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[Suzanne Yang]

Hi big foot,

I read some of your posts. It seems you are in a hurry to find a girl. I will say sometimes it is like a destiny.

I feel lots of pressure if people ask me to give them telephone when we just meet. How about just e-mail address? I will feel it is easier for me to give people my email address.

I feel guys think telephone number is an indicator whether you like this guys or not, but if i get lots of pressure, i just don't feel like to give it to you even I feel you are quite cute.

[bigfoot]

Feel like I have been neglecting my job spending so much time chasing tail. Missed a couple of soft deadlines last week that I probably could have made. Struggling for balance. Wish I had been able to take more time off.

[Apresto]

Women isn't the really the right thing to be disciplined on schedule like a fitness program putting the same effort into something more creative should make your ways to females a lot easier in time and less painful, too.

[bigfoot]

Heard back from a girl today that I went on a date with months ago and then disappeared on me. I was persistent about calling/texting and she replied to me today and we talked over phone for 15+ min, made plans to get together this weekend. Never underestimate the simple power of persistence.

Going to try to listen to more blueprint material (new material) before going to bed today.

bigfoot

[bigfoot]

Got 15 minutes into 12 of blueprint tonight

[bigfoot]

Spoke to a girl today I have been meaning to talk to for a while. She works at one of the companies I travel to for work. Her response was EXTREMELY positive. I've known this girl was attracted to me for a while. Interestingly, I also noticed some bizarre subconscious thoughts creeping into my head after speaking with her. Namely: I can't believe this girl actually likes me, she's too hot to date me. This is silly and irritates me. Its not valid. I know rationally its not valid and I think I have to keep reinforcing that message to my subconscious mind to let it sink in. Leaving aside for a moment the fact that are no prerequisites for attraction (i.e. you don't have to look great, make 1MM per year, etc.), there are plenty of objective reasons to believe she would be attracted to me.

1.) I have tremendous social proof at this office. I sit in a corner office across from her cubicle when I travel to the company. I have vice presidents coming in and out to meet with me. I am a full 10+ years younger than any of the people who are coming to talk to me. Definitely the only one under 40 (in my mid twenties) with an office there.
2.) connected to this, I have money and I'm sure she's aware of that
3.) I am a successful, powerful guy.

I am all hung up on how beautiful this girl is, but she has her imperfections. Body is amazing due to working out constantly. She's a little old though and it is starting to show slightly. Also, unmarried at 30+. A little short. Has kind of a lame job at the company. So WHY am I putting this person on such a pedestal? Bizzare man.

Also, dont worry about being nervous. If someone percieves you as being nervous while doing something, its a positive thing because it shows you can push through fear.

[bigfoot]

Have three dates this weekend. One tonight (have to leave in an hour). One tomorrow (with the girl that I hadn't talked to in months, good work man). And one Saturday.

Talked to that girl from work I mentioned in last post. Shot the ♥♥♥♥ with her for a while and she was being super friendly with me after that throughout the day. Also met another really pretty girl from another division of that company. Will be good to go back there.

Bigfoot

[bigfoot]

goal for tomorrow morning is to wake up at 6 and exercise. Come on. Get energized. Dream of starting a company.

Bigfoot

[bigfoot]

Decided to try to start exercising every day. Believe it will increase energy level. Exercised for 15 min yesterday (monday). Did not exercise today. Spent weekend with lady friend from out of state.

bigfoot

[AlexaWilson]

Bigfoot,

You seem like a big time player ;-) Kidding there - I know you want more than just a hook up.

On average how many women do you approach in a week? What sort of opening line do you have?

I would give her your business card (if you don't have one you can order some cheaply) or maybe offer to program your phone # into her cell.

Or ask for email addresses.

best of luck!

-Lex

[bigfoot]

Christmas is upon us. I am in NC this week. Just got back from Hooters there. Great place to hang out if you are trying to get better with girls. Definitely have a crush on one of the waitresses. We'll see if that works out.

Going to start getting into neuro-linguistic programming. Very interesting topic.

bigfoot

[bigfoot]

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[bigfoot]

Hypnotica: NLP PUA

[bigfoot]

Went to hooters again today. Felt nervous about going back. Oh no...people might think I'm weird. But I'm trying this thing where I consciously decide to do something and then I just DO IT. Because I rationally decided it was what I wanted to do. This is what Tony Robbins means by getting in the habit of making decisions.

Tonight I went to a bar in my hometown by myself. Tomorrow night I am going to go back and talk to 5 people I dont know. Having 2 girls I am sleeping with has made me a little complacent but I need to get back out and start talking to strangers again the way I was this summer.

Bigfoot

[Ceoarob]

Originally Posted by bigfoot

Spoke to a girl today I have been meaning to talk to for a while. She works at one of the companies I travel to for work. Her response was EXTREMELY positive. I've known this girl was attracted to me for a while. Interestingly, I also noticed some bizarre subconscious thoughts creeping into my head after speaking with her. Namely: I can't believe this girl actually likes me, she's too hot to date me. This is silly and irritates me. Its not valid. I know rationally its not valid and I think I have to keep reinforcing that message to my subconscious mind to let it sink in. Leaving aside for a moment the fact that are no prerequisites for attraction (i.e. you don't have to look great, make 1MM per year, etc.), there are plenty of objective reasons to believe she would be attracted to me.

1.) I have tremendous social proof at this office. I sit in a corner office across from her cubicle when I travel to the company. I have vice presidents coming in and out to meet with me. I am a full 10+ years younger than any of the people who are coming to talk to me. Definitely the only one under 40 (in my mid twenties) with an office there.
2.) connected to this, I have money and I'm sure she's aware of that
3.) I am a successful, powerful guy.

I am all hung up on how beautiful this girl is, but she has her imperfections. Body is amazing due to working out constantly. She's a little old though and it is starting to show slightly. Also, unmarried at 30+. A little short. Has kind of a lame job at the company. So WHY am I putting this person on such a pedestal? Bizzare man.

Also, dont worry about being nervous. If someone percieves you as being nervous while doing something, its a positive thing because it shows you can push through fear.

I would just like to say, thank you for this post.

This has just caused the greatest epiphany inside myself.

Yeh.