Masturbation

[David21]

I never feel good after I've done it. I always get a low, sinking type feeling, along with a strong wish to be rid of these male hormones. I feel dirty and have a complete wish to be away from that type of thing forever. That feeling lasts for about ten minutes and then I'm back to feeling the same way I did a while ago.

I don't want to go on like this. I can't just stop because that's almost impossible but, at the same time, I don't want to have the feelings that lead me to do the thing that this forum is based on.

[Beuford]

Originally Posted by David21

I never feel good after I've done it. I always get a low, sinking type feeling, along with a strong wish to be rid of these male hormones. I feel dirty and have a complete wish to be away from that type of thing forever. That feeling lasts for about ten minutes and then I'm back to feeling the same way I did a while ago.

I don't want to go on like this. I can't just stop because that's almost impossible but, at the same time, I don't want to have the feelings that lead me to do the thing that this forum is based on.

At first I felt the same way but now I just accept that it's normal and do it for pleasure. Having pleasure is not a bad thing and you don't need to feel guilty about it. However, you might experience some sinking as energy levels can drop and you probably won't be extremely horny after finishing. That's quite normal too.

[David21]

You see, in spite of seeing it as a normal thing, I'm still hit by a downer when I'm done. I get thoughts about how 'I don't want to do that again', or 'I just wish I could overcome my male hormones' etc. I'm just hit by quite an unpleasant feeling after doing it, no matter how enjoyable the 'doing' might have been.

And you're right, I do feel the energy in my body drop, but I'm quite sure that the feelings I get are unrelated. I just feel so down after it.

[Cool Chick]

I am in my sexual prime, according to Kinsey et all, and after reading all this ...

methinks I need a cold shower. whew

thanks for the honest dialogue ... very enlightening this was

[BugMeNot23]

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[JamesKnochel]

Originally Posted by BugMeNot23

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There, fixed that for you (the mind has a hard time with negation). What are you going to do instead?

Whenever you feel the urge to masturbate, sedate the kidney meridian (see Energy Medicine by Donna Eden). That'll help, and it's good for premature ejaculation too.

-James

[Brutus977]

Western culture has gone the way of indulge and do whatever you want as long as you are not hurting anyone else. Most males of our society have become geldings through over indulgence and over stimulation. I think mankind has lost it's manhood through lack of discipline over itself. Through personal experience I have found that retention of sexual desire (not suppression) to be very beneficial. These energies can be redirected and channeled into physical regeneration and into the improvement of ones personal and social life. The ejaculate is pure creative energy and the basis of virility. As other posters have stated it takes enormous amounts of energy to replace what we dispose of. Also, just by practicing discipline in this area of your life you will find that you have power to discipline other areas of your life. Try this. The next time you go out to a social setting and make eye contact with a woman, make a note of who looks away first. If you do then you have work to do. It means that something inside you isn't comfortable and you're afraid and you're not dominant. If she looks away but then looks back you're in business. The sexual pecking order is almost completely hormonal. Men with lower test levels tend to exhibit submissive behaviors and hide in groups. Men with higher test levels are usually the "leader" of the groups and tend to get laid more often.
I tend bar at a big night club and I'm also a psych major. I observe this stuff almost everyday. Most women prefer happy, confident "dominant" men. If one can overcome his immediate desires and become the master of himself, then he can assuredly become the master of his world.