How do you know when a spirit has crossed over?

[Rubyangel]

Erin, my daughter died two months ago... I've always been able to 'feel' the spirit of my great grandmother around me but for the last two months had not felt my daughter at all. I was starting to get concerned but then went to a medium a couple of days ago. While I was there I felt both my great grandmother (whom has been gone for years) and my little girl. My grandmother was on my left shoulder and my little girl on my right. I felt my right cheek go really warm as if she had pressed her hot little face up against mine. Which makes a big difference to the last time I held her. She was a still born and very very cold.

The medium told me I would have three days to speak to her if I wanted to. Since then I have not been able to feel her again... I am starting to think that she said goodbye to me then and has now crossed over and thats why I can't pick up on her again.

But then having said that... why can I always seem to get my great grandmother, even though i was very young when she died and we werent particularly close (as far as i know)... does that mean she hasn't crossed? or if she has, why can i not get my daughter?

How do you know when they have crossed over? Is there a way that i can get myself in a better place to be able to pick up them?

[MiBeloved]

A person who left a stillborn body is apt to enter into the psyche of the same or a different parent as soon as the baby form is lost. The key to understanding this is to know that anyone who was already forming an embryo is already in a state that is highly compatible to getting a new body. Hence such a person will immediately enter again into the same or into another parent’s form according to suitability.

What is this suitability?

It is the likelihood that the would be parent will be begetting an embryo shortly. Thus if your daughter left a still born body and if you are not intending to beget a child right now, that person, whom you address as your daughter will be forcibly drawn into another woman’s aura. That would depend on that other woman‘s; likelihood to beget shortly.

In the case of your grandmother, she is still using a subtle body which closely resembles her old body which died and she is still in touch with the memory of that life, and thus it is easy for her mind to stay focused in touch with you. However as soon as she contacts the aura of a new parent, her subtle form will change into an embryo form and she will lose touch with the memory of her former life, unless she is a liberated entity with vast mystic capacity for remembering past births.

One is apt to feel isolated from a child who passes from an infant body, but all the same one should try to overcome that and wish that entity well in finding another parent unless one is willing to beget a new body for that personality. If one can do so, the entity wills again reenter into one’s psyche and the loneliness will go away.

[Cuddles444]

Their Crossing Over doesn't mean being gone from you forever. Setting time aside for daily meditation and relaxation will give you a quieter mind. A quiet mind is one of the essentials for picking up non physical communications. Have a look at www.mindsoulspirit.com it is a very useful site. Communication from other areas is usually non intrusive and most won't be aware because we get too busy in our minds. Impatience and pushing or demanding tends to get in the way of picking up the more subtle things.