Question

[spcbear00]

I'm not really sure if I'm posting this in the right place, but I need all the advice I can get at this point. Two nights ago I had a dream about one of my best friends, Tyler, who died in an avalanche this past January. This is not the first dream I have had about him, but this dream has been bothering me for two days now. In my dream it was night time and I was going to meet up with two of my good friends who were also close to Tyler. When I arrived, we were standing outside and Tyler was with us. I looked at him, as I was surprised to see him standing there. I told him "Tyler, I miss you so much! Can I give you a hug?" He responded with tears in his eyes, "I miss you too, but you can't give me a hug, i'm a spirit, your body will go right through mine." I then looked at him and said, "Tyler, don't cry. We will all see you again someday." He looked back at me and stated, "I'll see you very soon." Then I woke up. What does this dream mean?? It has really been bothering me. Thanks for all who can offer advice!!

[Mato Kinze]

Perceptions of time can be a little sketchy with spirits. For us, time seems pretty constant, but even for us, the definition of "very soon" is going to vary wildly.

A year can be an eternity if there's something you want really badly and have to wait for, or it can be a very short time if there's something you dread or have to get accomplished in.

For spirits who comprehend eternity, 80-100 years is insignificant.

That being said, your friend could be telling you to get your affairs in order. Either way, it's never a bad thing to treat each day with love and respect and to reach out and connect on the most intimate level with those who matter to you.

[winterwind]

OMG!

I would have been so freaked out by that dream too!

Just relax though, you're not going anywhere until it's time. And when it's time, your soul will be ready. No fears. Just enjoy yr days!