6 Ways to Raise Someone Else?s Vibration (Blog)

[Erin Pavlina]

Use this thread to discuss the following entry from Erin Pavlina's blog:

6 Ways to Raise Someone Else?s Vibration

[Angela]

I love most of these ideas, but if I were feeling down and someone were to sing "Eye of the Tiger" at me, or splash cold water into my face, I don't think I'd laugh or be very inspired to hang out with them again.

An interruption of a state can be done in a less assault-like manner -- just by asking one excellent question, or by saying or doing something that confuses them.

And I love that you are a committed vibration-raiser, Erin!

[Weena]

Those advices are for people who are sad or depressed. For these, the advices are great. However may i ask further, how do you raise the vibration of someone who has a tendency to be nasty (sugar coated, smiley, sneaky nastiness)?

[Angelique]

Originally Posted by Angela

An interruption of a state can be done in a less assault-like manner -- just by asking one excellent question, or by saying or doing something that confuses them.

So true! My friend gave me a tip to use the "Purple Elephant Technique." He said if he got into a deep, vehement discussion that was going around in circles he'd use it. He'd nonchalantly bring a comment in about purple elephants. He said it usually left them speechless.

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by Angela

An interruption of a state can be done in a less assault-like manner -- just by asking one excellent question, or by saying or doing something that confuses them.

Such as:

What is your favorite movie?

What was the best holiday you've ever been on?

What makes you happy?

And what you could do is ask them for help. And thank them, and tell them how much they've helped you. Feeling helpful (and useful) normally helps people get out of their own mind and in a better state of mind.

[elucidate]

Originally Posted by Weena

Those advices are for people who are sad or depressed. For these, the advices are great. However may i ask further, how do you raise the vibration of someone who has a tendency to be nasty (sugar coated, smiley, sneaky nastiness)?

That's a tough one.

[ssandra]

Originally Posted by Weena

Those advices are for people who are sad or depressed. For these, the advices are great. However may i ask further, how do you raise the vibration of someone who has a tendency to be nasty (sugar coated, smiley, sneaky nastiness)?

I tread those type of comments at face value. Even if they clearly mean something nasty but saying something "sweet", I just interpret it as sweet and nice.

I am not sure if that raises their vibration actually... but it makes me joyful and happy!

[Angelique]

Originally Posted by ssandra

I tread those type of comments at face value. Even if they clearly mean something nasty but saying something "sweet", I just interpret it as sweet and nice.

I am not sure if that raises their vibration actually... but it makes me joyful and happy!

Me too! lol

I giggle like a school girl and say "Thank you." That usually makes them laugh too.