Law of Attraction - SEX & Dating

[Precious]

How should I use the "Law of Attraction" to attract more sex & beautiful womens into my life ? What should I visualize ? etc ?

Thanks

[Patricia]

Whatever you're trying to attract, you need to focus on how it would feel if you already had it. So ask yourself how will you feel when what you're trying to attract becomes a reality and focus on feeling that in the present. You don't need to visualize faces, you just need to generate the corresponding feeling - this, as far as visualizations go.

Of course, then you also need to believe it will happen, align your vibration with it and allow it.

[3500]

And if all is well your desire to attract more sex and beautiful women into your life will urge you to work on yourself to reach that goal. Beautiful people attract beautiful people, so you have to make sure you're attractive to the women you want to attract. I suggest reading about it, there's a lot of free information about it on the internet and there are a lot of books on how to "get every woman to like you". Although they usually focus on the fact that their readers want to score as quick as possible, when reading such books you will not only learn how to get women to like you, but how to be a more likeable person in general, improve your social skills et cetera.

To get you started: How to Seduce a Woman: The Natural Way

A lot of useful information in the free pages of that site. They're also trying to sell you a book, which might be a good investment. You could also search the internet some more or visit your local library. If you want to reach your goal, you should have a strong desire to do so. I believe visualizing will help increase your motivation to act upon your desire. The acting consists of getting to understand what women want, where and how to meet singles and how to be attractive yourself.

Well, good luck Precious!

[Trezker]

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I'd be less creepy though...

[cdn2wheeler]

Using LoA to influence other people is a fool's errand. More here.

[aabbcc]

Originally Posted by cdn2wheeler

Using LoA to influence other people is a fool's errand. More here.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think the intention is for a specific person. It seems to be about drawing more encounters with women in general.

Do you think using LoA to help bring a romantic relationship ... not based on one particular person ... into your life is a wasted effort?

[Angela]

Originally Posted by aabbcc

Do you think using LoA to help bring a romantic relationship ... not based on one particular person ... into your life is a wasted effort?

Well, the OP didn't say anything about a romantic relationship. (S)he wants to attract more beautiful and sexy women into his (let's just go with it's a guy until notified otherwise) life.

Which is a big O. Henry mistake, in my book, unless all he wants is a bevy of beauties hanging around, making him feel like King Midas. It's staying in the shallow water. I would recommend looking at what you would have if those sexy and beautiful women were around. What is the deeper desire? Does he want to be having sex every day with a different gorgeous seductress? Does he want a LLTMBR (loving, long-term mutually beneficial relationship) with just one of them? Does he want to to feel desirable in general? As Patricia asked, how would you feel if these women were around?

[aabbcc]

Personally, having a bunch of beautiful women around wouldn't do much for me. Not really my bag.

I did realize the op was referring to sex. My thought on that is if you want to have more sexual encounters, I guess you're going to be thinking about the type of person that turns you on, because those are the people you want to have sex with. So I don't really see anything wrong with that, as long as he/she is specific in the intention ... which seems to be casual meet-ups. Of course, I am interpreting that based on the choice of words. I could be mistaken.

In my question to cdn2wheeler, I used the term romantic relationship because he linked back to his post about manifesting a specific relationship. His answer is that focusing on one certain person doesn't work. I was wondering what he thought of manifesting a romantic relationship in general.

Hope that helps to clarify my previous post.

[Angela]

I understood what you're saying, aabbcc, I think. But my point is: you interpret the OP's OP as a sexual desire, and cdn sounds like he's interpreting it as a desire for a LLTMBR, and I am interpreting it as a shallow, O.Henry request -- one that could easily go awry if it's not clarified. If the three of us are interpreting it so wildly differently, imagine how confused the Universe will be!

I don't think the OP merely wants beautiful sexy girls around. I think he wants something like: to be having sex with lots of beautiful sexy girls OR to be in an LLTMBR with a beautiful sexy girl OR to be feeling a certain way. He wants a way of being, in other words. The desire for a circumstance in his environment (more beautiful sexy girls around) is just a symptom of a much deeper desire -- the desire to be a certain way. See what I mean?

And although you might have to wait for symptoms, you never have to wait for ways of being.

[fascinoma]

Originally Posted by Angela

Which is a big O. Henry mistake, in my book, unless all he wants is a bevy of beauties hanging around, making him feel like King Midas. It's staying in the shallow water.

Actually if that's all he's worried about manifesting, I'd say his life is pretty good.

Sure it's shallow, but he should go for it anyway... who are we to judge?

[Angela]

Originally Posted by fascinoma

Actually if that's all he's worried about manifesting, I'd say his life is pretty good.

Sure it's shallow, but he should go for it anyway... who are we to judge?

I don't mean shallow as a judgement -- like, "you're so shallow!"

I mean shallow in that he could look for his deeper desire, the desire that lies underneath "having more sexy beautiful women around." It's a wonderful desire, but it doesn't address what the OP really wants, I don't think. As I mentioned, I suspect what he really wants is to be having sex or a relationship (or something) with one or more of those sexy beautiful women, and underneath that, there's probably an even deeper desire: the desire for a certain way of being.

When you are being what you want, it's not essential who's around, or what they say or do. That's just icing on the cake. And when you're being what you want, you don't waste any time worrying about keeping or losing the external stuff, cuz you've already got the cake!

[m18pak]

I agree with Angela in that I think Precious hasn't really thought this through. If he really puts energy into his intention then yes he quite possibly will manifest it, but I'm willing to bet that the reality won't make him happy because he'll get more than he bargained for, like King Midas did.

I mean, I would presume that he wants to have a lot of women for casual sex in his life, but has he thought about how he'll feel about the fact that those women will most likely have other guys in their lives for casual sex as well?

[aabbcc]

Originally Posted by m18pak

I mean, I would presume that he wants to have a lot of women for casual sex in his life, but has he thought about how he'll feel about the fact that those women will most likely have other guys in their lives for casual sex as well?

But if he isn't interested in having a relationship, would it matter? Knowing these women also see other men might be a relief because then he wouldn't need to worry about someone wanting a commitment that he isn't ready to give.

This has been an interesting thread. I hope our comments have given him some things to think about.

[fascinoma]

Originally Posted by Angela

I mean shallow in that he could look for his deeper desire, the desire that lies underneath "having more sexy beautiful women around." It's a wonderful desire, but it doesn't address what the OP really wants, I don't think.

You've got a point. Then again, if he manifested "I want to be surrounded by beautiful sexy women", he might start seeing them everywhere because THEY'RE ALREADY THERE. Maybe the OP needs to own that he doesn't want to meet beautiful sexy women, for some reason.

I've seen this in people who are single but for some reason are resistant to actually meeting someone. They say "everyone here is ugly" and "nobody is my type". IE placing the blame outside of themselves. "Nobody's my type" instead of "I don't want anything right now".

[Angela]

I think you're right, Fascinoma! I know a girl who is always complaining that all she ever meets are stupid men. I just bite my tongue.

[cylon]

Well, what I'm learning is your'e going to get the girls that are a match to what you're like on the inside. So if you are into drama and games, you'll meet women who are into drama and games. You can say that you want better quality women, which is great. But first you have to get over the part of you that is attracted to women who are bad for you! And to do that, you have to work on yourself and make more healthy decisions in your life, across the board. Then you'll stop being attracted to the wrong people. But as long as your'e attracted to the wrong people, who can you be attracted to the right people? And how can you get the right people if you don't become one of the right people first?

[fascinoma]

Originally Posted by Angela

I think you're right, Fascinoma! I know a girl who is always complaining that all she ever meets are stupid men. I just bite my tongue.

A person has to be careful what they say.

I used to complain that I met fascinating, sexy, interesting women constantly, but never any fascinating, sexy or interesting men. And why couldn't I meet men of the caliber of the women I met. My friends rolled their eyes at me. Now I'm with a woman, I'm happy, and nobody was surprised. But the big thing is... that I learned... stop blaming the Universe and other people, for other people being unattractive.