anyone manifest a relationship?

[European38]

Hi there Ive been single for 2 years and there is no reason for it as I am pretty and intelligent and good fun! I never meet guys or even come in contact with any potentials??? it's really strange and I can't work out what is going on, has anyone manifested a relationship and if so what have they done? I spent a period of time reaffirming affirmations but I gave up coz nothing was happening

[RT Wolf]

Why do you want a relationship? What do you want to give another person in a relationship?

[cylon]

Originally Posted by RT Wolf

Why do you want a relationship? What do you want to give another person in a relationship?

Yeah these are important things to ask first. These things tend to work out when you are already happy and enjoying life. I THINK I want to create a relationship, but it confuses me. Everyone says the best way is to date several girls at once, and I may like that too. I really don't know. It's more important to know what it is I think I'm missing before I decide that I have to HAVE a RELATIONSHIP.

You have to get clear on what you want, why you want it. I'm still doing that.

[wolfgang]

Originally Posted by European38

Hi there Ive been single for 2 years and there is no reason for it as I am pretty and intelligent and good fun! I never meet guys or even come in contact with any potentials??? it's really strange and I can't work out what is going on, has anyone manifested a relationship and if so what have they done? I spent a period of time reaffirming affirmations but I gave up coz nothing was happening

I have attracted relationships out of just doing what I like doing and joining groups that do things I like doing. There are people to meet everywhere once you are out there, I would think. However I'm current;y in the oposite boat and maybe will start a thread on my situation of de-manifesting a relationship that's not to my cup of tea now. But it comes down to the same thing - deciding what you want is the start of getting there and defining it, I suppose.

[mochamajesty]

It sounds like you are not satisfied with your life as a single person and that you "need" a relationship to be happy. I think that guys can sense this in us, and it drives them away. Get happy with yourself first. This forum can give you ideas on self-improvement.

[MmeIntentional]

Originally Posted by mochamajesty

It sounds like you are not satisfied with your life as a single person and that you "need" a relationship to be happy. I think that guys can sense this in us, and it drives them away. Get happy with yourself first. This forum can give you ideas on self-improvement.

Yep I would say the same too. I know it's easier said than done but I would just "keep" going out without out having that thought " oh will I meet someone tonight" That's never worked for me. Also I would say that I am happy in my life but just met a bit of a looser who I fell inlove with, so I don't know what happened there for me

Can I ask if your dating at the moment ? and what method are you using to manifest ?

[dancer]

European38, what are you saying to yourself re. never meeting guys? In other words, what are your beliefs regarding this? Your self talk may give you clues about what energy you are sending out.