|11-15-2011, 03:01 AM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Nov 2011
I have found the best job, but...
I always thought life would get easier as I got older. Well I'm 50 something now (all of a sudden) and I'm still having anxiety issues.
I found the best job of my life-I've been there for 4 1/2 years- I work with the public, which I like- but one of my coworkers of a different gender and a slightly higher position, absolutely hates my guts. And it's not just a matter of "oh no, somebody doesn't like me". He has seen to it that I have been denied money (long story) and constantly badmouths me to other coworkers, esp new people, and what's worse, my bosses. I am constantly being called to the office and made to defend myself. He must be an excellent liar because I can't get any of the bosses to believe me. Since this person controls the pursestrings in a way, none of my coworkers will stick up for me. They see what has happened to me could happen to them.
I don't know what to do. It's obvious that for some reason he'd like to see me quit but I will not. Meanwhile my life has turned sour. I'm so unhappy and incapacitated. I feel like I don't have time for anything but worry.
I'm due in the office, in trouble, again tomorrow. I haven't been sleeping and I'm gaining weight. Problem is, the same thing has happened to me at my last 2 jobs. Someone picks me out as the target of their hate for no reason.
But because it's happening again, I'm beginning to think maybe it is something I'm doing. I need advice. No criticism please.
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