[Adult] Masturbation as a tool for growth

[Christian223]

Yeah you are right, i suposse the important thing then is self control and use it according to your own consciense and beliefs or objectives...

[Dive Bomb]

Originally Posted by Christian223

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I have read this in another site, keeping away from ejaculation, wich is just like satisfying hunger, makes us more human, because no animal has that capacity of increasing and utilizing sex in such an energizing way, instead animals just follow their instinct, they try to ejaculate very quickly, thus not really using the full power that sex offers, some people also, just like animals and because of ignorance, masturbate/have sex to reach ejaculation and orgams, wich is what our bodies asks us to do, but if we gain control of ourselves we can really use all this power and energy to our advantage, and its not a primal thing anymore, its a way of really get to know more about life, to enjoy your life more, to be more loving, to have more energy and to be have more peace, thats far from the normal "quick fix".

From my own experiences I find this all to be true. I've been experimenting with this concept for awhile and it does give you a significant energy boost in an overall sense. People will definantly tell you have something backed up in your system if you can do this successfully.

This is probably one of the more difficult energy boosts to do because of the desire to let it all go but if you can assign a level to each stage of your arousal from 1-10 you can stop yourself when you achieve a high enough state. Some can only go up to a seven before letting it all go however there have been some who can go all the way up to a 9.9 (10 being the point of no return)

Steve even wrote a blog entry about transmutating sex energy, so by doing all this you are pretty much putting the pedal to the metal with your transmutating but you don't want to overheat the engine.

[Bloggeries]

I'd say it's quite the opposite, most successfull people are highly "Sexed" people. Lots of sexual energy. What makes us special is the ability to TRANSMUTE that sexual energy away from it's primitve expression and into something productive such as a business, careeer whatever. When you do it in it's physical form your normally left more tired and less "sexed" then before so I'd have to disagree.

Think about how much POWER sexual energy has to put people into ACTION. It makes people do things they'd be ashamed of and it has ruined lives as well. It's such a powerful energy that if you can build a damn to revert that energy into another project you are truly on the road to enlightenment

[moonlite]

This state after masturbation in your description is very similar to what happens after a cup of coffee. An orgasm releases endorphins in a brain and that's the one of the reasons why people become addicted to sex or masturbation. The greater pleasure (due to longer built tension) the greater load of natural drugs.

Is this a way to personal growth? For me it's very doubtful because you spend so much time on it. And 30 minutes of excercise build more than one muscle but effect on your brain is alike.

[Christian223]

Moonlite, the effects have nothing to do with drinking coffee, belive me...

[moonlite]

Originally Posted by Christian223

Moonlite, the effects have nothing to do with drinking coffee, belive me...

According to my experience what you describe after these prolonged session of self love is very similar to what happens WITH ME after cup of coffee (especially good espresso with brown sugar) - that's probably the reason that I'm still addicted

[Gautam]

Originally Posted by moonlite

According to my expierience what you describe after these prolonged session of self love is very similar to what happens WITH ME after cup of coffee (especially good espresso with brown sugar) - that's probably the reason that I'm still addicted

Lol, I guess different people get off on different things!

[moonlite]

Originally Posted by Gautam

Lol, I guess different people get off on different things!

Sure, you know I'm extremely sensitive ;-)

[Erock]

Just wanted to add my insight and bring in some scientific knowledge. Basically moonlite and Christian are both right. The pleasure center that an orgasm activates is the same one that is activated after eating or drinking, but to a lesser degree.

The thing is though, guys do not masturbate for the pleasure. I would describe the reason guys masturbate as the need to please the "urge to release." No one exactly knows what is released, but every man knows that something besides sperm itself comes out, a certain energy. Harnessing this energy is what sexual transmutation is. No one really knows enough about this energy though, because highly sexed people seem to have harnessed in a way as well as celibates. It's tricky I guess, but understanding it could be key.

Erock

[Christian223]

Yes thats right Erock, i dont know if celibates do it this way ( i dont think so, but what do i know), but i think about it as one beign a big battery, and one re-energizes oneself with sexual pleasure, but allways avoiding orgasm, this has really worked for me, but as i said you have to stimulate yourself sexually staying away from orgasm at all cost, otherwise youll start feeling tired and youll dis-charge yourself.

[Pegasus]

A relevant thread, Porn and Relationships, was discussed in the Social & Relationships forum. Forum member tropicality gave this link ENERGY WORK: Helping males to understand & use their Sexual Energy.
offering a specific technique for men to recirculate the energy. I am female so cannot comment on its effectiveness.

[Christian223]

Thanks Pegasus, that site really helpfull.

I was wondering, what is the effect of this "technique" on females?, do they feel the same effect as males (that would be weird since i feel more manly)?, i dont see why a woman shouldnt try this because mainly its a matter of using "energies", im not sure though.

[Amadeus]

It's called an orgazm.

[mlc82]

Originally Posted by Shamou

If masturbation was an effective tool for growth, I would have been a genius millionaire at the age fourteen...

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LOL! If I just had a dollar for every time....

[The David]

Is masturbation good exercise? I mean, if you're really going at it, vigorously, I'm sure you'd get at least a little blood to the brain.

I think I've finally found an alternative to jogging!

[Christian223]

nnaaaah, you are not really paying attention!, pay attention!!! go to the link Pegasus gave us and youll understand, its not about orgasm, its not about pleasure from masturbation, its about energies and the great power they give. Now go, do it, and repport back on the results.

[hollowman]

Can someone please tell me what is 'pc muscle' ???

I reali admire Christian experience after masturbation! For me, i always feel guilty because of all the lust. Bible states that to lust is to sin. So i feel sinful. Is it possible that my overconcern about sin actually bar me from experiencing the fastastic sensation after masturbation??

By the way, is it possible to actually jerk off without lustful thoughts?

I was so happy to see this thread 'Masturbation as a tool for growth'. (thought this a great reason/excuse for me of the self gratification without feeling guilty.

[robertanthony]

Hi Chris

Have you read the November posting on Anal Breathing?

As far as I know if you combine the Law of Attraction with Anal Breathing you get a Smart Ass:-)

[Amadeus]

spank that monkey!

[AddictiveX]

I think every guy has 'practiced' masturbating since being about 13, I think it could be a powerful self satisfaction/calming method