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Old 01-04-2007, 05:35 PM
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Hi everyone, this is my very first post on any forum ever so please don't eat me alive! Anyway, I was hoping that other vegans out there might have some ways of dealing with nonvegans and food. I've been vegan for three months now and getting though the holiday at work was difficult. I have told MANY people that I am vegan but they don't seem to get it. For a Christmas party I had to call the place ahead of time to find out if they could make me a vegan meal because the woman who was setting up the party chuckled at me when I asked about the menu and told her I was vegan. For a Christmas lunch I caught hold of a (thankfully) vegatarian waitress who quickly got me a huge salad and a sweet potato. Now, we have to work this weekend and they always provide us food. So I went to our directors office and told her that I was Vegan (she should have caught on at the 2 parties we were at together but I'll let it slide) and could she order a pizza with just veggies on it because I do not eat cheese. I won't tell you the entire conversation (becuase I might bore you) but she ended up throwing her pen dramatically across her desk while saying in a very nasty tone, Send me an email of exactly what you want and that's what I'll get. I just told her what I wanted, what is the big deal. Why do non-vegans freak out about food requests. If I had asked to make sure there was pepperoni pizza there would she have made a big deal about it? I don't think so. It's really starting to get to me. Do I just work with a bunch of inconsiderate people or has anyone else experienced this? I really thought that choosing this life style would be a good thing and physically for me I think it has but other people are really rude about it.
I also must mention that I got 4 boxes of chocolate from people at work that know I'm vegan. What is that about???
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My biggest advice would be not to rely on other people. If you are going to a party with a majority of non-vegans, take something with you. My gf and I just did that with some sweet potato chili, and some vegan chai latte muffins. They were a huge hit. At places, dont ask for special treatment, try to find it yourself..dont make it a big deal in anyway. As for the pizza, make it not sound like a big deal..tell them a veggie lovers type pizza with no cheese. No cheese isnt going to be a weird request for pizza places, trust me.

As for the gifts, people not in your paradigm wont see that, so just thank them for the gifts and give them to chocolate loving friends.

Oh, and honestly, from my short perception it sounds like you are sort of forcing your veganism on other people, or making it known that you are different. Like "I AM A VEGAN, DUMBASS!!" kind of mentality.

If not, I apologize.
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Thanks for the advice Lucas. I really don't have the mentality of "I'm a Vegan you Dumbass!" At least I'd like to think I don't but you obviously perceived me that way so maybe that is what I'm doing. I don't want to be that way. I purposefully went to each of these people when no one else was around because I didn't want to make a big deal about it. I guess I'm just being crabby about because the situation just happened and I'm feeling like such an outcast. Maybe you're right, I'm the one outcasting myself. Hmmmm.
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Hi Melissa,

Your situation is very common among new vegans. We probably have an article at my magazine, VegFamily, that covers it. Browse around and see.

But in general, you cannot expect anyone to make special arrangements for you. You can hope. You can even request. But never expect. Always have a back up for yourself because even if someone does order something special for you, in my experience, about half the time it comes out wrong. Like they sprinkle cheese on an otherwise perfect salad.

At work, always bring your own food, even if the company is providing for you. At events, I like to contact the catering manager directly and ask for a vegan meal. I make a simple request like a fruit plate or grilled veggies in just oil. But I will often eat a medium sized meal before going to an event just in case they have nothing for me when I get there. I also usually smuggle a few energy bars in my purse for extreme hunger emergencies. Sometimes I'll just slip into the bathroom to eat one, or I'll just whip it out at the table.

In time, your coworkers will get used to your lifestyle choice, but it does take time. People will make snide comments. People will make encouraging and curious comments. You'll get it all.

One thing I used to do when I worked in a corporate environment was go up to the person in charge of ordering for the event and say, "Hi Mary, as you know I'm vegan. I was wondering if you were planning to order anything for this event that I'll be able to eat. If not, I'll just plan to bring my own food or eat before I come. I just wanted to find out the situation in advance."

Now notice I didn't ask her to order me anything but made her aware of my situation and left it up to her. Nine times out of ten she would be delighted and pleased to help me out, going out of her way to find out what I could eat. I find that when you don't expect people are often willing to help.

Anyway, give it a try.

One time they ordered a cheeseless veggie pizza along with 3 other pizzas dripping with cheese and meat. When people came into the conference room everyone dove into the cheeseless veggie pizza! Leaving none for me! Even though they all requested the pepperoni. After that, I always made sure I got to the conference room first to grab a couple slices of the cheeseless veggie pizza. Finally someone got the clue and started ordering 3 cheeseless veggies and only one pepperoni. Weird huh?

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I personally haven't been able to stick to a strict vegan lifestyle.

But when I was trying it out, I found it helped not to explain why you do or don't eat something. It's easier just to say, "No thanks" when someone offers you a nonvegan food item, and to simply say, "It sounded tasty" when somebody asks you why you got the veggie sandwich at the cafeteria instead of your usual turkey sandwich.

Of course, when you have coworkers who really like to treat you to cookies and stuff, because they KNOW you love cookies, and you suddenly start turning them down -- they WILL question you and try to change your mind and get you to eat their cookies again! In the cases where you say "No thanks" but they still force food onto you... I'd sneak it into the garbage or pass it on to someone else as soon as they leave. Just because someone gives you food doesn't mean you have to eat it.

I guess one important thing to remember is that food is very social, and by rejecting someone's food, some people feel rejected themselves. You'd think food would be a completely neutral topic, but as you continue your vegan lifestyle, you'll find out that it's extremely tied in with people's emotions, self-worth, and views of the world.

Good luck!

And no, I didn't get the "I'm a vegan, dumbass" feel from your post, so don't worry about it. I think the problem is more that you don't expect it to be a big deal, but the people in the world who think that chicken is a vegetable (or "bruchetta doesn't count" -- yes, they exist) will have no friggin' clue what you're talking about. I can't tell you the number of times a well-meaning cook I know has gone to length to create me a "vegan" dish, just for me to find out that it's slathered in butter or something.
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If they are your close friends and co workers, you gotta tell them you're vegan if they keep giving you foods that aren't. If you accept them and throw them away, eventually the friend will find out you're vegan and say, "Hey, but what did you do with the fudge I gave you?" If you tell them you threw it out that's even worse than a polite thank you with an explanation.

I just say, "Oh those cookies look great, but I can't eat them since I'm vegan. Would you mind if I passed them along to someone else?" or ask if they would like to give them to someone else.

If people feel rejected and you did not intend to reject them, that's their issue to work out.

On the other hand, you want to be careful not to offend people outright by saying something like, "God, I can't believe you would disrespect my lifestyle choice by offering me fudge. Are you trying to say you don't respect me?"
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Hi everyone, this is my very first post on any forum ever so please don't eat me alive!
Funny thing, if I was a vegan, eating you alive would be wrong from many moral standpoints. I know what you are saying, the fact that you feel like people get all pissed off when you eat vegan because they think you're crazy for eating that way, that it is unacceptable to do something that other people dont. I've tried going vegan, but to no avail yet, although I'm making many leaps as I'm at vegetarianism. I know dairy products are awful. I hardly eat them, but if someone in my family cooks a great meal that just happens to contain cheese, how can I turn it down? It would be an insult to whoever cooked it. It can be very isolatory unless you have people around you that are also vegan/vegetarian. Do what feels right.
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If they are your close friends and co workers, you gotta tell them you're vegan if they keep giving you foods that aren't. If you accept them and throw them away, eventually the friend will find out you're vegan and say, "Hey, but what did you do with the fudge I gave you?" If you tell them you threw it out that's even worse than a polite thank you with an explanation.
I guess the problem was that I told my coworkers no thank you, then they kept trying to give it to me, then I told them I wasn't eating it because I was vegan, and they still kept forcing it on me. (People like to feed me for some reason.) There was no arguing with these people. To them, Elaine = Somebody Who Likes Cookies (and fudge? oh god, yum!!!), so they tried to force me back into that personae, even though I was trying to change my personae to Elaine = Somebody Who Doesn't Eat Animal Products. It was like, heaven forbid that Elaine no longer = Somebody Who Likes Cookies. Why it never occurred to them that I LOVE vegan cookies, I have no idea.

Thanks for the clarification, though -- friends do deserve an explanation. My problem is that they never listened to or respected my explanation. Which is where the trusty old trash bin came in handy!
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Thanks so much for the advice. It's so great to hear some advice from people who get it!
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I'm still periodically getting comments like "Yeah, we already knew you were weird" or "You can't eat anything anymore". People aren't being mean in general, and I just take the comments as "You're being different from everyone", which is not exactly the worst thing in the world to be.

Part of the problem is that the word "vegan" can mean nothing to someone who hasn't ever heard it before. Vegan sounds like vegetarian, and all most people know about vegetarians is that they don't eat meat. Of course dairy and eggs would seem to be fine! Who doesn't love chocolate, cheese, and omelets?

Also, since vegan-friendly food is generally harder to find, it will seem to many people that you are deprived. I noticed that my usual interaction with other people is to say "Oh, I can't eat that", and so of course they are going to look at me as the deprived, starving, weirdo vegan. B-) I eat a LOT when I am at home and can prepare my own food, but going out to eat with friends isn't as easy as when I could just point my finger at any item and order it.

So, I guess you're not alone. It is hard being different. When the company provides food, there is NEVER anything without cheese or meat in it, so I just don't eat at the events or I bring my own food. I guess I feel lucky because the only people who don't seem to understand are my parents and cousins, and I generally only eat with them once a week. B-)
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It can take people a while to update their files on you. Family can be the slowest to get the change.

For at least 2 years after I'd gone vegan my mom still offered me tuna. Ugh. I would just stay silent until she remembered.
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My biggest advice would be not to rely on other people. If you are going to a party with a majority of non-vegans, take something with you. My gf and I just did that with some sweet potato chili, and some vegan chai latte muffins. They were a huge hit. At places, dont ask for special treatment, try to find it yourself..dont make it a big deal in anyway. As for the pizza, make it not sound like a big deal..tell them a veggie lovers type pizza with no cheese. No cheese isnt going to be a weird request for pizza places, trust me.

As for the gifts, people not in your paradigm wont see that, so just thank them for the gifts and give them to chocolate loving friends.

Oh, and honestly, from my short perception it sounds like you are sort of forcing your veganism on other people, or making it known that you are different. Like "I AM A VEGAN, DUMBASS!!" kind of mentality.

If not, I apologize.
Great Advice...many people react negatively to people choosing a healthy lifestyle because it seems to others that this person thinks that he or she is "better"

You may not feel this way but downplaying your requests might do the trick. You decided to be vegan so make sure that you are prepared in every situation.

Good Luck!
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I'm still periodically getting comments like "Yeah, we already knew you were weird" or "You can't eat anything anymore". People aren't being mean in general, and I just take the comments as "You're being different from everyone", which is not exactly the worst thing in the world to be.

Part of the problem is that the word "vegan" can mean nothing to someone who hasn't ever heard it before. Vegan sounds like vegetarian, and all most people know about vegetarians is that they don't eat meat. Of course dairy and eggs would seem to be fine! Who doesn't love chocolate, cheese, and omelets?

Also, since vegan-friendly food is generally harder to find, it will seem to many people that you are deprived. I noticed that my usual interaction with other people is to say "Oh, I can't eat that", and so of course they are going to look at me as the deprived, starving, weirdo vegan. B-) I eat a LOT when I am at home and can prepare my own food, but going out to eat with friends isn't as easy as when I could just point my finger at any item and order it.

So, I guess you're not alone. It is hard being different. When the company provides food, there is NEVER anything without cheese or meat in it, so I just don't eat at the events or I bring my own food. I guess I feel lucky because the only people who don't seem to understand are my parents and cousins, and I generally only eat with them once a week. B-)
Heh, I can definitely relate (not just to GBeradi, but to all vegans in general). And on a random note, damn, what is it with cheese, milk solids and, well, dairy products in general? They’re in practically everything these days! Soon you’ll look on the back of a clothing label and you’ll see the words “Made from 95% cotton and 5% milk solids. May contain traces of nuts, seeds, and eggs. Warm machine was only.” Oh and I found it particularly amusing when I noticed that the “vegan” cheese I was looking at a while ago contained casein.

Anyway, I personally found it really easy to drop meat and other animal products (I just... stopped eating them -- no cravings, withdrawals, or ritualistic sacrificial behaviour ), and actually started to like the concept of eating those things much less after I transitioned to a vegan/mostly whole food diet (from my experience, meat/dairy/eggs become quite repulsive once strip yourself free of the social conditioning of the “normal” diet and experience what it’s like to go without them for once in your life. I could probably eat meat again if I had to for some reason, but I’ll pass on the dairy and eggs, thanks). The two things I've found (and am still finding) most difficult dealing with though is the complete lack of support I get from local shopping venues in terms of availability of vegan-friendly products, and, much like you, VeganMelissa, people who really have issues dealing with the diet choices of someone else.

As for “public exposure”, I generally don't call attention to my diet choice unless it's necessary/unavoidable, but even so, once someone gets word of it, I find they like to call you out on it every chance they get (<insert condescending tone> “Oh, that’s right you’re vegan, you can’t eat that”, etc.). It's generally highly unnecessary and proves that some people have some real acceptance issues, but eh, I’ll take my healthy, disease/sickness/ailment-free body and let others take shots at me in between complaining about their various bodily issues. (I mean yeah, I too could call out many people for the absolute rubbish they willingly choose to shovel down their throats, but if they won’t listen to the cries of help from their body, I’ll have little chance of getting through to them. Apparently it’s only time to pay attention once you’ve had a heart attack or something equally as damaging).

To anyone who finds themselves being bombarded with ridicule from an inconsiderate meat-eater who's just looking to look big and tough though in front of their ego, I’d bring their dietary choices into their awareness and ask them if they’d be willing to slaughter the animals they consume. If they are amenable to that, add their favourite pet into the equation and see how they fare. It may sound a little harsh, but your goal is not to insult them, rather, you're looking to bring their behaviour and consequences of their diet (consequences they are often unconscious of until they actually think about it a bit and say "damn... didn't think of it like that") into their awareness and invoke some compassion, or at least, some intelligence and awareness.

From my experience, one of the biggest issues most people get caught up with when it comes to veganism is the fact that you give your diet a name/label (although you could easily give the standard, chronically unhealthy diet most people eat a name such as “you’re going to die if you keep eating like that” or “mmmm, processed chemicals... my favorite!”). I don’t really need a label to remind me of what I do/do not eat, but I do find it easier to call myself a vegan over “someone who doesn’t eat meat, cheese, eggs, or drink milk” when I need to describe my eating habits to other people. And I too find it rather amusing when I get looked at (or ridiculed) as the “deprived, starving, weirdo vegan”.

You try to tell people you’re not missing out on much (most semi-healthy people aren’t even aware that a lot of what they eat can actually be considered to be “vegan”, and most other food is probably about as healthy as licking a street pole), but sadly, virtually everyone (bar maybe 2 people) who are aware of my diet choices are usually too busy focusing on diet comparison/ridicule to even take an interest exploring the notion of a vegan diet or taking the opportunity to discuss the matter with reasonable intelligence with a hope of learning something. Even before I was vegan, I was always open to learning from others and making improvements to/experimenting with my diet (one of the many reasons why I’m experimenting with a veganism in the first place).

Overall, I think you can only do your best and take pride in the fact that you’ve made a conscious, informed decision in an attempt to improve your health and the well being of the few animals who no longer has to be subject to excessive cruelty just to sustain your existence (although I do feel for the plants that must be harvested to sustain me, but they don’t seem to mind too much).
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Good for you for going vegan! It can be frustrating sometimes dealing with an uncomprehending world.

My take on your co-workers' behavior is that they weren't necessarily being rude or inconsiderate; they may not have realized how important your dietary choices are to you or understood what vegan really means.

I've been vegan for nearly 17 years and I handle most events such as these by making do with whatever vegan food is available, asking questions about ingredients when necessary. When ordering off a menu in such a situation, I'll ask the server for more details about ingredients and whether certain variations are possible, keeping in mind that it's always a gamble whether their information is accurate.

It's true that this approach may not always yield the most exciting meal, but I realize that I'm in a minority by my own choice, and don't wish to give whomever's organizing the event one more thing to worry about. I recall one wedding during which I ate nothing but white rice, and another at which my meal consisted of two small dinner salads -- I was grateful those options were available, as it would've been awkward to have nothing to put in my mouth while everyone around me was eating.

Don't get me wrong, I'm into good food and I'm not a martyr! When dining with omnivores on a more personal level, I don't hesitate to steer them toward vegan (or at least vegetarian) restaurants. Over the years, certain people have demonstrated what seems like a bit of hostility (my father) or passive-agressiveness (my partner's mother) when it comes to where we eat or what is served at home, but those are the times I get to show my flexibility!

Keep up the good work!
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Thank you EVERYONE for responding to my post. I don't know how to express how great it is to get opinions and ideas from other vegans.
PS. The work/food situation worked out this time and I had a few really great vegan options to choose from, in the end I'm glad I spoke up.
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Being vegan is something I will definitely do very soon. Fruits and vegetables are what I eat mostly anyway, and some nuts/seeds. Meat is unnecessary in a diet, so is dairy. I hate dairy products and can always find an alternative snack/drink. Herbal tea for drink, or simply plain water, possibly spiked with lemon. Chocolate is my only vice. It is too good. Maybe I should find vegan chocolate, made with nut milk or rice milk. Not soymilk, though. I'm not a big soy fan. I'll figure out what I have to do soon. Raw veganism is probably where I want to be. It would be a less of a burden on the electric bill and less burns from the stove. May be worth it.
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Being vegan is something I will definitely do very soon. Fruits and vegetables are what I eat mostly anyway, and some nuts/seeds. Meat is unnecessary in a diet, so is dairy. I hate dairy products and can always find an alternative snack/drink. Herbal tea for drink, or simply plain water, possibly spiked with lemon. Chocolate is my only vice. It is too good. Maybe I should find vegan chocolate, made with nut milk or rice milk. Not soymilk, though. I'm not a big soy fan. [...]
I rarely buy chocolate, but if I do, I buy the chocolate bars from Sweet Williams. As far as I understand it, they aren't made with any soymilk. The ingredients list on their "Original" (plain) chocolate bar is as follows:

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Ingredients:
  • Cane sugar
  • Cocoa butter
  • Soy flour
  • Cocoa mass
  • Emulsifiers (Soya lecithin, 476)
  • Flavour
[...] May contain traces of almonds. Trans fatty acid free. GMO free - supplier certified. Suitable for vegan.
Nutritional information is as follows (I won't list everything, just the more important ones... and since I live in Australia, everything is in metric measurements -- just whip out an online conversion table [scroll down to the brown table for weight measurements] if you want conversions):

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Serving size = 50g = 1 bar
  • Fat- total = 18.3g. DV = 28%
    • Saturated = 10.0g. DV = 50%
    • Trans = 0.0g
    • Monounsaturates = 6.2g.
    • Polyunsaturates = 2.1g
  • Cholesterol = 0.0mg
  • Sodium = 7mg. DV = 0%
  • Protein = 5.3g. DV = 11%
  • Lactose = 0.0g
  • Cocoa solids content DV = 38%
* Percentage Daily Values (DV) of Percentage Daily Intake is per serve, and is based on a diet of 2000 calories (8350k). Your daily intake may be more of less depending on your energy needs. Nutritional values based on average.

* Natural fats are from soy and cocoa.
You can check out their product range (ie. the range of flavours/types the bars come in) here.

In terms of taste/texture, I think they are pretty good (which is saying something, since I used to buy mostly high quality "gourmet" type chocolate when I was not vegan and don't really like low quality "candy" type chocolate that is used for just about everything). Since they aren't made with any dairy products, they have what I would describe as a "smoother", "cleaner" taste that isn't as milky as normal chocolate made with dairy. I actually prefer it to normal chocolate, as to me, the flavour is more intense and higher quality (although I do miss Guylian chocolate sea shells). Personally, my favourite flavour is the Original flavoured bar. I don't like the Tangerine flavoured bar (it just doesn't go well with the chocolate flavour, in my opinion) and I haven't tried their sugar free bars, chocolate spread, or Easter/Christmas products due to lack of availability

In terms of availability, I live in Australia, and these are the only vegan chocolates available in my area (as far as I know). You may/may not be able to get them in your area. For more information, check out the Sweet Williams International Sales and Enquiries page.

Update10/January/07:

While browsing Steve's blog archives, I found a comment where Steve gave a link to a website where you can find gourmet vegan Belgian chocolates. It seems to be something available in the USA, so those in the USA shouldn't have much trouble with availability since they offer delivery options (not sure about those outside of the USA, you'd have to either contact them and ask or try it out yourself... although they seem to offer options for international delivery in their ordering process). You can find the website here:

Rose City Chocolatier's Vegan Chocolate Selection - No dairy or milk products used.
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Last edited by Bruce Achterberg : 01-10-2007 at 09:01 AM. Reason: Added info.
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