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Ah, all the sound and fury. The basic proposition is that "thought affects reality". This very wide proposition can be considered at many different levels. At one extreme end, we may say for instance, that the sum total of reality is completely dependent on one person's consciousness (Steve Pavlina). Or we may conclude that reality is mostly illusion (Buddha). Or we may say that the subatomic particles that comprise the universe are constantly blinking in and out of existence depending on how consciousness is observing them (quantum physicist Fred Alan Wolf). Somewhere in the middle of the spectrum, we may say, for instance, that the greatest influence on a person's life is his own thinking. Or that positive thinking is key to great success. Or that by identifying our own limiting beliefs and overcoming them, we will be able to grow, develop and lead much more meaningful lives. "As a man thinketh, so he becomes" etc. At a rather mundane level, we say that "thought affects reality", in the sense we can, for example, cause our hands or feet to move, just by thinking about it or deciding to do it. At this level, the proposition is uncontroversial and I discuss it no further. Considering the nature of this site (Personal Development for Smart People), there is little doubt that most, if not all, readers here have experimented with deliberately altering their thoughts, emotions, attitudes, beliefs etc, in an attempt to grow, improve themselves, achieve happiness or success, fulfill their potential etc. This is not limited to forummers in the "Intention Manifestation" section of the forum, but includes forummers in other sections as well - for example "Emotional Mastery"; "Character and Contribution"; "Spirituality, Consciousness and Awareness" .... even "Health & Fitness" etc. So the question is ... where do we go from here? Where IM often runs into controversy is the proposition that it can (or will) "magically" generate events and circumstances, in response to a person's thoughts. This leads to a lot of discussion of how exactly one should try to think, in order to generate the desired kinds of events and circumstances. It also leads to a lot of discussion along the lines of "Oh, you are such a foolish bunch of superstitious villagers to believe this crap." Personally, up till about two years ago, I was probably as skeptical as Mrs Cogan. Around then, I decided to suspend some of my skepticism and permit myself a little curiosity (this is sometimes known as "keep an open mind"). And then around fifteen months ago, I decided to do a full-fledged experiment, using my life as the guinea pig. Well, the results are in: .... and it is not possible for me to ignore them. My experience with the law of Attraction has been such that it would be illogical for me to dismiss it. The very, very least I can do for myself is to carry on the experiment and see what else is going to happen. I am quite well aware that there are some people who have experimented with LOA but failed to achieve the desired results (see Dave Angeles, OP). Well I think that experience is the best teacher. Whatever "magical" may mean to you, if you can't do it, then go back to a more mundane, basic, everyday level and start working on your thoughts and beliefs from there. For example, suppose you are overweight; too lazy to exercise; your social life is pathetic; and you don't have any personal time for your hobbies. You've manifested for a genie to change your life overnight (or by next week, latest, and oh yeah, you asked for world peace too, just by the way), and it didn't work. What you need to do is try adjusting your thoughts, beliefs and attitudes step by step. It could begin with a small step like telling yourself, "Today, I will consume smaller portions for each of my meals", and doing so. Or something like, "Instead of moping about my pathetic social life, today I will call X and Y and ask them if they want to go out with me." Or "since I never seem to have time to do the things I want, I'd better organise myself and learn to manage my time better." Small, believable, positive thoughts about things you can actually do. I trust it's quite easy to see how thinking such thoughts can lead to an improvement in your life circumstances. Nothing particularly "magical". However - and this is the point I really want to make - all this is nevertheless good, general practice for cultivating the ability to choose your own thoughts at will. Every negative thought you successfully banish, and every positive thought you successfully choose, increases your future ability to banish negative thoughts and choose positive thoughts. Most people have very limited ability to choose their own thoughts. They are stuck in the same thinking patterns and attitudes, whether about their work, or their family, or their community, or themselves, or the country, or the world etc - and they can't even see it. What we should seek to do, in the terminology of Stephen Covey (a strictly non-LOA PD writer, by the way) is to increase that space between stimulus and response; in other words, increase our ability to deliberately think and choose our response to a given event (rather than instinctively react, like a single-celled brainless organism). And when you have really cultivated some serious, conscious, general ability to change your own thoughts at will .......... you are ready to bring some serious, conscious "magic" with your life. And by then you won't even need to "do" much .... apart from think. Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 12-29-2007 at 10:01 AM. |
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And Mrs Cogan, stop it. It's painful, the way you embarrass yourself. Quote:
I could convey a survey on anything - for example: "Is my mother's chicken stew delicious?" "Is Mrs Cogan a silly person?" "Do you believe in God?" Given a sufficiently large sample size, I can always draw a statistically reliable conclusion from the raw data. This is not the same, however, as saying that my mother's chicken stew is scientifically proven to be delicious, or that Mrs Cogan is scientifically proven to be a silly person, or that God is scientifically proven to exist. Last edited by Acting Like Godot; 12-29-2007 at 11:34 AM. | |
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Wow this thread has really taken off. One dude comes in to say "it's all crap!" then one lady attracts a thread with the word "garbage" in it and aligns with that.... maybe this could be the official "LOA is a bunch of garbage and therefore I can't help but post about a topic that drives me nuts over and over again, something that I would never in a million years try out for myself... gee I can't seem to stop myself from posting in this thread" thread. Almost as if a desire to refute LOA brings more opportunities to refute LOA. It is good to have this debate though... our own doubts draw these things to us of course. The degree we want to prove to others is the degree of doubt we have within ourselves. For myself, I am still completely fascinated by the words "Bossy Boots" and I refuse to not be dying to use them in everyday conversation. The ony reason I re-clicked this thread is because of that term, and then I see it repeated at least 3 (three) times. Bossy Boots is being drawn into my awareness, along with polar bears. Levity has ended. Resume debate. Last edited by cylon; 12-29-2007 at 11:36 AM. |
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| Aaaaaaahhhhh, I don't know why it was so funny to me... Thanks ALG @tbushmoney, I like what you had to say, I to think and feel there is a change among us... @cylon, Bossy Boots, Bossy Boots, Bossy Boots... I'm with ya man... The opportunity will arise today for you to try out your new phrase....
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Thanks Chris. Though I may not know ultimately where Bossy Boots will lead me, I have faith that I shall be prepared for whatever revelations it may....reveal. "What's that Bossy Boots? Quantum entanglement? You're silly." Bossy Boots and cylon-- best friends forever. Gotta love it. |
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Hey MrsCogan, Welcome to the forums. Have you head the Dave Matthews / Tim Reynolds albums? Brilliant. They have a newer holiday album out too. Just gorgeous stuff. As far as the "thoughts creating reality" discussion, its certainly interesting, isn't it? You can't do anything without thinking about it first, so the statement that "thought creates reality" certainly rings true, but then there's the endless debate about whether or not you are bypassing action. Here's how I like to think of it. Imagine this circle: Consciousness --> Beliefs --> Thoughts --> Action --> Reality --> Consciousness. "Thoughts create reality" skips the Action step, but that doesn't mean the statement isn't true. Let's try some others:
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I think you are under the false impression that science produces certainty. It doesn't. You said the chicken stew hypothesis wasn't testable. It certainly is and I showed you how. It produces results that seem to verify your assertion about how great the stew is. That's all science ever does. Sometimes it does that so well that you can rely on the data without question (Theory of Evolution, Theory of Gravity, Germ Theory of Disease, Atomic Theory, etc). Sometimes not. But all tests produce data. And that's all the test is really for. Quote:
And no amount of asking people if they believe in God will prove that God exists. You're right about that. It just tells you that a lot of people believe (or won't admit atheism to a stranger with a clip board). Richard Dawkins thinks there's a potential scientific test to prove the existence of God. I disagree with him. I think God's existence is untestable. | |||
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Hey i hope we're not "bashing" mrs cogan for her differing views than ours. That ain't cool. I'm sure you've all experienced what it's like for someone to do that to you. Everything is a choice and you have to respect the individuals choices.
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Always. I'm human. If I feel attacked I can be pretty snarky, but generally speaking I will attack ideas strenuously and not attack the person at all. There's no sin in having a bad idea. Anybody can have them. I've had bad ideas by the bushel. One of my missions in life is to teach people about science. I'm pretty passionate about it. And I'm well aware I can be overbearing. It's something I work on. I came to this site to learn how to get up earlier, get my writing on track and to learn how to make money with the work I love. I have already benefited from Steve's ideas. Imagine my delight when I found that there was also a rich opportunity to teach people about science! (Creationists are all breathing a collective sigh of relief Obviously, I think the universe is beautiful and doesn't need to be sprinkled with pixie dust. I want to help other people to see that beauty and let all the pixie dust go into the bushel with all the other bad ideas you embrace, learn from and discard as you grow. | |
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I get what you're saying, Mrs.Cogan, and I'm sorry I made you feel unwelcome or attacked. I will watch myself for signs of that showing up again. Please feel free to continue sharing what's coming up for you, and I will do my best not to take away any feeling of safety in doing so. I am a little sensitive to having my "you have to" button pushed, as you have seen. |
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If conscious creation is in effect - everyone is doing it naturally fro being in the world and continueing to exist. The conscious part is a matter of your own desire to pay attention, not based on some certain kind of intelligence. | |
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Sympathetic resonance is when a string, like a guitar string, will vibrate it the same pitch is in the air. The yin/yang is a mutually arising duality model - not what vibrations attracts other vibrations. Duality becomes a whole when looking at LoA as a spiritual path. | |
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| Like vibrations come together. Ocean waves are built on constructive reinforcement. The opposties that attract in physics are part of a duality that is objective and are "parts of a whole" that we have thought to seperate in our minds. |
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I would agree that paying attention is a skill, a skill that can be developed by anyone who chooses to do so. I would also like to add, many books describe being able to think a certain way, again which is available to all, who choose to do so... From what I can make of it, this certain way of thinking is to think in images, not in words... My 2 cents...
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"Thoughts create reality" is definitly out to lunch as a literal interpretation. I don't think any of the hardest LoA "believers" say that directly out of context. The context is really that reality presents itself to your individual self and becomes more to your individual liking when your spiritual self comes through you, when your will is also a divine will. The thoughts are like indicators of how much spirit you are letting in. Thoughts that we keep that interferes with spirit bog us down and we get to see "stuff not working" because our habitual mind is in high gear. Thoughts or no thoughts that are coming from spirit and oneness are naturally resonate with manifestation. I tend to put LoA in that vien, where I have felt or sensed oneness and everything was exactly as it is, perfectly unfolding as divine light was seeing through me the direct experience of "LoA" was very tangiable. However, I'm not sitting around trying to make the universe give me "things". LoA is not here to teach us how to reverse gravity but to be able to find peace and harmony which, then helps you in your particular circum stance of life. After all the LoA material says to tag your desires with - "and for the highest good of all". | |
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In that context, maybe even MrsCogan would agree with me -- maybe. | |
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Going back to MI theory, we know that most tasks in life need not necessarily be tackled with any one specific intelligence; and in fact most tasks can be tackled with a variety of intelligences. For example, to play a musical instrument, the most obvious intelligence required would be musical intelligence; but one lacking in musical intelligence may compensate with, say, logical intelligence, eg in figuring out how to read musical notation; or bodily-kinesthetic intelligence, which would involve fine motor skills, eg in plucking the strings of the musical instrument. Meanwhile, we also predict that the musicians with a great sense of showmanship are likely to be those with high interpersonal intelligence, as they have a better natural sense of how to relate to the audience. Nevertheless, as I said, the most obviously fundamental intelligence for a musician is still going to be musical intelligence. Now - for tasks like: 1. identifying what you really want in life 2. becoming aware of your own emotions 3. identifying your own beliefs 4. setting your own goals, etc MI theory tells you that the most fundamental intelligence is simply intrapersonal intelligence. If you consider (1) - (4) to be important for conscious creation with LOA, then it follows that people with high intrapersonal intelligence have a natural advantage with conscious creation with LOA. It does not mean that people with relatively lower intrapersonal intelligence are not also creating their reality through their own thinking. What it means is that they have less ability to consciously create. In a way, it is nice to think that we all have equal ability in everything. However, I definitely cannot compose like Mozart and I am sure my ability to consciously create is lesser than that of Jesus. | |
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