Attracting a specific person

[polluxlm]

I've known about the secret for about a year now. Haven't really been practicing it since my life turned pretty good right after. New job, apartment and then a promotion.

Some months ago I fell in love with a woman at my workplace that I don't really know. It was just something about the way she said hi once that made me feel all fuzzy, and now I'm head over heels, sleep little, eat little. But still I've never been happier.

I've applied all the techniques, and it's working pretty good. Our eyes meet, one day I heard she asked about me and just a couple of days ago she landed on the same shift as mine (we work 2 weeks on, 3 off. she used to arrive one week after me).

That's all well and good, and I'm confident it'll happen, but then again, obviously not confident enough . Problem is that we work in different departments, so there are extremely limited opportunities to meet her. She also lives a thousand miles from me, so it has to be at the work place. I know she's at least interested in me some way, so I'm not afraid to contact her on my own. What I'd like to hear some input on is if I should continue my current routine, or step right to the action part? I know how to reach her through an internet site (mutual friend of ours told me, so it wouldn't be 'stalkerish'), and I could always hang out in the bar hoping to see her (which of course, I will).

I know I shouldn't force it, so what do you think? Is direct contact at this point forcing, or should I wait some more to see if it's brought to me?

[Rockchick26]

I've recently had HORRIBLE luck with this...trying to attract a specfic person isn't supposed to work,and it didnt for me. What you should do is go about HER the old fashioned way,while using LoA to just attract love in general,the kind of love you want. It may or may not work on this woman but,as people in here told me,you'll get "that or something better".
One question...if she lives 1000 miles away,how can you run into her at the bar and work with her every day,does one of you fly 2000 miles round trip a day just for work?

[polluxlm]

We work industry, travel to and from jobs.

I get you can't force free will, but since it's working I'm thinking we're one of those that are on the same frequency. Imo she attracted me, I'm just responding.

Read some good stuff on this site yesterday, so I'm just gonna chill. Every action will be right. Whatever happens will be perfect.

[m18pak]

What's so hard about just going up to her and saying hi?

[polluxlm]

That's what I did yesterday

[polluxlm]

Over thinking, over analyzing, separates the body from the mind

...says Maynard James Keenan in the song Lateralus.

I sent her a message before the weekend. Nothing special, just 'like to get to know you better'. Her reply wasn't exactly what I expected, but she didn't turn me down either. So I thought, well, I'm not going to get anywhere like this, at least not for weeks/months. I knew giving up wasn't an alternative, so I asked myself "you know what to do, give it to me by the time I've finished working out". That I did, took a shower and laid down in bed listening to the forementioned song. Suddenly it just struck me "show her your most attractive qualities". Great I thought, now I'll just have to wait for the reply from yesterday and I'll tell her that.

Of course, by a stroke of 'coincidence' she didn't reply me that day, and on top of that a colleague told me she was already seeing someone up here, although not seriously. That didn't knock me down either, thought "this is part of it". Went home once again, same routine, and it all came to me. The whole thing, exactly what I had to write.

Well, now she's very interested. She wouldn't go out with me, yet, because of the other guy, but that's a mere formality in my eyes. Damn, this feels great.

Thanks to all the insightful people on this forum for helping me sort out a lot of details and questions. Nothing's gonna stop me now.