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09-29-2007, 04:54 PM
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09-29-2007, 05:04 PM
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Anal breathing is a technique to separate ejaculation from orgasm. You really put too high of a price on the orgasm. Enjoy the journey. Seriously. There's a reason the two work in unison.
__________________ <jamariquay> I never understood the need for people to kill for their religion. Then I remembered, "Wait. If Optimus Prime tells me to gack someone, that ****er's going down." |
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09-29-2007, 05:10 PM
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I don't have a clue of what it is... let me yahoo... it has nothing to do with "breathing" it's a muscle contraction in lovemaking... lol... I guess milions do it... That's kind of what I meant in a thread when I said that orgarms can be separated from ejaculation... |
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09-30-2007, 06:07 PM
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Breath and energy control really does have an incredible effect with sex. It takes a lot of "training" though. But anal breathing is a pretty nasty sounding term though.
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09-30-2007, 06:55 PM
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When a man is about to come he feels pleasure and usually it ends when he comes. But if he avoids to come the pleasure can last a lot. And the control of coming or not is done not only with that thing they call anal breathing (some certain muscles to contract) but is a very important part of it. |
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09-30-2007, 07:03 PM
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I never heard of it being calling "anal breathing".... the image of an anus gas mask comes to mind.... ANYWAY.... i do the exercises every now and then. Im rather good at holding in an ejaculation and I rather keep my energy than let it go without my control. You were wondering why? If it works? yeah it does.   <Halcyon> |
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10-01-2007, 02:36 PM
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I never learnt from a website... maybe they could be even confusing like the words "anal breathing"... ?
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10-01-2007, 09:20 PM
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Sites? Just tense like your holding in urine and hold as long as you can in increments of 50. Anytime of the day. I read "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida and he touched on it a bit. its all you really need to know. |
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10-01-2007, 11:00 PM
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lol, funny thread. Are you thinking of kegel exercises? You can exercise your "PC" muscle, basically the muscle between your penis and your butthole. A Kegel exercise, named after Dr. Arnold Kegel, is an exercise designed to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles. The exercises consist of the regular clenching and unclenching of the sex muscles which form part of the pelvic floor (sometimes called the "Kegel muscles"). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise |
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10-02-2007, 03:12 PM
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Why...why....why...Whats wrong with just normal sex?! I am a kinky person lets not beat around the bush (  ) but honestly some of these things are ridiculous. Why would you want to extend the orgasm any longer?! It nearly causes cardiac arrest when it lasts just a few seconds. It would nigh on kill you if you extended it! There is a chemical reason why its short, because the amount of dopemine (amongst other things) released into the body is powerful stuff. Too much would kill you.
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Nearly causing a cardiac arrest? More like lowering my blood pressure, I say. 
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10-02-2007, 03:19 PM
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Haha Erki...lowering blood pressure...I laughed. The damn things nearly kill me sometimes haha. I once had one...there was a lot of build up mind you...and I swear I passed out for a few seconds haha...true story as well... |
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10-02-2007, 04:34 PM
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Why? To enjoy more. lol... It's different it's not a.... short moment, so it's not like a bomb... lol... it's long and not appears suddenly... kind of the women usual ones...
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10-02-2007, 09:51 PM
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10-04-2007, 03:40 AM
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How in the world did anyone come up with the term "Anal Breathing" to describe such a technique? The term alone makes me feel like a 12 yr old again just from laughing at it, and the images that it brings to mind  |
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10-05-2007, 11:15 PM
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I'm not sure what exercise you call "Anal Breathing". May be it is a wrong name. I can think of a few techniques that can be to some extent called such a name. First of all the Kegel's as described above. Then yes, you can breath with your anus as with any other part of the body. Of course you do not inhale oxigen, it's just a form of meditation. You imagine air or energy entering your body and exiting it from a certain spot. This draws attention to the spot and can help with healing, improving control and other objectives. I don't remember if there is any specific purpose for breathing with the anus, but there might be some. Then there is contracting and building strength of anal sphincter. It is good for health and helps to improve control of pelvic muscles. At some point of another I've done all of these techniques and found that each works as advertised.
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10-05-2007, 11:46 PM
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 ) then relaxation that Erki writes about. The thing is, that it is not the only orgasm there is. As I wrote in some other thread, I can identify at least three distinct types of orgasms just in my pelvic area alone. They are triggered in different ways and they have different qualities to them. One is more intense, other is more relaxed. Besides that I can feel orgasm in any part of the body or even a full body orgasm. And on top of all that they can all happen one after another in different combinations minutes or even seconds apart for hours. The women can do it. I was envious, so I've learned how to do it as well. Mind you this does not happen every time, requires a proper mood and setting and stamina (for the "hours" part) and even this modest result has required more then ten years of practice, but it is possible. So I have to say that the "usual" orgasm, which for most people is the most intense and pleasant physical sensation, is the feeblest, and plainest of all kinds known to me. But the pleasure is not the reason. It is not the real answer for the "why" question. The true reason is that these practices are only steps towards the control of sexual energy and ultimately towards spiritual growth. Towards spiritual growth together with your sexual partner, the person you love. I am still slowly moving along that path. I can't say that Taoist sexual practices are "the" way of spiritual growth. I've experienced faster results from other schools and teachings. But I believe that personal growth is about gaining more options. And then making conscious choices about these options. It's hard to claim consciousness when you have only one choice. In Western tradition there are not many options in sexual life, even now in post sexual revolution era. In the end you either have an orgasm or you don't the ways you get there are different but the difference is superficial Making more options available at this area is the prime reason why I practice various sexual techniques. The fact that this is an intimate area of our live, so emotionally charged, so full of controversial beliefs and quite hard to control makes it a great challenge. Almost as exciting as becoming an early riser Here is my short answer on your "why" question.
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10-06-2007, 12:32 AM
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To complicate things a little more you can have an orgasm (or a multiorgasm) not just without ejaculation even without sexual excitation (and without any sexual organ related), it's just in the mind. And this last one depends, even more of mood and energy. |
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10-06-2007, 03:00 AM
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Anal breathing is a form of sexual chi kung. Part of it is the contraction exercise (actually exercises) mentioned above. Mantak Chia is one of the taoist masters well known in the U.S. for sexual chi kung. The other parts of sexual chi kung include working with the flow of energy through other foundational exercises that help one to move chi, thus helping to restore energy to the body, including sexual energy. There is another Taoist practioner who is known for sexual chi kung: Dr. Lin. I'm not familiar with him but I found a site that describes some of his work: Healing Love: Lin's Links |
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10-06-2007, 12:31 PM
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Stopping anything coming out of you is suppression. Suppresssion is denial. Denial is fear. Fear is Anger. Anger leads to the dark side......... Opinions are just like arseholes.........everyone has one. Max |
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