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Old 09-02-2009, 10:30 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Cool to hear other succes stories, here's my own.

Since I started with pd I've had a few things on my list that needed improvement and I worked on each of those points but drinking was difficult for me to give up. Not because I canīt quit but because of my social life, everyone I know drinks and most of them a lot.

Since januari I quit smoking, caffeine and sodo. I became a vegetarian and started excercising. All of these things were easy to do. I quit smoking with the book of Allen Carr and he has a book about quiting with drinking too. I read the book and knew I wanted to quit but still didn't took the step. But what did change was that I was drinking more consiously and didn't get any satisfaction out of drinking anymore now I know the truth about drinking.

On august 14th was the last evening I drank, but it took me till august 26 to decide that I would quit forever. I've had a few parties, and other activities since then and could quit easy although I still get a lot of strange looks from my friends. I can talks about more interesting things with other people but once everybody get's drunk the fun is over with all those zombies.

I'm really glad I quit, I was drinking more and more over the years and don't want to know where I would have ended if I did not quit. I'm looking forward to making new friends and searching new activities that don't include drinking. I also look forward to the advantages that not drinking will bring me, no more hangovers and saving money starts right away but I'm interested in the longterm advantages.
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Hi bluedragon.

It sounds as though you are fortunate to not have addictive tendencies. Unfortunately there are many of us out there who struggle with alcohol and other addictive substances on a daily basis. For me, I could see my addiction becoming stronger and stronger. My health and self worth going backwards at a rate of knots. Not to mention the financial cost. (approx $1000 per month for both my wife and I at our peak)

For me though, I have no regrets with my decision. I fully understood that alcohol is a progressive disease and had I not have made my decision my life would've been cut dramatically short.

Since giving up, my health and life have improved immeasurably whether you decide to believe me or not. I have no gain by telling mistruths. My sole purpose in writing this post is to help others who are in a similar situation to realize there is hope for them. Thanks though for your perspective on the topic.

Brett.
Maybe I will also give up alcohol 2 or 3 months later. Or maybe I will stick to no more than 1 drink per day. Or maybe I will only drink in social situations and never at home. But I am still investigating.

For now, giving up movies for a while seems to help me much much more than giving up alcohol, cause alcohol doesn't seem to have any negative effect on me.
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