude can improve your attractiveness to girls.

All guys have dealbreakers. These are the things that women don't like. Like bad breath, no money, obnoxiousness, etc. What women want are the must have qualities: good looks, maybe it's power or money - not all women desire the same thing. But they do want a guy with a must have quality. When a guy has those must have qualities, then dealbreakers don't come into play. Those type of guys can get away with anything. These types of guys can get girls even if they have a dangerous std, and the girls know about it. That's just the way it is.

Looks are important. It's almost no different than money. What money gives you are options. Not having money leaves you with few options. Having good looks is almost guaranteed happiness. That sounds stupid and shallow I know, but that's what I've observed. And maybe this applies more to women than men. There are good looking men out there who have weird antisocial personalities and they d