When what you want is Intagible - what do you visualize?

[kismet]

Visualizations work great when what you want is a physical OBJECT. But what about when what you want is intangible and a situation instead of an object. Like if in a legal battle, I want them to dismiss the case, or at least have positive and favorable offer, if I don't get my number one choice and desire. What would I visualize for such an outcome? Would focusing on the case at all perpetuate it's existence instead of dismissed or other favorable outcome? Not that I have a choice, as I'm required to practically deal with it and it's ugly details and everything, and the whole thing is stomach turning and causes great anxiety and fear of making the wrong moves in this stupid game. As well as extreme regret of wrong moves already made in the course of it, and fear of what all repercussions those moves will bring. I believe I could of gotten rid of it if I had did some different things earlier in the course and now it's too late, so I feel so sick and regretful over that. I keep having fantasies going back in time to different points and I see a movie of myself doing things differently at different key points. Or I have fantasies about how my life would of been different if I were successful in getting rid of it years ago.

I really don't know how to apply LOA to this situation in what I want. What to focus on, not focus on, what to visualize etc. The odds of what I want in practicality are improbable, but I want to believe in the possibility of a miracle. There have been so many unusual circumstances in it already, just against my favor. If only I can manifest an extremely unusual circumstance IN my favor.

[dave marshall]

Hi Kismet,

there is no diference between and object or a situation. Both are creations, created/manifested in the same way.

If I were you I would sit down quietly and write down all your ideas and feelings about the situation as is, to get an idea of why this has been created, take time to explore every aspect of it, mind maps can be good to do this. Make sure you include your feelings about the situation as well as these play an important part in its creation.

Once you have done this and have more of an understanding as to how this event reflects your beliefs, then sit down and visualize the outcome that you want, imagine the conversations and feelings that would occur if the outcome was the one that you wanted. Do this regularly, like 20 minutes a day but try not to think about it after your visualisation period. The mind/intelect can get in the way.

You can resolve this but it will be a reflection of your ideas so if your idea is that you cannot create good things, this will be played out and materialised.

Think about your underlying beleifs about yourself and life, you may feel that the world is against you (which it is not) or that you do not have the power to create the outcome you want (which you do). Start to change these beliefs that drive your daily attitiude.

Your strongest beleifs will be the creative power house for any event so imagine your beleifs like, the world is on my side, to be building within you and in that way you are transfering the energy from the undesired outcome to the one that you want. I would also start to write down things that have gone right each day. This is a simple excercise but focuses you in the direction that you want, a positive attitiude goes a very long way.

Hope that helps a bit.

all the best

Dave

[starkey]

I would write down an intention of a life free from stress and anxiety. Think about what your life is going to be like without this lawsuit, your ideal life.

[RT Wolf]

Imagine yourself happy and confident. You can imagine telling someone it got dismissed, or posting about that here.

Whatever the worst case scenerio of this situation is, learn more about it and quantify it. YOu're going to bankrupt? Find out the laws and consequences of that. They're actually not that bad. It stays on your record for like 7 years and in that time you can't borrow anything. Not a bad habit to get into anyway. There's a number of people who learned the lesson of going bankrupt and went on to be come millionaires. The average milliionaire has gone broke over 10 times, if I recall correctly.

Anyhoo, so quantify the worst case scenerio and accept it. Imagine the opposite. Imagine financial abundance or whatever. GOod luck!

Regrets are useless.