Effecting the outcome of External Events

[kismet]

They say that you have attracted the circumstances and people and things into your life, both positive and negative. Both what you want and what you don't want. I understand this, and understand how I have attracted many years ago the issues and problems I have been dealing with and that are coming to a peak now. I want more then anything a positive outcome for me. The outcome is not up to me though, but up to other people deciding my fate. My only real control or influence over it is in this non-physical manifesting.

Can you un-attract something you attracted to yourself and don't want? Can you actually influence other people's decisions to give you what you want, just through your mind? What do you focus on? Obviously you can't focus on un-attracting it, as that just feeds into it. Do you just spend all your time visualizing the outcome you want? Like the words you will hear if it turns out how you want? Or do you just stay focused on all the things in your life that you DO want and not give any energy to the situation? Just visualize something you want and the life you want, that will only be possible IF you get the desired outcome of this issue? Like for those positive things to happen, the universe will have to remove this negative possibility from your future for you, to provide these positive events you are visualizing?

[dancer]

Ride it out, Kismet. You have reached an understanding of why your situation is as it is, accept it and continue focusing on what you want.

We have discussed beliefs a lot recently, I suggest you read the current threads because if your intentions are not manifesting, you may have beliefs blocking your intentions. Conflicting beliefs increases your resistance and lowers your vibration.

Keep in mind that intentions can manifest in a way you have not considered. Happiness can come in many forms. So, if you have your heart set on a specific outcome such as person, job etc., you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

[kismet]

I haven't even tried this yet, so I wouldn't say my intentions are not manifesting yet. I just want to know how exactly to go about it before I start and what to focus on. I don't know how to work on beliefs.

My desires relating to this have nothing to do with ADDING anything to my life. I'm not after any certain material gains or stuff. My goal is to PRESERVE, keep and save what I ALREADY have in my life, that is under the threat of loss. I've already manifested many of the things I want, I just want to keep them and keep my life as it is and of course progressively better. What do you focus on in such a situation for LOA to effect it and keep it? Just on pure gratitude?

[dancer]

Originally Posted by kismet

Just on pure gratitude?

Yes. Gratitude.

Let's say you are worried your relationship is going to fail, so, in this worried state, what are you likely to do or be: uptight, walk on eggshells, frown, stress, over-sensitive, miscontrue your partners actions or what they say, etc. Let's say you think about how much you love and value your partner, how do you think you will be in a state of gratitude? To take a guess... you would be fun, playful, loving, caring, open, etc.

[dave marshall]

HI,

if there is something I do not want I consciously remove energy from it in my mind and minimize it, sometimes avoiding it altogether, other times greatly reducing the impact. For the the idea of believing in something or consciously using the law of attraction (whatever you belive it to be) is like focusijng energy on a particular idea, you can just as easily do the opposite and remoe your focus.

Try it out, it really works

dave

[mochamajesty]

Originally Posted by dave marshall

HI,

if there is something I do not want I consciously remove energy from it in my mind and minimize it, sometimes avoiding it altogether, other times greatly reducing the impact. For the the idea of believing in something or consciously using the law of attraction (whatever you belive it to be) is like focusijng energy on a particular idea, you can just as easily do the opposite and remoe your focus.

Try it out, it really works

dave

I did this regarding a lawsuit. The couple wanted to sue me for an accident I had in 2006...even though the insurance company found me not at fault. Anyway, I knew that I was not guilty of wrong-doing and I put the incident out of my mind. Many people suggested that I get a lawyer, etc. But, I saw no need. I knew ...I just KNEW that it was going to work out in my favor. I got a call from the insurance company today saying that the couple did not pursue the lawsuit. Just like that. Without me doing a thing. In fact, when he called, I had forgotten about the accident altogether!