What is the best way to uproot beliefs I no longer wish to hold?

[Jasumi]

I am willing to utilize Subjective Reality to its highest potential. However, I still hold beliefs which seem to sabotage all my attempts.

For example; I have never found $1,000 sitting before my doorstep, therefore I do not believe that it can ever happen.

Can anyone help relieve me of my useless social conditioning?

[tbushmoney]

electro shock. its like a giant reset button.

the only downside is youll have to relearn everything else youve ever learned. ever.

but i mean, for 1000 bucks, why not.

[Alex2007]

I didn't understand very well what you were trying to say. It seems funny that you were trying to manifest $1000 outside your door!

I second, "tbushmoney" opinion about resetting your self and start all over again. At least accept that there is buggy software running in there!

Other than that, try to read, listen and watch the movements of healthy spiritual people, stay away from time consuming regional TV shows, and keep consiousness with a velocity to the future, but not connected to the future itself.

With Love

[Acting Like Godot]

Originally Posted by Jasumi

I am willing to utilize Subjective Reality to its highest potential. However, I still hold beliefs which seem to sabotage all my attempts.

Then begin by observing the sychronicities that your beliefs do generate.

[torilink]

Originally Posted by Jasumi

I am willing to utilize Subjective Reality to its highest potential. However, I still hold beliefs which seem to sabotage all my attempts.

For example; I have never found $1,000 sitting before my doorstep, therefore I do not believe that it can ever happen.

Can anyone help relieve me of my useless social conditioning?

find evidence for the new belief you wish to create.
search online/offline for people who have found money & items worth a lot of money. there are endless #'s of people this happens to.

I myself have found money on the ground many times.
I have won things worth a lot of money.
I have found items that are valuable.

it does happen all the time. get a notebook and begin finding such stories - print them out and paste them into this notebook - as you begin to accumulate new information which supplants the old incorrect belief you will begin to see outter manifestations of these new beliefs.

[Jasumi]

I appreciate everyone's input.

How long will it take to finally "re-learn" how to actively create my circumstances? It's a strange feeling knowing that Subjective Reality is true, yet having a nagging pessimistic voice inside me which tries to negate all my new beliefs.

[SuperManny]

I think one of the more important and often overlooked things, imho is to get your subconscious and your unconscious mind on the same page, so that your actions can be congruent. Unfortunately this is easier said than done, but maybe I can give you some tips. One of the ways to reach the deeper levels is hypnosis. It can work wonders for some people.

Serious open and honest self-reflection can also help a lot. When you have some time to devote to this, ask yourself the following four questions.

* In what way is this behavior a benefit to me?
* In what way is this behavior detrimental to me (or, bad for me)?
* If I didn't have this behavior, how would that benefit me?
* If I didn't have this behavior, in what way could this be detrimental to me?

When you do this, all the obvious answers will probably pop up, and then you will kind of blank out, but if you keep going here you might uncover some real gems.

Another thing that helps me is to just keep telling myself, 'If I can only do this for three weeks....' This is much easier for the unconscious or inner child part of you to accept, especially if you feel like you're being deprived, like not smoking, or not eating as much. Because your inner child will probably see that as a lifetime of deprivation.

Some new behaviors are better learned on the bodily level. In this case, use stimulation, like wearing a loose-fitting rubber band on your wrist. When you catch yourself thinking about 'that thing' immediately snap the rubber band against the inside of your wrist. This sting will teach the body to associate pain with the old pattern. Then you can also kiss or stroke your wrist whenever the new behavior pattern pops in your mind. I know this sounds silly but it can be very effective.

[Acting Like Godot]

Originally Posted by Jasumi

For example; I have never found $1,000 sitting before my doorstep, therefore I do not believe that it can ever happen.

Try making it easier for yourself.

Why must $1,000 appear before your doorstep? Can't it appear elsewhere, like in an envelope lying on the road while you're walking by.

Why must it be on the road? Can't it come to you in a more believable way? Like, getting a pay raise; or a relative just decides to give it to you as a gesture of appreciation for you helping her in something; or perhaps you suddenly found that for some technical reasons, yor income tax is reduced by $1,000; or there's something in your house (like an old stamp collection or an old book signed by an author) which means nothing to you, but you bump into someone who is a collector and he wants to pay $1,000 for the item.

Don't make the mistake of over-focusing on the how. Just focus on the outcome, the universe will do the rest.

[moonrambler]

Originally Posted by Acting Like Godot

Then begin by observing the sychronicities that your beliefs do generate.

This is where I personally run into a wall. I get loads of synchronicities. A lot of times this is just fun. Sometimes it seems to be a message but I cannot get the message. There is a theme that I cannot figure out.

I am working diligently to increase my income, through consistent action and research and PD and IM. It is not working. It is a frustrating challenge. I have negative issues with money that go way back to when I was a kid because my parents were very fixated on money and they had a lot of unhappiness which I associated with this, and I decided I would never be like that, and that money was unimportant and probably even a detriment. I'm having a heck of a time turning this around, and it needs to be turned around. I run a re-sale business. In September I had my most profitable month ever, and immediately everything went downhill and has been a terrible struggle ever since, both with having difficulty finding good stuff to re-sell along with many unexpected expenses and I'm under a lot of stress. It does not seem like mere coincidence to me that this happened directly after my most profitable month ever.

Last week, one day I had four events which made up a synchronicity that had a theme, but the message is unclear. During the day, on radio news, I heard interviews with two people I used to work for in two different towns, and then in the newspaper there was an article about another place I used to work at. The fourth event was running across a shirt in a thrift shop with the name of a company where I used to work -- in a different city from where this thrift shop is. I actually made a startled noise when I found that.

What's the theme? Get a job? I felt bummed out by that message, because I have worked so hard on running my own business, and when I looked at these previous jobs, none of them were lucrative at all, and I can't find the common ground amongst them. One was freelancing for a newspaper (which I liked), one was p/t at a radio station (which I did not like at all), one was temp full-time at a corporation (which was ok but not great), and the other was permanent full-time, and I did not like it at all. They were all in different cities. Some of the towns I liked, some I didn't. I'm stumped. I can't find the common ground. If synchronicity is giving me a message to get a job, wouldn't it be referencing jobs that I liked and/or made a good amount of money at?

[RT Wolf]

Garbage, all of it.

Might help.

[dancer]

Originally Posted by moonrambler

What's the theme? Get a job? I felt bummed out by that message, because I have worked so hard on running my own business, and when I looked at these previous jobs, none of them were lucrative at all, and I can't find the common ground amongst them. One was freelancing for a newspaper (which I liked), one was p/t at a radio station (which I did not like at all), one was temp full-time at a corporation (which was ok but not great), and the other was permanent full-time, and I did not like it at all. They were all in different cities. Some of the towns I liked, some I didn't. I'm stumped. I can't find the common ground. If synchronicity is giving me a message to get a job, wouldn't it be referencing jobs that I liked and/or made a good amount of money at?

Well, Moonraker, it could mean considering employment, but it could also be about feeling better about what you are doing and what you are working towards. For example, seeing synchroncities related to previous employment, which you were not happy in, could be encouragement to get motivated and enthusastic about what you are doing now instead of ending back in the employment you were miserable in.

[dave marshall]

In my experience alot ofthe themes that play out in lives are in someway relaed to self belief. I have realised that my self worth has to be of the same value of what I want to create. Self belief/self worth is essential is conscious creation of your life, you really do have to know you are worth it!

dave