How to Create Your Soul Mate (Blog)

[Erin Pavlina]

Use this thread to discuss the following entry from Erin Pavlina's blog:

How to Create Your Soul Mate

[elucidate]

Awesome...I loved it. This is what I've been doing except for the part about thinking on where the person might be, and then go and put myself in that environment, though I have done the internet thing, and joined groups, so I feel like I've been doing all the right things so far. This was reassuring.

[Bliss Sage]

I found him, but he is far away and we are separated by an iron and overly violent fist of politics and bureaucracy that we don't have control over. How can I manifest him here into my apartment? I've been visualizing up the wazoo, and it helps me feel really blissful while we wait... Any further suggestions or ideas of things I could do to translate him into physical reality...on my side, I'm doing pretty much everything and all advice I come across. He doesn't know about I-M.

[Elfwing]

This is quite synchronistic. This morning I started daydreaming about what my life with my "soul mate" would be just for fun, and thought, "Hey, this is funner than I though!" and then this shows up!

[Erin Pavlina]

Bliss, if I were in your shoes I would figure out what the legal ways are for him to leave the country (assuming that's what you both want) and work diligently on getting that to happen. Make sure he is a vibrational match for leaving.

And if after a certain period of time you couldn't make it work, I would consider that he doesn't meet all your criteria for a mate if, hopefully, one of your criteria is that you be physically in the same place.

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina

Bliss, if I were in your shoes I would figure out what the legal ways are for him to leave the country (assuming that's what you both want) and work diligently on getting that to happen. Make sure he is a vibrational match for leaving.

And if after a certain period of time you couldn't make it work, I would consider that he doesn't meet all your criteria for a mate if, hopefully, one of your criteria is that you be physically in the same place.

Thanks. So far I've been trying to work on my own blocks. They have left me wondering if I actually did want the guy to be physically in the same place as me. I mean, of course I do, but I have found out that things in me were working against that. I hope all of those things will be gone soon.

I've gotten some big and very positive "alpha reflections," as Steve says, about this relationship, so I am hopeful that when I get these energies straightened out in me, things will start to happen faster.

P.S. Speaking of manifestation impediments, what do you know about the correlation between being grounded and manifesting what you want? The last thing I was told...well, someone said my spirit guides said I have to ground myself more or else I can't manifest what I am trying to manifest.

[Erin Pavlina]

Depends on what they meant by grounding. Were they referring to your root chakra and increasing your sense of security, stability, and abundance? or were they referring to "getting your head out of hte clouds" and getting "real" about your circumstances?

[Bliss Sage]

Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina

Depends on what they meant by grounding. Were they referring to your root chakra and increasing your sense of security, stability, and abundance? or were they referring to "getting your head out of hte clouds" and getting "real" about your circumstances?

I wish I knew.

[AlmostGodess]

I read this article over a cup of tea, with very heavy rain outside. It made my rainy day perfect