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I think I understand better today, almost like I set myself the question last night and have slept on it - why, if one believes in SR (as I've been reading about it from Steve Pavlina's blog), would one do experiments? I'd like to clarify what the question means, and actually I could use Steve's writing as an example (although I won't bother quoting him exactly). The basic philosophy of SR (subjective reality), he says, it that reality is very different from how the materialist view goes. Reality is, in "fact", consciousness: nothing more. Your body, including your brain, and also your personal mind, are constructs, ideas, created by consciousness. Other people, too, and the environment - the whole world - is actually inside your consciousness, as it were, rather than outside it. Fine. That's a philosophy. It has a certain degree of internal logic to it. However, soon Steve introduces new conditions in this cosmology: you manifest things in the physical plane by what you think. Pardon? So there is something called the "physical plane" then, not just consciousness, which a moment ago was the sum total of the universe - one divine cosmic consciousness. Presumably, then, the physical plane is an illusion created by consciousness, or the original proposition (that consicousness is all there is) was incorrect, a simplification, and in fact there is also this other place we live - the physical plane. Death, Steve also promised, was merely a construct, an illusion of consciousness, BTW. So that's my difficulty, my confusion, my question, which is a genuine one ALG, and I'm sorry if you find it "boring" (I think the word you're looking for is more like "irritating", however). Is all this SR stuff (which I see as very much the basis of IM and LoA) saying that reality is just one cosmic consciousness, and absolutely anything is possible if I overcome my habitual thinking patterns (karmic), and we spend time experimenting to see what we can change though an act of will simply because of that same karmic illusion - in fact we could do anything at all? Is that what your experiments are, exercising the will-muscles, kind of thing, to confront and destroy those self-imposed mental limitations? And if so, why bother discussing whether ALG is a master manifester, since ALG doesn't actually exist, he's just a figment of the Cosmic Consciousness's delusions? Or are there actually different people, different beings, souls and all that? If so, why does the SR theory say that all there is is cosmic consciousness and all the people in my life, everything even in my past and future, the whole of the content of consciousness, is an illusion? Do you believe that people aren't really real? Do you believe in SR/IM/LoA so much that you're prepared to say it's perfectly safe for a person to jump off a cliff? You see, I've never dismissed the idea that our thoughts influence reality, I just think that it might possibly be a big mistake to take it to extremes and believe that the whole of reality is sitting inside consciousness, and I rather wonder if all the experimentation isn't so much the development of IM skills towards an infinite will power, but an attempt to discover the limits of the Law. Those of the first persuasion will say they can't manifest a coin or a feather or do some other miracle for me on demand because "they're not good enough at it yet". The second kind, like me, would say that there are things I can influence with my will and things that I can't. I'm not sure exactly what you mean, moonrambler, by "personal development on steroids", but it sounds like you're asking a similar question there. It is a natural human tendency (in the "normal" philosophy of separate human beings with distinct brains and thoughts) for us to extrapolate things to untenable conclusions. New science is often cited as a reason why we should all be able to be in several places at once, levitate at will or have any amount of money we want, and I used to make that suggestion without much real understanding myself, but my conversations with real particle physicists have brought me back down to earth, put my ego in check again, and reminded me that reality might be a lot more complicated than I like to think. It's that liking to think that is the problem. I agree completely with wolfgang that people could be doing a lot more with their minds in terms of healing their bodies. I would go further and say that positive thinking does make a difference to outcomes in the physical world that seem disconnected with our thoughts - the LoA, in effect - I just see the limits of the LoA being closer to home, I see it as probably being located in an individual human mind, and I see it as probably working (if and when it does) through complex, non-mystical processes. These may be many and varied. One example would be communication between people on an unconscious level through body-language, pheromones, etc., which can account for experiences sometimes interpreted as telepathic. A great deal of success in the lifestyle experiments reported here (of the "I made millions!" kind) can be thought of in terms of this theory, which I might call the "Weak Law of Attraction". If you set your mind to doing something, you unconsciously and consciously instigate all manner of events that you would not by thinking it unlikely, and those events set off other events. By thinking positively, feeling confident, etc., you make those around you notice you more and respond to you more willingly and obligingly. Those inclined to believe in magic will interpret the results in mystical terms, but there are sound, scientific, material reasons why most of these effects take place. The good news is that you don't have to stop doing your positive thinking and meditations. You don't have to stop practising the Law of Attraction. You don't have to stop deciding to get rich and being more likely to get rich. It's just that you retain a degree of critical intelligence that recognises you can't - AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO - fly, levitate, drink hemlock or walk through walls...and you remain immune to the influence of those who, either innocently or to deliberately take advantage of you, might persuade you of impossible things. These effects - the subtle manipulations of body-language, verbal and sub-verbal cues, subliminal messages of all kinds - are the stock in trade of the confidence trickster and the innocent but deluded cold reader of "messages from beyond" or "fortunes", and they work in tandem with the suspension of disbelief, the susceptibility, the hypnotic programmability, of the other. I therefore have no doubt that intending to increase your IQ, ALG, is likely to do so, and intending to get published is what causes people to get published. We seem only to be arguing about the mechanisms involved. Doubts, rejections of theories, trying new ideas on for size, discussing things, arguing - these are things I enjoy doing at forums. I have never told you you must believe what I believe. I'm just arguing with you. You can withdraw from that argument at any time. It seems my discussion of superstition has offended you, since you pretend that I am calling you a superstitious villager. I am just as susceptible to superstition as anyone else, and I don't mean to insult your intelligence at all. Often, I believe, it is those of the highest intelligence who get caught up in extravagant theories and fail to see their limits (the whole history of science and philosophy is full of them). |
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Rational judgement would also speculate how much the scientists of today have been influenced by humanity's deep and ubiquitous spiritual philosophies through time - are they unfairly biasing their theories towards ones that involve magical ideas - especially when you understand how new theories grow on top of older ones. Many scientists are actually of a mystical or religious bent themselves, although many aren't. Einstein and Newton come to mind immediately. Mostly, however, we find that those who have a good understanding of particle physics do not extrapolate their findings to encompass all being. They also believe in evolution. They also believe in the force of gravity that holds their desk in place. They don't imagine that they can reinvent the whole of engineering to reflect the fact that particles can appear and disappear. They don't spend their time trying to build matter-transporters. Some of them promise "replicators" in the home quite soon ("Earl Grey, hot"), but none of the technology suspends any rational law of science: it's just nanotechnology, assuming they get there. Time travel, it has been said, is perfectly possible in theory. The only problem is that the theory requires more energy than is supposed to exist in the universe, and the existence of a certain type of particle that has not yet been discovered. See how great the weird science is? Quote:
So, no, doubt isn't really fear. Fear keeps you believing what you believe as much as it stops you imagining different scenarios. If someone tells you to stop doubting and just believe, they could be hoping to raise your consciousness, but very often they're trying to stop you noticing something. Often, in this LoA game, it's done because it makes them feel better the more people agree with their theory...it increases their hit count and their income for instance. Doubt isn't a problem, but fear is. Those who use that whip are in fact trying to make you fear to doubt. They are trying to stop you considering alternatives to whatever it is they're proposing. All the religions do it. SR is a religion, in case you hadn't noticed. Quote:
Sorry, I just think there is a really important psychological state that is dreadfully undervalued. It's called not knowing. Suspension of belief. ALG pities me for it, but I'm in good company along with Socrates. It is difficult sometimes. It takes patience to get used to it. Everywhere we look we're being told what the facts are, and we're programmed to try to work it out, to know one way or the other. We can't fail to exercise faith, of course. Every time I take a step I have faith the world is going to be there to step on. But it is blind. That is one of the true gifts of ancient mystical teachings. Fixed views was one of the categories of things that keep us trapped, according to Gautama Buddha (which is deeply ironic if you know how much Buddhists have argued about their dogma ever since!). |
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Here's an example of the sort of thing that happens to me ALL the TIME. These events make me think there may be a law of attraction, but conjuring this sort of thing on purpose doesn't work real well for me. I spend a lot of time driving, thinking and daydreaming much of the time. This morning's theme was the first summer I went to college in a town about 70 miles from here (I started college in summer rather than in fall), which I was thinking about partly because it got flooded this week. My thoughts went something like: "I was real happy that summer, if I made a list of my top 10 happiest times in my life, that summer would be in there, it was so cool to get away and be on my own in a new place, and it was a small campus community in summer, kind of like a Utopia, and wouldn't it be cool if there were a place like that I could move to, and I met Bob [still one of my closest friends] that summer, and every Wednesday we used to watch Starsky & Hutch [because I had a big giant crush on Starsky], and Tami used to write me all the time, and that last year in high school we used to have friendly arguments about who was hotter, Starsky or Hutch, and man, I should really get in touch with Tami again, it's been way too long, and I remember this picture my Dad took of me that summer [I just ran across this picture recently] when he'd gotten that new Polaroid and was taking pictures of everybody and everything, and I was holding up a picture of Starsky & Hutch and I can tell by the look on my face I was seriously tired of that camera, heh, and boy was I skinny back then, and I went out with Randy, who was my first college boyfriend, if you want to call him a boyfriend, because we only went out for three weeks, and he had that awesome Z28 Camaro which over the next few years got totally rusted out for some reason, which must've really made him irritated." Then I stopped at a rummage sale, got back in the car, looked in the side view mirror, and damn if I didn't see a _____________ . I was so surprised I went out loud, "ACK!" There really are only two things I could've seen that would wrap this up perfectly, and it is the more unlikely of the two. |
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There's a fun little example of the Law of Attraction in action today in an L.A. Times interview with the fabulous Herbie Hancock. He is the first jazz artist in 43 years to win for Best Album, and it's probably the lowest-selling winner in that category in history. I like that he is focusing on the "way of being" approach (encouragement) to attracting what he wants: Quote:
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The problem comes in when people take these metaphors literally, either to be absolute truth or as a replacement for science. When Jesus talks about the farmer throwing seeds on various types of ground, he is not giving a lesson in agriculture. Quote:
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As I said before, this is about looking at beliefs, many of which we've been conditioned to accept, and choosing what we want to perceive in reality. It does not require the suspension of reason. |
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newsflash--I have no intention of drinking poison (just to see) or jump off a building to see if I'm superman. There should be a poll here of how many forum members have done some death-defying trick. When I'm in the moment and the "zone" I feel so good that all I want to do is laugh and be happy and spend time doing the things I love. What we talk about here is getting in tune with your "highest self" the wise, eternal part of you that takes joy in life. That's the part of you that wants to manifest abundance and be happy. When you're feeling happy, at peace, then you're in touch with that part. And that part of me has never asked me to jump off a building. Last edited by cylon; 06-17-2008 at 03:11 PM. |
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They started the video and the location shown was the St. Louis Arch in Missouri. Joe's voiceover begins, "Gold light." Whoa! Now I was totally blown away. I learned a lesson not to discount any of my impressions, not to think they are insignificant. After the week was over, I was driving back to Wisconsin from Virginia. At some point on the second day, I stopped at a convenience store in Indiana for a break, and walked around looking at stuff, just to get out of the car for awhile. I started looking at postcards. In the midst of all these postcards of Indiana scenes, was one single postcard of the St. Louis Arch. This freaked me out so much that I left! That postcard definitely did not belong in this convenience store in Indiana. There was a rummage sale down the road so I drove down there just for the heck of it. I decided to buy a couple blue tin plates which had pretty winter scenes painted on them. When I got home, I hung them in the kitchen hallway. Four years later, a close friend of mine died suddenly of a massive heart attack. This is a guy who had once expressed a desire to get to go on a spaceship adventure like in Close Encounters of the Third Kind, so I like to think he was offered this chance and left. A couple days later, at around 4 a.m., one of those tin plates fell off the wall and hit the floor BAM! I was really disturbed by this and couldn't get back to sleep. I was wondering if it was my friend doing a little poltergeist activity (which would be just like him) and wondered why he would choose that plate to knock off the wall. It took me the better part of the day before I remembered when and where I had bought that plate. There are connections here that give me questions about reality. |
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Hi wolfgang. I agree with some of what you say here, especially about the problem of trying to conclude things. Quote:
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Part of me is not really interested in controlling reality - except to generate more peace or harmony. Although it is fascinating to imagine maybe our beliefs of reality are not quiet right yet and there are some fun things we can do that would break the rules as we see them. Almost like wanting to be entertained by reality by changing beliefs and seeing things from a perspective that encompass or brings back feeling awed and being innocent in a way. I do try to generate peace and harmony as much as I can with what I believe. And a lot of that is dropping drama of learned behavior - the mechanisms of self identity preservation or perceived threats and the responses that turn into habits. That activity may not be necessary - to defend my "self" - and without habitual mind stuff, hopefully the heart can be better at running my life - actually the heart would probably be following life, not running it. Or be better at being natural and flexible and conscious instead of reactive and habitual. Maybe all that is really psychological maneuverings as opposed to trying to believe IM. But one of the steps is to "know thy self" and forgiveness and acceptance, etc... sort of like there's no way to play with these ideas while having tons of personal baggage. Which is a good thing to work on anyway, ditching the habitual reactive self (well it's not ditching it but being at choice - which is to be aware and responsibly conscious) |
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The second bit seems unrelated, but you seem to be pointing hesitantly towards the 'observer effect'. I don't pretend to understand nuclear physics, but when that phrase applies to a particular bit of 'weird science' it describes the properties of sub-atomic particles. It does certainly bring into question some of the fundamental axioms of realism, but we should be careful what conclusions we jump to about what is possible, and not immediately replace it with subjectivism. To do so would be a bit like Einstein realising that Newton was a bit wrong on certain things and deciding that the universe was sneezed out the nose of a fruit bat. If we think like that, what's the point of asking what weird science is telling us? Just believe whatever the hell you want. That's what SR says, and good luck. Quote:
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It seems to me that we choose our beliefs and then reality ripples out from there. If you believe that LOA and all that stuff is a load of nonsense, then of course you'll find no evidence for it, just as atheists will find no evidence for God. But if you choose to believe in God, you'll find God everywhere. Whether God (or the LOA) is real is another question. Is anything real?
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It comes down to what we think should constitute evidence. Because if you understand the ways that the mind gets tricked into believing things that aren't true, you know that we need to collect data fairly, according to mathematically or philosophically defensible principles. That means collecting data against a hypothesis as well as for it, to compare them, or taking control situations into account. If, for instance, I decide that I can predict the future, and I'm a bit wooly in my thinking, and I experiment by taking something random like "mouse", and I sit and concentrate on images of mice for an hour, chanting "mouse, mouse, mouse", and then I'm sitting later watching TV and suddenly a trailer for a wildlife documentary includes a mouse, I will consider this good evidence and think I'm making progress. This is the kind of 'evidence' people 'find' all the time, but if you learn about the principles involved in this kind of thing, you discover that there are natural psychological pressures to believe these are significant events when they are pure coincidence. I dare to say "are" rather than "might be" coincidence because of the weight of scientifically tested, repeatable evidence for such self-delusive functions of the mind. Indeed, the sad thing is that LoA and IM theories notice the effects, but misinterpret their meaning. Not only do they include all sorts of false positive 'evidence' (indeed, if it was a field vole in the trailer, or an advert for a computer mouse, the wooly thinker might include it), they ignore evidence against. When challenged to make something change out there in subjective reality, and they can't manage it, they find excuses - they're not masterful enough yet, their preconceptions are too strong, they're having an off day, anything to allow them to continue to believe they're psychic. The history of psychic research is absolutely full of such people, sincere believers who are sure they can prove their abilities, who go away angry because the scientists, with their more level-headed approach, find that their predictions or readings are correct no more often than one would expect by chance. There's a difference between saying "I tend to see what I want to see" and "My beliefs change reality". |
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With the example you give about the mice, what's missing is something that is really very weird, weird enough that other people are a bit freaked by it and don't just pass it off as coincidence. Now first, I would never do this with mice, because I would wind up with a house full of mice I have no explanation why these things seem so random. I could be a complete skeptic and say it's because coincidences are bound to happen, and because of my intense curiosity about this subject, I might notice them more. Or, I could be more agnostic like I actually am, and get freaked when the coincidences seem really very weird, but still want to know why these events seem so random and uncontrollable. I told a story on the forum at some point about handing my girlfriend a birthday present while we were at her parents' house, and they had some wildlife show on the tv, and I had wrapped her gift in paper with hippos and other exotic animals on it, and at the exact moment she started to open it, a hippo appeared on the tv that looked exactly the same as the hippo on top of this present, and I mean exactly the same, it was so strange, I pointed at the tv and went "Look! Look!" and she looked and we were both kinda freaked out by that. Trying to calculate odds of random events like that is kind of impossible though. What are the odds her parents would have a wildlife show on, and one that would show hippos, and that I would use wildlife paper to wrap her present, and that she would open the present right at the moment a hippo would show up on tv, etc. Events like this can get more and more bizarre as you make the odds wider. Like, if her parents never watched tv, and none of us have any interest in wildlife, but they happened to have the tv on because there was a tornado warning. And they had on a soap opera, but there was an ad for the wildlife show. And the ad showed the hippo. And I never buy wrapping paper with wildlife on it, but happened to get some free in the mail. And then my friend got a card from her son with a hippo on front and it said "Hippo birthday to you!" And so on. Last edited by moonrambler; 06-22-2008 at 02:11 PM. |
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