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Money is a toughie for people. Partially because of the number of beliefs you have preexisting about them, and partially becase it is hard to find what works. Here are some resources that might help: The Mental Virus That’s Keeping You Broke | Inspired Money Maker - How To Make Money Doing What You Love I Will Teach You To Be Rich » Some people think there’s only a limited amount of money Mind-Manual » “Some people think there’s only a limited amount of money” The Little Money Bible by Stuart Wilde The Trick to money is having some by stuart wilde No BS Wealth Attraction for Entrepreneurs Steve's posts on this sort of this, especially this one: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...herently-evil/ http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...l-achievement/ When all is said and done, the thing that becomes most important is, do you really feel like you deserve x amount of money that you are asking for? You can create that feeling of deserving by working in exchange for the money, or feeling like crap in exchange for the money (which is what I felt was true a while ago, that money required personal sacrifice and I would not allow money to come easily from utilizing my strengths). HTH. |
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Hi Dave “Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it” Quote Adolf Hitler There are highly intelligent people out there who follow this formula who pretend that they believe in The Secret when they dont. They know if a person in authority or a person who is rich recommends a product or service that all the poor or dumb people will buy that product or service so they can be like the person they admire and have the things that the rich person has. Also lots of buisness people jump on the bandwagon as it's a hot ticket for a fast buck.The fact that the movie doesn't make people super rich is even better in that they ask for help which means they spend even more on books,videos, seminars,c.d.s. |
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HAHAHHAHAHAHA. Godwin's Law has been invoked. This thread has gone to hell. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin's_law "As an online discussion grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving Nazis or Hitler approaches one." |
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Using LoA doesn't work. I can say that because of the connotation that "using" has. If you are "using" LoA to better only yourself or that your desires contain only vibes that are for your ego and seperation - it won't pan out. If you want a car so that you can get attention or think that will get chicks - I don't think that gets answered. So using LoA can mean trying to get something only for yourself and actually hurting/hindering other people. I don't see that as being how it "works". It really should be about allowing LoA. That you find goals that fit your higher good which will also fit people around you in beneficial ways. Or if you are after a goal that is for yourself it will work easier if you feel how that goal will be for the greater good. If you want money just so you can get more stuff that vibe doesn't get any flow, if you want money so you can give it away and help a bunch of people, that would get a response. Then the trick is to be able to feel the vibe that comes with that - that it is for the higher good of a bunch of people. However maybe this doesn't explain evil doers in the the world, except the evil doers usually have convinced a bunch of people that it is for their greater good too. Last edited by wolfgang; 01-08-2008 at 04:20 PM. |
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RT Wolf -- in my case, I think it is something very, very fundamental. I read through each of the links you posted, and the one that strikes me most is the last link, where Steve speaks of needing to make a shift in identity. It is like I have an alternate subconscious personality that is thwarting me. This personality even has the power to affect the outside world so that I find fewer opportunities. It's bizarre. This personality is intent on keeping a certain identity, which has to do with how money is unimportant. In the meantime, I know money is very important because the money situation is spiralling out of control. Identity shift conflict -- for instance, much of my income comes from eBay. For years I avoided taking on the 'power seller' designation because it looked pretentious to me, the way all the obsession with 'teams' does at corporations, the way employees are no longer employees but 'associates' even if they have no say in anything, secretaries are 'administrative assistants,' store clerks are now 'team members,' and for Pete's sake, the local supermarket is insisting on calling its customers 'guests.' Finally this fall, a couple friends convinced me to accept the 'power seller' designation because buyers find it to be impressive. I said, "ah geez. I'm an old hippie." One said, "You're a businesswoman." Ok. Fine. I accepted the title. Since then I have steadily been accomplishing having low enough sales figures that soon I won't qualify to be a power seller anymore. I'm not doing this by goofing off and not working. It seems to be 'just happening.' Yet I don't buy that, because I know somehow I am responsible. There is a code here I need to crack. |
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If you flip a coin 100 times you will not get exactly 50/50 heads and tails. You'll get (for example) 48 heads and 52 tails. For a pseudoscientist that's a significant result. If you do the 100-flip trial again you might get 52 heads and 48 tails. If you do the 100-flip trial a dozen times eventually you're going to get 25 heads and 75 tails. Now we're talking! That's when you build a website, write a book and start having seminars at $700 a pop. It's easy. There are hundreds of thousands of people who will NOT ask for your data and will NOT question your experimental design. If you're lazy you don't even have to do the coin flips. Yes, James Randi or Michael Shermer will expose you as a cynical fraud. But nobody who matters is going to care as long as the people with the cash in their pockets are hearing what they want to hear. Quote:
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The universe does care if you want to give $$ to the poor to make this a better place and does care if the jet you buy is going to help others. I don't think the universe is able to respond to just you being lined up with what you are asking for, it also has to be a clean vibe that helps this place be better. For some they are able to feel the clean vibe about buying a jet and for other's it more coming from ego and seperating. Anyway, I am trying to understand it all too and wanted to bring up some points I've thought about. The points of not forcing what you are desiring and desiring what is for the good of all and being able to feel all that. I am coming from LoA from the angle of acceptance and not forcing and allowing. I don't sit around wishing for a bunch of stuff I don't really need right now. Last edited by wolfgang; 01-08-2008 at 05:02 PM. | |
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In the words of Scott Adams, "“I agree with your analysis of your hallucination.”" You can get a better context for that here: The Dilbert Blog: My New Favorite Response I have never said any of those excuses you mentioned, nor do I believe them. However, I realize that you are trying to ridicule the arguments for IM using hyperbole. You might also enjoy reading this, which does offer some more ammo for you: The Dilbert Blog: On the Other Hand On the other hand ( There is also a state that supposedly garuntees easy manifestation, and if you're in that state, life is super easy. It is an easy, relaxed state, open to all possibilities and light hearted, with easy detachment. A deep sense of faith and trust in yourself and your ability to do get what you want (whether through LoA or convential action). It is a place where no one can hurt you, but you are open to all. You are free of the "good opinions of other people" as Maslow said. Peak experience, really. On the other, other hand, Acting like godot has almost two and half years of blog entries where he does keep track of what things he intends, and manifests, especially through non-direct means. On the other, other, other hand, you've demonstrated that you're no longer interested in seeking any sort of truth, but rather asserting your version of the truth, especially by ignoring anything inconvenient. Therefore, I'm going to spend the rest of this post arguing for your side. A position is not just a position, it is in fact a chain of links, starting from the person and ending with the position, and it includes things like the person themself, the person's perceptions, the person's interpretation of those perceptions, the context and environment that the person is in, the contexts that certain assumptions that make the position true for that person, the assumptions that person has (including beliefs), the arguments for the position, the evidence for the argument (the perception or interpretation of which can also be attacked), and the various aspects of the position itself (such as truth, scientific testability, and so on). Now, we reach some problems here. Without an understanding of the other person's position, you can't actually argue against the position. Without a thorough understanding of science (especially the philosophy of science), you can't really argue the scientific testability. Without an understanding of philosophy, you can't really argue for the assumptions that people make about the nature of their reality. You can however, do what you can to expose the other person as a liar, or severely damage the credibility of another person, by questioning the other person's ABILITY to perceive and/or interpret. And that is the game you've started and it is a good one, probably your best bet. Hit counting is a good start, but that isn't going far enough. You're still doing a good job of ignoring things which are inconvenient to your argument, which works a lot better than trying to answer them, reasoning here. Have a look at this: 24 Standard Causes of Human Misjudgment You might also like to read Influence by Dr. Robert Cialdini and Quirkology by Dr. Robert Wiseman. Both are psychologists. The first book is on how people are influenced, which you can find here: Robert Cialdini - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia You can find a number of these among IM circles. Wiseman used to be a magician, and talks about how people work, sometimes in contradictory ways. He also makes a case that common superstitions are not as harmless as people think. For example, some biases you can easily find among IMers are: - A misunderstanding of the laws of probabilty. You can also talk about how humans perceive what is "likely" or "unlikely" in patently wrong ways. - Many, if not all of the 24 causes of human misjudgement Munger there puts forward, including pavlovian conditioning and social proof. - Confirmation bias: Confirmation bias - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia - Correlation does not = causation - Might like to read Fooled by Randomness, as well, which also talks about how human beings routinely misjudge odds. - Overinfluence by "big" events. The more clearly a person can imagine an event, the more likely they think it is to happen. - Other problem with the experimentation idea is that the "scientific observer" in this case is also a member in the experiment, leaving the door open for both the observer expectancy effect as well as the subject expectancy effect (where a subject or observer expects a certain result and unconsciously manipulate the experiment, especially an experiment of this nature. Of course, thare are experiments done by psychologists that were just done on themselves, so it is still empirically valid form of experimentation, just perhaps not in this case. - In any sample large enough, there will be anomolies, such as with investors that beat hte market over a long period of time. The laws of probability virtually garuntee that there will be some people like that, and you can simply write off people like Peter Lynch, Warren Buffett, Charlie Munger and the like as simply being "lucky" and an inevitable consequence of the large number of players on the market. You could try the same approach with ALG and Paul, who's anecdotal (which is not a very rigourous form of scientific testing, although self-reporting is indeed useful). Of course, the argument against that is: The Superinvestors of Graham-and-Doddsville Essentially, the argument is about concentrations. Such as this: "A concentration of winners that simply cannot be explained by chance can be traced to this particular intellectual village." Of course, the people who do better will self-select themselves to be champions of IM. - Another thing to keep in mind is the group dynamics on these forums. Dissenters are routinely banned (although usually for reasons other than just disagreeing with the popular opinion on these forums), and that can lead to a very strong groupthink and incestuous thinking patterns, similar to the situation surrounding the bay of pigs disaster. - There is also Littlewood's Law, which says that you can expect a miracle a day: Littlewood's law - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Law of Truly Large Numbers - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia - Let's not forget the perception of control IM creates. - Let's not also forget that people think that good things are more likely to happen to them than bad things, so when good things happen, they focus on them and simply ignore the bad things. - Pretty much everything here: List of cognitive biases - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia - Make sure no one mentions that the idea that reality is "objective" has simply become naturalized in our society, and that there is a very strong divide (and irrational) created between the physical world and the mental world, probably influenced heavily by Descartes. Nor let anyone mention that an objective world view is simply a position and has to be proven, not taken as granted simply because it has become super-naturalized in our society and simply seems "common sense". The denumont would be that given that human beings suffer from so many critical errors, and because it is nearly practically impossible to be sure that all of these biases have been removed, and given Occam's Razor (which I don't agree with) which is probably the right answer? 1. Thoughts affect reality, and thus everything almost the entire population of the world (except for a surprising number of successful people, including olympic gold medalists, revered scientists, celebrities, etc--ie concentrations) know is wrong. 2. Everybody is simply mistaken and simply human. Now that is an argument to be proud of. |
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As for Mrs. Doubtfire or whatever her name is, she obviously was inspired to come in here and insult your (y'all's?) intelligence for a reason. Anything that makes you question and re-evaluate is a good thing. But it's sad to think of a washerwoman who furtively gains access to a university computer and, in between toilet washings and floor moppings, tries to discover a way to better herself. And when she finds it, she can't believe it could ever be so simple; and so she desperately does her best to convince herself, through insults and sophomoric attempts at "logic" directed at you (y'all), that there's no way anyone could have such power at their fingertips. If she can't do it, no one can. There can be no other explanation for her continued posting, since if she has half a brain she already knows that her posturing isn't going to change anyone's mind (which further begs the question of why she would even want to). As for her "science"...ask her "what is thought"? Scientists can tell you what they think it is, they can say it's caused by electrochemical processes, etc...but they can't tell you what it is. And if they can't tell you that, what the hell do they know otherwise? But remember, we are one....even Mrs. Doubtfire. If you show kindness to the least of these you show kindness to me as well. | |
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I also think when we wish for stuff in a way that it pans out, is is actually our spiritual side letting it come through us, not our ego wanting to be more comfortable or more important. We start to have goals that feel like stuff but is really what the spiritual side of us is looking for. Mostly googling around, people's blogs Picked up vaious links from this forum Listened to the free audios of Abraham-Hicks centerpointe.com UniverseofPower.com manifestlife.com *************.com goodvibecoach.com *******.com (probably banned) Listened to some audio subscriptions "masters of the secret" fieldcenter.org what the bleep do we know plus it seems like people have been writing about LoA for a while, just not calling it that. Choprah, Dyer, Wilde... | ||
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I was introduced to LOA from Abraham-Hicks, and one thing that always struck me about their message was how non-judgemental it was. I think that is why it resonated with me. I don't think that anyone's desires are better or worse than anyone else's. If someone wants money to donate to the poor, more power to them. And if someone wants money to blow it on designer purses, more power to them, too. Who am I (or anyone?) to decide that one is better than another? Isn't there enough money to go around? Saying the signal is stronger when what you want is for the better good.... that may not be true for everyone. LOA can be spiritual, but I don't think it has to be. And I just don't find anything wrong with it if it isn't. |
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Then I looked up the author of the first 9 articles on the left hand page. Stanley Krippner is into shamanism and how shamans do psychic healing. One of his articles was on Ramtha, a famous fraud, for the Journal of the American Society of Psychical Research I moved down to the next author, Dr. Krucoff, who had an article on intercessory prayer. I looked up that paper and this was the first sentence of the abstract "Intercessory prayer is widely believed to influence recovery from illness, but claims of benefits are not supported by well-controlled clinical trials." This is the study where they let people know they were being prayed for. The control studies had no difference above chance but the people who knew they were being prayed for got worse, not better. This paper basically disproves the thesis of "The Intention Experiment." The next paper, also by Krucoff is even more interesting. This was an intercessory prayer study called MANTRA. This is what Krucoff said about his results: "Adverse outcomes in the prayer group were 50 percent to 100 percent fewer than in the standard therapy group. In the patients who received any of the noetic therapies, including prayer, we found a 30 percent reduction for every adverse outcome we measured." He knew his target audience would not actually look at the evidence. Other scientists did: “If one takes the trouble to read the MANTRA I study,” says Skolnick, “one can see that the prayed-for group of patients had one more death than the patients in the group who received only standard care. Contrary to what Dr. Krucoff told the news media, there was no difference, impressive or otherwise, in the number of patients who suffered congestive heart failure.” So this reference also contradicts the thesis of "The Intention Experiment." That's enough. I have a life. The rest are articles on new age "alternative medicine" (If it worked they'd just call it "medicine"), parapsychology, Akashic fields, Negative/Positive ions, etc. All the usual suspects. This is not a bibliography, it's a rogues gallery of con artists and pseudoscientists. | |
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Maybe that's a good tread to start for the greater good of all - is the Intention that ultimately for the greater good have a stronger response? Why do the LoA writers say to state your intentions with the "and for the greater good of all"? Or did I get that from somewhere else? Than another thread for "is LoA spritual". http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/i...tml#post144861 I think it is. It's an old message about being aligned with spirit and then the your path is wokring and you can play with the abundance that is part of the universe. | |
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I was wondering what is it here that's causing such bad feeling, and I clicked on MrsCogan's links to find out more about her. Congratulations by the way, MrsCogan, on your weight loss victory! What struck me was: "The Sword of Freedom: Eternal Hostility Against Every Form of Tyranny Over the Mind of Man". "They say the pen is mightier than the sword. I say screw 'em. Use both." I didn't read the blog, but I think I got the gist -- you feel strongly that beliefs that can't be scientifically proven are tyranical over men's minds, right? And you would like to free people from the tyranny of their delusional thinking, right? That seems to be very important to you. Please tell me if I'm not understanding correctly. The words that really jumped out at me were "eternal hostility" and the inference that violent action ("the sword") is as valid a tool in your mission to banish tyrannical thinking as free speech. This part I'm reading between your lines, though -- maybe you mean "the sword" to symbolize something other than violent action? A different metaphor, maybe? That makes things in this thread a little more clear for me. "Eternal hostility" definitely is showing up to me in this thread. I'm pretty sure your hostility is aimed at the type of thinking that you consider delusional & tyrannical, but how it's occuring for me, and I think others, is that your hostility seems to be aimed at the people who are thinking those thoughts. And that hostility is not just coming from you, but towards you as well. I can understand that when people are being told what and how to think, they might find that rather oppressive and tyrannical! As you know, that's one of the hot buttons I have to look out for in myself, and I think others have that same hot button, too, from the looks of it. That's not your problem, MrsCogan, of course; you are perfect exactly as you are, and you're great for my personal development! Thank you very much for that. I hope I and others here are able to return the favor. (I think that must be so, or you wouldn't be sticking around, would you?). Having your buttons pushed, and taking a bold look at it, is a great way to access knowledge about what you don't know you don't know about yourself. Some of the thoughts expressed in this rather touchy thread are looking kind of personal & snarky around the edges, and I would be sorry to see the thread shut down because of that. I would like to invite all of the participants to take a breath and be careful to take 100% responsibility for being responsive rather than reactive, so that discussion can continue in way that fosters mutual respect, personal growth, and maybe even love. Good luck to you in that, and good luck to me, too! |
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A lot of people on this board are obviously clueless about the scientific method. You see, the scientific method is a way to filter real information from all the clutter of bullshit out there. Some people *want* their bullshit to be true and so no amount of double blind studies or debunking can make them turn it loose. They will just cook up excuses as to why the magic didn't work this time. Quote:
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And there is the problem... Thinking science is the end all evaluation to everything... It's only 1 aspect to what we call life and consciousness...
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Early yesterday morning, I went deep and manifested for $10,000, in extra income, as quick as possible, and no later than the end of January. I had absolutely no idea where the money would come from. I think this is actually the first time I've done this kind of intention (usually I just ask for job promotions, gigantic pay increases, new job opportunities and spectacular performance for my investments. The reason why I decided to manifest $10,000 was that I'd been thinking about some stuff, after reading and writing some posts right here in this thread in Steve's forum. And I saw more clearly that the way to test LOA is to work with bizarre, strange or unusual thoughts. Getting $10,000 out of thin air seems bizarre, strange and unusual enough to me, so early yesterday morning, I decided to work with that. Anyway, that was in the morning. I came home in the evening and there's a bill in my mailbox for $6,200+, and a cheque for about $300. The bill is a hospital bill for one of my family members. I had already paid it a while ago. All this time, I had not been able to claim on my company's health insurance because the hospital had had some problems sorting out & finalising the cost of certain items in the bill, and therefore they had not been able to furnish a 100% finalised bill. Now, the hospital has sent me a final bill, for good order, to show the exact cost of all the different items and to confirm the exact amount payable. It turns out I had overpaid previously. So I get a refund cheque for a few hundred dollars. And with the final bill, I can now claim on my company's health insurance, so I will be receiving $6,200+ shortly. Here's the next thing, which also happened last night. The background is that in my country, the government gives certain grants to all families who have two or more young children. However, the grants can only be used for specific purposes, such as paying for their expenses at playschools and kindergartens. I have never been able to use the grants. I've been sending my kids to a certain school for the past few years (since they were toddlers). However, it is an unusual school, with an unusual curriculum, designed to challenge and nurture gifted kids (it is one of my longstanding intentions that my children are gifted). And because of its non-standard curriculum, the government had not approved it as a school where the grant could be used to pay for the school fees. So my grant money has been sitting idle, locked up by government rules, in a special account that I cannot touch. Anyway, last night, my wife told me that the school had told her that this is now changed with immediate effect. The government has finally given its approval for the school to be licensed as a "school". And so we can use the government grant to pay the fees, starting from this semester. The school said that it would shortly deduct this semester's fees directly from our government grant account. This semester's fees should be around $1,200. So within one day of my manifestation for $10,000, I'm getting news from the universe that it will be footing $6,200 + $1,200 = $7,400 of my expenses, plus I get a $300 cheque. Total is $7,700. $10,000 - $7,700 = $2,300 So I am still waiting for the universe to send me an additional $2,300. This - I confidently expect. Thank you, universe. And thank you, to that you-know-who in this forum thread, who annoyed me enough to make me decide to test the LOA, one more time, with a bizarre thought. I know you must have appeared in my reality for a good reason. -------- Once again, the skeptics will say that the above incident is just a "coincidence". As usual, the simple test is how often and how regularly you get unusual coincidences popping up to support your expressed intentions - and based on that, you'll have to decide for yourself whether LOA works or not. | |
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This guy says this. That guy says that. All you can do is trust the conclusions you come to with your own experience. A belief is nothing until internalized anyway. Before that it's just an idea or something you're playing around with. BTW cool story ALG. Last edited by cylon; 01-09-2008 at 12:11 AM. |
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Actually, Mrs Cogan, you frighten me in some ways - you just don't know it. You frighten me because in some ways (just a few Quote:
Regarding that blog, I am regularly sought after by the press for my views; I get invitations to debate with government ministers on national television; I get people travelling from overseas (eg from Harvard, USA) to interview me; I am mentioned in more PhD theses than I can recall; my blog articles are officially recorded in the nation's historical archives; and the funny thing is, in relation to that blog, very few people even know my real name. Anyway, another little secret for you. How did my blog get all this attention, and wouldn't you like yours to be just as widely read? I used the Law of Attraction on my blog. Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 01-09-2008 at 12:35 AM. | |
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I've avoided this thread so far because I've had other things on the go, but I'd like to make a couple of observations if I may: The sense I get from almost all sides of the argument goes much along the lines of the Harley-Davidson rider ethos: If you ride one, you'll understand. If you don't, you can't understand. OK, so maybe the analogy isn't perfect, but I think you probably get the drift. My personal experience with LoA has met with extremely limited success. Little stuff seemed to work, but most of them could be easily subscribed to coincidence. But stuff that really mattered - relationship issues, financial issues, employment issues - came up zilch. Nada. It's been a tough row to hoe to try and climb out of the resulting mess, and it's not over yet. Undoubtedly there'll be a chorus of well-meaning advice about "detachment" and "desire" and "limiting beliefs" and all the rest. But an honest interpretation of my own personal experience tends to support the idea (and it's mentioned in this thread somewhere, I just can't find it at the moment) of hit-counting; that is, you count the times when it seems like it's working and discount the times that it doesn't seem like it's working. By no means am I any sort of LoA guru, far from it actually. But, like our friend ALG here, or Mr Wang of whatever he calls himself, I put it to the test. His experiment worked. He got his 10 grand. (How about sharing the wealth, my friend? So clearly, LoA - if it exists at all - is haphazard at best. If "the universe" is so finely tuned that LoA practitioners must do A, B and C in a certain order in a certain timeline and in a certain way and feel certain feelings while doing it, well, that hardly makes it a reliable process, does it? Those who are True Believers simply will not be swayed by evidence to the contrary. There's almost a religious-like fervour to it, one that I find more than a little disconcerting. Sceptics, like our friend Mrs Cogan, tend to discount possibilities and put almost all their eggs in one scientific basket and won't accept anything short of repeatable, double-blind experimentation to develop a theory. Both sets of opinions, and varying degrees of them, tend to lead to an "us versus them" mentality. If you're a True Believer and your LoA experiment didn't work, then you must have done something wrong. If you're a sceptic and your LoA experiment did work, then it must have been a coincidence. I don't have any answers one way or the other. I waffle back and forth on this depending on how decent my breakfast was. But clearly, if there's anything to be learned here, it's probably more along the lines of how to investigate and learn about our own human nature than it is about whether we can "manifest" a jelly donut. Or a Harley-Davidson. |
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There isn't any one way to go about it. Some people go jogging; some people play basketball; some people do pilates; some people push a lawn mower; some people climb mountains; some people lift weights. Then within each mode of exercise, there are sub-disagreements and sub-discussions about specific methods and techniques: Are free weights better than machines? Does stretching really help runners perform better? Should swimmers train with flotation equipment? Physical fitness also comes in different forms. A marathon runner can do things which a professional weightlifter cannot, and vice versa. A person who exercises by playing four different sports has a different kind of fitness from a person who just plays one. Some people are more genetically inclined for endurance, others for strength, others for agility etc. So it is with LOA. When people disagree about techniques and methods, they are really like fitness enthusiasts disagreeing about the best ways to exercise and what methods and techniques are most useful. The ability to use LOA in different ways also varies among individuals, just as different individuals have different kinds of physical fitness. You can also see the differences in style, among the LOA gurus / teachers. Abraham Hicks emphasises emotions. Shakti Gawain emphasises visualisation. Jose Silva emphasises the need to access deeper mental states. Etc. | |
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Firstly, it seems to me that most people lack the curiosity / energy to make any serious attempt to counting of hits or misses. It is inevitable therefore that any conclusions they draw from their own counting will be tentative or suspect. However, if you make a sustained effort to count properly (both the hits & misses), you will have a much better experiment. Definitely not perfect, but much better. Although I had already been using LOA (rather haphazardly) for a while earlier, I really started my own counting exercise on 27 Nov 2006 Acting Like Godot: The Great Experiment Acting Like Godot: Methodology For the Great Experiment As you see from the above, I originally conceived of a one-year long experiment. But at the end of that initial one year, I decided to continue for another year. Contrary to what my posts in this forum may suggest, I continue to have some doubts & reservations as to the ultimate nature of LOA: Creation & Other Adventures: Doubt Be Vanquished I would like to share some tips with people who may be interested in doing their own hit counting. Firstly, you should generally record your IM exercises soon after they are done - so that you do not know yet whether they are going to be hits or misses. This will avoid the kind of subconscious bias where you end up recording only your hits. Example: Creation & Other Adventures: Lunchtime Manifestations At the time when I recorded the above, I would not know whether any of these would eventually turn out to be a hit or a miss. When you record your IM exercises, make a few quick notes of the kind of LOA technique you used (visualisation? writing? affirmations? meditation? self-hypnosis?), and how the experience felt to you (especially any unusual sensations / feelings / perceptions etc). Over time you may learn from such records. An interesting example: Acting Like Godot: Exam Day (here I experienced the sensation of being "blocked" from asking for what I wanted, even though I knew exactly what I wanted. Later, for certain reasons, I learned that even if I did get the thing I wanted, I would never be able to know for sure that I had got it (click link for details). Looking back now, I suspect that this could be the reason for the "blocked" feeling). Obviously, do record your misses as well as your hits. Here is my biggest miss of 2007 - I had intended to win all three prizes in a writing competition but was disqualified from even participating: Acting Like Godot: Disappointed For some kinds of intentions, it is easy to decide whether you had scored a hit or a miss. For example, intentions which can be described in specific numerical terms: Acting Like Godot: Money Matters Acting Like Godot: New Heights For some other kinds of intentions which can't be described so precisely (because they are more qualititative than quantitative in nature), you need to make a subjective judgment as to whether it was a hit or miss: Creation & Other Adventures: One More Little Success, Before 2007 Closes Don't be afraid to make that kind of subjective judgment, because in the end it's your own life, and your own experiment, and you're doing it to test LOA for yourself, not anyone else. Besides, if a subjective judgment needs to be made of your own intention/result, there is no better person than yourself to be that judge. Another tip - it is useful to periodically summarise the overall state of your life (eg family, career, finances, health, hobbies etc) at a given point in time, if you're setting intentions that cover all areas of your life. It really simplifies the tracking process. Example: Acting Like Godot: Quick Notes A practical tip - if you like doing IM exercises of the writing sort (ie you write out all your goals; or write a description of your perfect life etc); this actually make the tracking process very easy. Just date the piece pf paper and file it away: Acting Like Godot: Here We Go Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 01-09-2008 at 02:58 PM. | |
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While browsing through my own blogs, I realised that what I had said earlier ...: Quote:
According to my own records, on May 23 last year, I had manifested for "at least $10,000" to "come quickly into my life". And next day, on May 24, the universe sent me news that the money was on its way. Acting Like Godot: Wow That Was Quick This is really amazing. | |
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