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blacko · 07-27-2010, 10:15 AM

So how did you do it for the first time??? Did you know all about that or it just happened one fine day??

blacko · 07-27-2010, 10:54 AM

What happened after that?

Angelique · 07-27-2010, 11:36 AM

I was doing situps when I was 11 and felt this *Wtf* .....didn't know what had happened. I was a little embarrassed because other people were there. Afterwards nothing happened for 3 years, I understood it then. Unfortunately, I felt a lot of religious guilt over it so I would pray for forgiveness afterwards.

KaleidoskopicVision · 07-27-2010, 01:07 PM

Asked my mom what a sperm donor is (I don't remember why), she explained it vaguely and I figured it out from there.

Feels good man.

elucidate · 07-27-2010, 01:12 PM

Honestly...I can't remember. It was so long ago now, and it's happened so much, as well as sex with others, that it's all kinda blurred into one massive orgasm

MidasGirl · 07-27-2010, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by blacko

So how did you do it for the first time??? Did you know all about that or it just happened one fine day??

I'm kinda curious why you ask...........why do you ask?

metamorph · 07-27-2010, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Angelique

I was doing situps when I was 11...

I will never see women at my gym with the same eyes again....

carenkh · 07-27-2010, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by MidasGirl

I'm kinda curious why you ask...........why do you ask?

I am wondering, too. Why are you asking?

blacko · 07-27-2010, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by carenkh

I am wondering, too. Why are you asking?

I think I should have put this in the fun & recreation topic... Is there any way to move??

st33med · 07-27-2010, 02:52 PM

I was just bouncing my pelvis in my bed at 12, a little hyper. Then I just felt this 'silver' moment, as I called it. It felt good. I kept going back to doing those things repeatedly, not even knowing for a year that it was called masturbating (How? Don't know XD).

I somehow became guilty for doing it and stopped for a month.

carenkh · 07-27-2010, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by blacko

I think I should have put this in the fun & recreation topic... Is there any way to move??

Done! Now we know why you asked!

blacko · 07-27-2010, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by carenkh

Done! Now we know why you asked!

Thanks girl

royster · 07-27-2010, 02:59 PM

What a stroke of luck to find this thread!

In the spirit of Andrew Gubb honesty, my first orgasm was while being molested at 9 years old.

lifetimelearner · 07-27-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

What a stroke of luck to find this thread!

In the spirit of Andrew Gubb honesty, my first orgasm was while being molested at 9 years old.

wow Royster that made me so sad

elucidate · 07-27-2010, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

What a stroke of luck to find this thread!

In the spirit of Andrew Gubb honesty, my first orgasm was while being molested at 9 years old.

Even 'bad touch' feels good...which is why it can lead to so much guilt and shame later on.

royster · 07-27-2010, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by elucidate

Even 'bad touch' feels good...which is why it can lead to so much guilt and shame later on.

It has taken years of concentrated effort to sort it out, and develop a healthy view of sex, which I did. What makes my child-molestation story so remarkable is that the guy apparently got worse and worse and began killing his victims...so I heard. YOWZA!

elucidate · 07-27-2010, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

It has taken years of concentrated effort to sort it out, and develop a healthy view of sex, which I did. What makes my child-molestation story so remarkable is that the guy apparently got worse and worse and began killing his victims...so I heard. YOWZA!

Holy crap!

That's pretty rare I think...for a child molester to 'graduate' to murder? Never heard of that before...but then, I don't really study it as an obsession.

Glad that your hard work has paid off for you Royster

James81 · 07-27-2010, 03:08 PM

Yes, I did actually. (How did you know? You must be some kind of wizard!)

I had been having erections for a while at this point, and I knew it felt good to play with them. But I had no idea what happened when you consistently rubbed it.

I remember that it kept feeling better and better, but then suddenly I felt this rush, like I had to pee and I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I remember very clearly thinking that I had peed my pants (I still had my underwear on). I took my underwear off and looked and noticed that it didn't look like pee though. Then I kinda picked up on it after that.

brendannz · 07-27-2010, 03:10 PM

Nobody had wet dreams first?

elucidate · 07-27-2010, 03:13 PM

Don't they happen during sleep though, and without any physical stimulation...just ejaculation?

royster · 07-27-2010, 03:17 PM

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Glad that your hard work has paid off for you Royster

I was hoping for some good off-beat beat-off jokes. And i will gladly participate after one more serious note:

it was a stunning revelation to find that those you rely on for protection and support (at that age) refuse to believe you. In my case, no one wanted to say anything until many years later, when they, themselves, were filled with regret and guilt.

My FIRST-HAND experience with masturbation, after that incident, was a remarkable marriage to my sheets and pillow. We went on to have several children and I changed my name to "Linen". The eventual divorce was refered to as the "pillow case" and she got custody of the dust ruffle.

I evolved to masturbating in the shower...one way to come clean.

lifetimelearner · 07-27-2010, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

It has taken years of concentrated effort to sort it out, and develop a healthy view of sex, which I did. What makes my child-molestation story so remarkable is that the guy apparently got worse and worse and began killing his victims...so I heard. YOWZA!

wow that is scary

lifetimelearner · 07-27-2010, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

My FIRST-HAND experience with masturbation, after that incident, was a remarkable marriage to my sheets and pillow. We went on to have several children and I changed my name to "Linen". The eventual divorce was refered to as the "pillow case" and she got custody of the dust ruffle.

you are funny !

I am happy you got through the tough times

royster · 07-27-2010, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by blacko

I think I should have put this in the fun & recreation topic... Is there any way to move??

You can PM the moderator, but i think you've started a fun and viable topic. Please let it stay.

Oh yes, let it stay.

Just for another second...just a little more...

okay!

elucidate · 07-27-2010, 03:22 PM

Sadly, this is all too common...and has happened to me as well, when a 'friend of the family' tried to stick his hand down my nightshirt one night...while my parents were in the next room playing cards with him and his wife.

They STILL minimize it and thought I was lying...10 years after I told them (which took me a few months to get up the courage to tell them, fearing that they wouldn't believe me...which they didn't)

Denial is a comfy option...but it doesn't mean that they didn't love you, it just means that they weren't able to face the truth. Doesn't help you though.

As for pillows...I hear that's another common thing amongst boys

Quote:

Originally Posted by royster

I was hoping for some good off-beat beat-off jokes. And i will gladly participate after one more serious note:

it was a stunning revelation to find that those you rely on for protection and support (at that age) refuse to believe you. In my case, no one wanted to say anything until many years later, when they, themselves, were filled with regret and guilt.

My FIRST-HAND experience with masturbation, after that incident, was a remarkable marriage to my sheets and pillow. We went on to have several children and I changed my name to "Linen". The eventual divorce was refered to as the "pillow case" and she got custody of the dust ruffle.

royster · 07-27-2010, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by lifetimelearner

you are funny !

I am happy you got through the tough times

To quote Patti Smith AND glean both insight, yet a joke:

Quote:

"Those who have suffered
understand suffering
and therefore lend a HAND..."

AlmostGodess · 07-27-2010, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by royster

To quote Patti Smith AND glean both insight, yet a joke:

Royster, I love you!

blacko · 07-27-2010, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by elucidate

Don't they happen during sleep though, and without any physical stimulation...just ejaculation?

oh yes, You find your undie wet in the morning... (don't know if girls have wet dreams..)

lifetimelearner · 07-27-2010, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by AlmostGodess

Royster, I love you!

I second that

blacko · 07-27-2010, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by brendannz

Nobody had wet dreams first?

So did you have wet dreams first???? Oh hmmmmmmmmm ok..ok

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Angelique Family Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,760	I was doing situps when I was 11 and felt this Wtf .....didn't know what had happened. I was a little embarrassed because other people were there. Afterwards nothing happened for 3 years, I understood it then. Unfortunately, I felt a lot of religious guilt over it so I would pray for forgiveness afterwards.

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KaleidoskopicVision Family Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 2,296	Asked my mom what a sperm donor is (I don't remember why), she explained it vaguely and I figured it out from there. Feels good man.

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royster Family Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 5,479	What a stroke of luck to find this thread! In the spirit of Andrew Gubb honesty, my first orgasm was while being molested at 9 years old.

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James81 Banned Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 12,690	Yes, I did actually. (How did you know? You must be some kind of wizard!) I had been having erections for a while at this point, and I knew it felt good to play with them. But I had no idea what happened when you consistently rubbed it. I remember that it kept feeling better and better, but then suddenly I felt this rush, like I had to pee and I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I remember very clearly thinking that I had peed my pants (I still had my underwear on). I took my underwear off and looked and noticed that it didn't look like pee though. Then I kinda picked up on it after that.

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