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Old 06-29-2009, 09:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Erin I would love to hear Your list of the Top 10 most important questions Your sitters as you. And Let me be the first to get rid of:

Is my recently deceased loved one safe on the other side?
Am I ever going to find my "Soul Mate" ?
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Am I going to win the Lottery?

I'm sure these are Important to the sitter, but what questions make you sit back, gasp, and go, wow, good question?

Everyone feel to free to chime in with your best question you would like to ask a Psychic.

I think one of my favorites would be, is this World in for a shake up due to a major natural disaster?

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Old 06-29-2009, 09:16 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Great idea Ace.

I've actually only had a handful of people ask me for lottery numbers. It's surprising but I think most of my sitters are educated on these sorts of things before they book with me.

I could write a post about the best questions I've been asked.
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Old 06-29-2009, 09:56 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yo dude, give me a minute. I got 30 things on my plate and i"m giving a speech tonight. Patience, grasshoppa.
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LOL. Geez, Ace.
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Worst possible question to ask your reader:

"Will my spouse find out about my lover"? (when spouse is on the other line)
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2nd worst question to ask your reader:

"Um, did you cash that check yet"?
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Old 06-30-2009, 12:03 AM   #9 (permalink)
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The question I cringe at is: Should I marry my fiance? Being engaged is usually a time of great certainty and love. Attachment to a certain outcome is high. I just hate when the answer is no, but at least I can tell them why and it will resonate with them on some level.

I told this one woman that her son and his fiance wouldn't make to the altar. she was really angry at me. I told her why too. But she didn't believe it was possible. Three months later she told me they found out the truth about the fiance, it's what I said it was, and she was supremely grateful for her reading. Booked another one at that time.

but I hate giving good people bad news.
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Erin,

Do you feel it is always best to avoid Yes/No questions?
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What about bad people?
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Haven't met a bad person yet. I have read for a stalker though. That was creepy. Luckily I had the foresight to meet him in a public place. And I read for a guy who was planning to commit murder and needed some help with a few details...
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And I read for a guy who was planning to commit murder and needed some help with a few details...
And did you help him?

Or went to the police..?
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His guides helped him find an option that was more in alignment with love.
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His guides helped him find an option that was more in alignment with love.
That seems even more valuable than helping the police find dead bodies. That must have felt great!
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It was. That was a reading I did very early on in my career and it was sort of freaky to be talking to someone who was planning to murder someone. He wasn't without reason, though. The guy he was planning to kill was someone who escaped justice after raping his young daughter, and who had molested many other children in his care. We worked on exposing him publicly instead of killing him in cold blood.
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Were you prepared to help him plan this murder had his guides not intervened? Which of course would have made you an accomplice.
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It was. That was a reading I did very early on in my career and it was sort of freaky to be talking to someone who was planning to murder someone. He wasn't without reason, though. The guy he was planning to kill was someone who escaped justice after raping his young daughter, and who had molested many other children in his care. We worked on exposing him publicly instead of killing him in cold blood.
Yikes!

I admire your fortitude, Erin. Doing a reading (or even speaking with someone talking about something like that) would be challenging for me to say the least.

I guess it helps that you're pretty tuned in, tapped in, turned on while doing your readings. Soul wisdom is nice.
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ace, his guides explained to him what would happen if he chose to murder the man, and how he'd end up in jail and his daughter would be without family (mom was already gone). They also showed him how he could get justice without breaking the law himself. I actually did two or three sessions with him while he was considering all of this (we talked about other things besides his plans), and over time his heart got much lighter and his power increased as he was taking action to expose this individual and prevent him from hurting other kids.
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Ah, that's really wonderful Erin.
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Hm, how about:

"What is the greatest thing I could reasonably do for you" from a sitter?
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